My girlfriend is like one hot girl, she's got a nice body and she's very cute and I'm very happy in our relationship, but there's this one thing that kind of bothers me...given the fact that she has a darker skin tone, she's got some tiny hairs on her upperlip, one doesn't see them immediately, it's only when you look at them from the right angle, but it still bothers me.
How can I tell her that i want her to remove them without hurting her feelings?
Hmm, the easiest way to me, would be joking to each other about your flaws, such as her laughing at your harry "?" and then you talking about her crazy shopping/talking habits, then she throws you an other comment then you say: "while laughing of course" Or those little hairs over your lips haha!
Seems like the easiest way, by teasing each other.
Unless she brings the subject up...DON'T!!!!!!!!! Everybody has pet peeves about their SO, but that's all they should be. It's not worth hurting her feelings, and you will, by saying anything. There is NO way to say that without injury to her feelings. Just ignore the hairs! Besides, what about her pet peeves about your apperance? How would you react to a demand to do ? to "improve" your apperance??
Thx for ur help...I still haven't figured out what to do...well it's not a big deal, I ain't perfect either no one is...I dunno it's maybe that I don't have anything else to complain about that I'm absolutely looking for something...Maybe I should ignore them, well u have to come really close to her face anyway to see anything and even then it has to be viewed from the right ngle otherwise they are just invisible...anyways, all advices are greately appreciated!
I remebered something my mom told me about gals shaving,when we shave the hairs come back in thicker and darker. Well,same with men too. So if it's not a hormone caused problem (hursuitism) then shaving, plucking etc is not a good idea. Unles she wanted to do it forever! And I can tell you that it's no fun.
it will just hurt her feelings and make her insecure, when it sounds like she has no need to be. seriously, if it takes such a close up look to be able to see them, chill out about it. There are plenty of girls with full on mustaches to contend with - it sounds like your girl has no more than is totally normal. you're right... no-ones perfect! concentrate on her good points and forget about the hairs. i had a boyfriend once who pointed out the blonde hairs on my upper lip - i told him to like it or lump it. they're totally normal.
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