I have been friends with a great guy for 20+ years. His sister is my best friend. Anyway, the brother and I are both single parents in our mid 30's. We spend loads of time together, both with the kids and without. He is a great friend, we talk on the phone almost everyday and go out together without our children maybe twice a month or so. The problem is, I have feelings for him, and I think that maybe he does for me too. We have both been hurt in the past and I think that is holding us back. There is a lot of sexual tension there and we can say things to each other that we wouldn't say to anyone else. Any advice on how to proceed? I would love to have more out of this relationship. Thanks!
Sounds to me like you started out on the right track. What could be better then first being great friends with an understanding relationship to match. Sometimes taking a risk is difficult, but what could be the worst to happen? If you are open with each other from the start, you will be able to make the best choices.
Don't hold back and then have regret that you didn't go for it when you had the chance. Go for it!!!Good luck.
Here's exactly what you do. Get your nerve WAY, WAY UP for this because I am a guy and I know what works! Trust me on this one. Invite him over for whatever reason (without the kids) and when he shows up at the door you grab him with both arms and give him the biggest smack you've ever given in your life. No words, just action. Then take his hand and waltz him right into the house. That will work, guaranteed! Can you do that? There's no time for pussyfooting around here; you're both adults...get on with it. If you can do exactly what I have advised, you will get your point across and the ball is now in his court. If he's any kind of guy at all, will deliver from there.
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