My b/f of 5 months wakes up at 5:30am. I'm not a morning person, and I get up much later. He's horny in the morning, so he slides his hands under my pj's and starts feeling me up, grabbing my butt, licking my boobs, and "grinding" me, while I'm still half asleep! I've asked him nicely several times to stop doing this. I think it's rude, crude, and disrespectful if it's clearly not mutual. He says, "Excuse me for wanting to get close to you!" and that I'm being cold and pushing him away, even though we continue to cuddle. Then he's cold or argumentative for the rest of the day. I think he should respect my feelings about this and stop getting angry just because he can't get what he wants.
Am I being cold by not allowing him to molest me in the morning? I've tried every way possible to let him know how much this bothers me, but he doesn't want to hear it. What can I do? I'd like to hear from guys as well. My b/f thinks "all women are crazy" so he won't value replies from women!
Oh God it was like dejavu reading your post. My husband isn't quite as bad in that he doesn't do it everyday, but I feel the same way you do. It's rude. Morning just isn't the time for me. I feel gross and ugly (not to mention unclean) in the morning but he doesn't get it. Your boyfriend's attitude isn't fair and that's his problem not yours. I wish I could tell you what to say to make him stop. I'm still trying to figure that out myself.
It's one thing I've noticed from my limited experiences is that women generally prefer night sex and men are more into morning sex. We break our backs at our jobs. Women wouldn't understand that but you always expect us to be able to keep it going for you for 40 minutes at the end of a long day. And then they make snide comments.
Anyway, just keep that in mind but it does sound like he is being immature about it.
This is an area soooooooooo often misunderstood by wives and girlfriends around the globe. When your guy comes on to you he's A.) horny, B.) attracted to you physically, C.) Giving you a sign that he thinks you're attractive, D.) can't wait to disrespect you, E.) wants you to argue some more before work, F.) all the above. Which answer is correct, ladies? If you chose "D"...wrong. OK, guess again. "E"? No, missed again. Answer: "A", "B", and "C". Guys are hotwired to physically touch females who they think are hot. This is a guy's way of telling you that he wants sex, or just wants to fondle you for his enjoyment. You have what he likes. I know it's early in the am, but hey, he wants you. The physical nature is what makes a guy A GUY! We're not women! Lesbians probably don't fondle and bump and grind at 5:30am. Want that? He's an all-American guy with all-American tendancies. We want to touch the ones we love. Get over the disrespect angle...tired and so incorrect. We pat our honies on the asscheeks as a sign of affection. We play with our girlfriends hair because we think you look good and can't stay away. These are all good things in a relationship. When the loveplay ends, THAT'S WHEN YOU SHOULD WORRY! Many of you women out there reading this will say I just don't understand...ah, I just don't get it. Let me tell you one thing I do understand. Consider yourself a lucky woman when your guy wants you in such a powerful and demonstrative way. It's the best compliment you'll ever get from him. Believe me.
I know women aren't into it in the morning, so I don't even bother asking...As I mentionned on an other forum, I'm hard EVERY MORNING, don't remember one morning where I wasn't, I hate that...nothing I can do about it, thought.
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