Ok well I started dating this girl about 7 months ago and everything was going great and then one day i texted her and she never replied and i kept text for a week or so and finally after about 2 weeks she replied he dad had her locked up for using marijuana so i was like ok well how you been and she said she was still locked up so i asked how she was able to text and she told me her mom had brought her phone on a visit well when she got out we texted a few days and we stopped talking again i couldnt get ahold of her
she had her facebook account deactivated or blocked me so i went into the hands of asking her family well her stepmom hadnt heard from her then a couple days later she texts me and i text back and she goes dont text this phone anymore im grounded for a long time and we lost contact for a couple months and she messages me on facebook and we started talking i was really exicted and i got her number bcz i had erased it bcz i was trying to move on
well we started talking and it was like on a tuesday we started talking and its been about a month since we started talking and I try to come see her but she keeps making excuses like her moms not feeling good so i cant bcz her mom wont let me or her mom has the flu or her stepdads not home and her mom dont feel good well its been 7 months and i still havent meet her family and i only see her on weekends and when i do its only for a day we text everyday and what caught my attention is she is in band she plays the drums
well yesterday she said if it takes her a long time to text back
its because she is at band practice well it was at 7:00 at night why would they have practice that late? then she didnt text me back till around 9 and we talked till 10 and she said she was tired and wanted to go to bed so ive been have doubts that shes just seeing me and im really worried and i know it takes trust in a healthy relationship but its killing me to know why she wont let me see her family or hang out except on weekends
I love her more than anything and she says she may be pregnant and that im the dad and that excites me more than anything but im just not sure so please if anyone can give me any tips or how to ask her or even what to do please i need answers... thank you for taking the time to even read this for those of you who do read it thank you again it really shows someone does care because i always ask people i know and they just like dump her well they dont care how i feel about her and i know most people on here do care how i feel and that means alot to me because if it came to it id die for her
WTF?! Do what is the hardest in your mind, that is talk about everything that is bothering you and what you feel. If she is not understanding, give her some time then ask again. If you can't communicate with her, then the relationship will not work. A general mix of things that make relationships work is trust, mutual respect, communication, and love. If any one is missing, including sex, then it falls apart eventually.
One thing to remember, as a male, you'll enjoy many, many more relationships as long as you're more mature and can handle it. Don't get hung up over one girl, there are many, many out there. I'm not saying don't love, I'm saying don't feel like you're obligated to go through emotional hell with her. That's why I encourage open communication, do not let her close it. If she can't communicate, even if you give her time, you have to be man enough to figure out that it's not going to work. By the way, "love" changes over time. What you feel now does not necessarily mean that you'll feel it a year from now. Put your emotions aside and figure this out logically for a moment and decide if it's a ride worth taking. Ultimately, you're in control and have to put on the big boy pants and man up to a potential baby. ASK for a genetic test to make sure that it's yours. Many people cheat, not all, probably 1/2, so make sure to be careful, honest, and direct. If she throws any tantrum, call her out on what she is - a whiner and you won't tolerate it. Change the words to your own style, but be firm and always voice your stance - politely when possible.
But, based on what little you wrote and gut instinct, I say it's time to take a dump.
I think you should step back and TAKE A BREATH..... your letter has NO punctuation.... it is just one big rambling sentence that sounds anxious and desperate. Which must mean that you are anxious and desperate. This is never a good way to begin or advance a-n-y relationship.
Glaze, your letter is so, so very sad. Not because your girlfriend is possibly a cheating flake, but because your life is such a mess!
Yes, how sad. A seemingly sensitive, caring boy, who I'm sure is loaded with potential, and yet, you are unable to write a letter any better than a 7 year old. No punctuations, capitals, paragraphs....HELP!!!!
Look kid, get your nose into your schoolbooks, work hard at improving your intellect, get a vocation or means to improve your lot in life. When you have matured and bettered yourself, then, and only then, find yourself a good woman who matches all your fine qualities. Meanwhile, keep girls as friends, but guard your emotions carefully.
You really do sound like a great kid. Stop shrotchanging yourself. If you don't, your lack of understanding will propel you into anger and bitterness in a few years. Then we will hear from you that women are all b&#*3$
You deserve better in life, but only you can forge your own destiny.
You don't any part of this nut. What's wrong with you? You want to ruin your future? How many problems did you list in this short amount of space...lots is the answer. Band practice? How old are you kids?
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I think my girlfriend is cheating on me 
