For a while I have been trying to loosen bonds with a person in the hope that the relationship would fizzle out basically by declining invitations . Only for this individual turning up unexpectedly on Christmas day and rushing off before I had time to open the gift which was a knife. The manner of her behaviour was distinctly cold and without a doubt was given in malice. I can say that I have had sleepless nights since and am exhausted. I can't breath like fishout of water pulling air and as such keeps me awake. I feel out of sorts naturally but is the remedy of giving her a silver coin going to be enough. I'm happy about the severence but the I'll intention behind it I feel is far reaching and don't know how to deal with it. Can anyone advice a solution the feng shui forum doesn't seem to be active. More alarming only googling it up I discovered this act invites "killing breath" . together with that I'm tangibly feeling as though Forceps pinching on the right side of my waist and a pain under my right rib cage at the back on and off .This maybe inconsequential? What do I do with the knife at the moment it's outside pointing downwards is there a ceromony of some sorts to "nullify" it? Thank you
Turn clockwise, three times, your arms out, blessing everyone on earth, and all life on this planet...saying that everyone on earth finds the exact right solutions to their problems...and believe it.
With your every thought of her, wish her well.
And try this...
"I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you."
Also...
"There, there, little one. You'll be okay. I'll take care of you."
Some things just need to be said. And the Universe doesn't mind who says it...as long as it gets said.
Wish everyone well...even ax murderers. That's the only way this earth CAN be better. We don't HAVE TO associate with anyone, but we wish them well, no matter what.
And bless the ambassadors of the world...they have a huge job to do.
Happy 2012, 125342.
May your finest dreams come true.
Fledgling
Besides, the legend about giving sharp implements is that it severs the friendship, isn't it? That isn't necessarily a bad thing, sometimes...perhaps?
Your creepy "friend" probably knew what he was doing when he gave you the knife and when he left quickly. He was afraid you would give him something in return which would nullify the bad luck he wanted you to have. You could mail him a penny to make the exchange complete. He'll know what it's for.
You might be letting your imagination get the best of you. I have friends who are caterers. I have gifted them with knives and nothing bad happened.
Thanks everyone for your responses! Finally with some deep and careful consideration decided to return the item not as a gift but as unsuitable goods. As she was not at home I left it unwrapped inside a bag, alongwith with a gift of good intent of my own outside the door. It Felt the correct way forward was to reverse this act with Yes love and good will instead. An earnest attempt to counteract or prevent karmic consequences too to the giver of the initial " gift" as well as to myself the reciever by responding cleanly as possible! I had just got out of the drive way before remembering to remove a card that had change in it from the bag and promptly posted it through the door! Phew! So thanks everyone once again for the advice it's been very very helpful!