My Spiritual Psychotherapeutics teacher, Mr. Peter Goldman (Centre of New Directions UK) teaches during the second level of studies the need to find a healer space and respect a patient’s space too. Since he made me a teacher (gave me a certificate of 1998 and told me that it was time for me to teach this subject too) I have looked into the vast realization of subjects that that very talented teacher and healer gifted us, his students. In that search It became very cleared to me that the use of respect in our daily endeavors may neglects a very essential facets of respect, a facet that give a whale different value to our reality and self- protection, self-realization and living in peace within the human race.

I don’t explain the abused uses that the word respect been given reality. Rather I’ll point out an understanding that may allow you in your silence space, to look inside of you to see what does it do or you and how, if at all, you can apply it in your life in order to improve them. You do realize that I cannot go as deep and as vast as in my Universal Psychotherapeutics training Level 2 but I believe that a key that is given with willing heart will open some positive possibilities, and it is given here to you with a willing hart and respect.

Self-Respect to me is not to avoid from being a sponge used by other or being a servant – My work as a messenger, a teacher and a healer is a servant work, a servant mission and not a status building professions. It is very essential for our Self-Realization, Self-Protection and to find the harmony that will make space to positive reality be yours, to find your own space and respect it. Your own space is not a house or a car or a place that you love to go to in nature. Your space is always attached to you. It is an unseen performance of feeling safety and attunes to your many layers’ functioning without allowing another person to enter there. Not to allow other person not to respect your space, your personality, your feelings, your ideas and not to hand them over to some body without a proper exchanged fee that makes you feel good and respect yourself. Fee that you may get in exchange to something you give or share with others is not merely money. But, it’s always something that show you the respect that you receive from the one that exchanged it with you and it is never given free no matter how deep you’ll love another person or how deep you want to buy another people appreciation and companionship.

Once you learn to acknowledge your space you’ll be protected both from energy vampires and talented users. You’ll need at a same time to be attune and respect other people’s space too. Such two ways respect will create an environment of harmony and mutual space respect that without means of legal law, religions and some other people philosophy you’ll create your own peace and the peace in your near by environment, other will do so too.

Actually, in no time, a great transformation can take place in human realities. It may need one step made by a person that realizes that the present is the best time to respect his/her space and to maintain it he/she will respect other people space too and will not allow any other type of relations to swallow them any longer.

Love and Light

Estie Hoter Geuza (Estia)