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  • Dreaming of cheating by #168525   33 h  40  Relationship / Marriage / Love / 4
     
    Can anyone help me? ... ... My husband Josh was a virgin when we met, and has never been with anyone but me sexually. I wasn’t much more experienced, but I had had sex with one other guy before I met Josh. The other guy, Michael, is still a friend of mine. We are connected on Facebook and chat occasionally, though not often. We don’t live nearby anymore so we don’t see each other. ... ... Anyway, I haven’t thought about Michael much since I met Josh, but the other day Michael started an IM session with me, and I participated. It wasn’t flirty in any way; just two friends chatting. Last night, ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Dreaming of cheating by sd2345   28 h  25
       
      FB can be dangerous for that very reason. Unfortunately, I know too many first hand stories of affairs that started just like your innocent chatting..... ... ... You didn’t cheat, so no need to feel guilty. ... ... If it was 1997 and he had called you to chat, would that be ok? Why then do people think it’s ok to chat with someone on FB that they normally would not have contact with because it is technically improper? It’s fun to talk with old friends on FB, but they probably wouldn’t like it if I was chatting with their husbands too.   [End]
    • Re: Dreaming of cheating by BlueRose   25 h  27
       
      Back when Jimmy Carter was running for president, he said in an interview that he never cheated on his wife but he did ”lust in his heart”. In other words, he was saying that he had fantasies but never went further than that. ... ... It’s normal to indulge in fantasies, even after you are married. There’s nothing wrong with that, as long as you leave it at that. ... ... If you think there is a danger that you would cross the line the next time you and Michael IM each other, then don’t allow yourself to converse with him again. Too many people start out innocently messaging but end up crossing th ...   [retrieve this message]
  • New Free Distant Qigong Energy Healing, Saturday Feb. 23, 2013 ´tween ... by mu-shen   89 days  407  Market Place / Qigong / C / Consciousn / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    And another one ! Thanks to Mr Mohoric..... ... Happy healing one and all ! ... ... New Free-Distant Healing ... Saturday February 23, 2013 6-7pm Pacific Time (Los Angeles) ... ... ... I’m doing another no cost distant energy healing for everyone who wants to join and all their friends, families and anyone else who reads this. The main healing session is on SATURDAY FEBRUARY 23, 2012 from 6-7pm Pacific Standard Time or same as Los Angeles, (7-8pm MST), (8-9 CST), (9-10pm EST-same as New York). ... ... ... You can join this fr’ee distant energy healing session by using your intention to be included. If you wi ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Reminder re the Free Distant Qigong Energy Healing, this Saturday 23 Fe... by mu-shen   86 days  352
       
      New Free-Distant Healing Reminder ... Saturday February 23, 2013 6-7pm Pacific Time (Los Angeles) ... ... I’m doing another no cost distant energy healing for everyone who wants to join and all their friends, families and anyone else who reads this. The main healing session is on SATURDAY FEBRUARY 23, 2013 from 6-7pm Pacific Standard Time or same as Los Angeles, (7-8pm MST), (8-9 CST), (9-10pm EST-same as New York). ... ... ... You can join this fr’ee distant energy healing session by using your intention to be included. If you wish to join, just close your eyes for a minute when you read this and me ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Follow-up with some interesting info. by mu-shen   80 days  300
         
        Chronic Fatigue Helped by Energy ... New Monthly Healing Program Begins March 6, 2013 ... ... ... Dear anita amita, ... ... ... I get email from all around the world about how the no-cost sessions help people. Awhile back I received an email from Scotland that told how a no-cost session had greatly helped a veteran and senior citizen with Chronic Fatigue or CFS. I will share the email later in the letter. CFS can be a very debilitating dis-ease and can be very difficult to treat. ... ... The main reason I started studying Qigong was that I had severe fatigue after getting very sick on a trip to India. Each y ...   [retrieve this message]
  • How can I make it work please? by lucifer   3 mon  145
     
    I know you are all going to criticize me but probably you may remember we are only human. ... ... He and I have been in love for about 7 years without getting intimate. The reasons for that we were both married. His wife had a long term illness and died 18 months ago. I have had an up and down marital relationship but got worse gradually over the last 7 years and for the last 3 years I kept our relationship to formal communication but we stayed together for social reasons. ... ... Now the man I am in love with is ready to move closer. How do you think I should approach this please? I cannot talk abo ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Brief Poems by frugivorous   4 mon  720  Poetry / Love / Co-Creatio / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    ... ****************************************************** ... 1080 Brief Poems -Saiom Shriver- ... ****************************************************** ... ... LOVE ... ... *1 ... My love for you a yearling became... many eons ago. ... *2 ... His dogs and cats cannot read.. save the scr1pt of his soul ... They cannot write..except on his heart ... *3 ... As a tide floats all boats ..As great music lifts all lyrics ... ..so do love’s spirit pinions ..give wings to all opinions. ... *4 ... At dawn the emperor sun breaks forth from the lair of mars but in the evening he ... disappears behind cloud curtains to the chamber of venus. ... *5 ... ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Brief Poems by frugivorous   4 mon  729
       
      Part II Brief Poems by Saiom Shriver ... ... FIDELITY ... ... *1 ... Mother Earth has knitted strong knots in the faithful blue forget me nots. ... *2 ... From your infinite eyes we drink Stars within skies of blackest ink ... Please don’t eclipse us when you wink.. but hold us in your eyes, Black Sphinx ... *3 ... He remembered that pricks of the branches of the mistletoe tree can draw blood. ... *4 ... Redwoods: faithful silent sentries.. standing for millennia not centuries ... *5 ... Oh womanizer or manizer most polygamous... try as you might you won’t be milligamous ... *6 ... Serial womanizer Jack Frost had his face pressed to ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Brief Poems by frugivorous   4 mon  767
         
        Brief Poems by Saiom Shriver Part 3 ... ... PRAYER MEDITATION ... ... *1 ... Blue spruce spires... their steeples point to blue star fire ... *2 ... Out of the sea the sun aborning Not adorned but all adorning ... With His awesome light of morning Says to you ”Come! My Mavoorning!” ... (to Ethel Lynch) ... *3 ... O God Dweller in the Heart of Every Being, release now and forever the joy latent in all ... *4 ... Jack in the Pulpit has taken up silence.. to his new sermon none said ... ’ahem’ ...many said ’amen’... ... *5 ... Pen chisel carves tunnel out of feelings’ mine cavein ... *6 ... God and humans both know of love unreturned. The dif ...   [retrieve this message]
        • Re: Brief Poems by frugivorous   4 mon  774
           
          (The author gives permission for reposting of any poem on a noncommercial website if the individual poem remains unedited and includes author name.) ... ... Brief Poems by Saiom Shriver Part 4 ... ... MIRACLES ... ... *1 ... God who freed from fruit the seed can pick a pear from a baby tree. ... God who sired the hallowed fig does harvest fruit from a barren sprig. ... God made blooms pastel and bright fruits and can a kumquat take from a tree of quince. ... He Who made Pluto and the Pleiades can pluck a plum where there is no tree. ... *2 ... He thought it was just another water mirage but it was the sea mirror of the r ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Dream about former girlfriend ... by hunghung   4 mon  586  Dreams / Emotional / Help Me / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    I ended my relationsip with a girl some 13 years ago. She married some 10 years ago and has a young boy. I seldom thought about her. ... ... Some 2 weeks ago, I dreamed about her (just saw her in two brief scenes; I don’t think the scenes have any significance). Since then, I started thinking of her. The intensity has increased daily to a level even stronger than anytime when we were dating and it is so strong that my sleep is disrupted. This is really weird as I had never experienced feelings remotely like this. ... ... 1. Why am I suddenly thinking of her at such an intense level after all th ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Dream about former girlfriend ... by #23475   4 mon  491
       
      Hi, the scenes might have some significance eventhough you think they might not have it. (any clue is a good one) ... ... An important thing is what is going on in your life now? ... Do you have a partner? Have you recently ended a relationship? Are you feeling lonely? Do you miss your younger years? Are you having marital problems? ... ... If that is not the case, then probably it might be that she is thinking about you. Probably she is not feeling happy, or has some marital issues. ... ... IMPO, people conncet with others in a spiritual realm. ... This might be the case. ... If it is your dream the message is f ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Dream about former girlfriend ... by hunghung   4 mon  455
         
        "An important thing is what is going on in your life now? ... Do you have a partner? Have you recently ended a relationship? Are you feeling lonely? Do you miss your younger years? Are you having marital problems?" ... ... No, everything was normal prior to the dream and intense thinking of her.  ... ... "If that is not the case, then probably it might be that she is thinking about you. Probably she is not feeling happy, or has some marital issues."  ... ... 5 days ago, I made a simply phone call asking for her updated email address.  In the call, she seemed quite happy ...   [retrieve this message]
        • Re: Dream about former girlfriend ... by #23475   82 days  359
           
          I think only time will show. Has she replied to your e mail? ... ... The future is not ours to see QUE SERÁ, SERÁ ... ... Keep me updated ;)   [End]
          • Re: Dream about former girlfriend ... by hunghung   80 days  341
             
            She still hasn’t responded after well over one month. (Not sure if she doesn’t want to reply or she wants to reply, but hasn’t figured out what to say.)   [End]
            • Re: Dream about former girlfriend ... by honda   73 days  340
               
              i had the same experience as yours with an ex. I did the same and got in touch with her. She seemed absolutely fine and all was well with her. I just concluded it was me not having found closure or something.. lemme know if you come with a solution. this happened with me about 6 months ago ...   [End]
    • Re: Dream about former girlfriend ... by VizzyC   25 days  133
       
      I have reoccurring dreams about 1 specific ex. They are not very frequent, but they happen every so often, and it’s always her. I’ve realized that it’s a representation of an emotion or feeling. I think she represents ”desire”, or lack of. She was always the one I felt the most infatuated with, and something that I could never really have I guess. So maybe your ex, is representative of a concept, feeling, or emotion. What was different about her? If you had to describe your relationship as a adjective what would it be? I think that is what things in our dreams are. Not necessarily literal ...   [retrieve this message]
  • love love by shahidsaif   5 mon  144
     
    love???????????????????????????????????   [End]
    • Re: love love by kushy   22 days  32
       
      Love very great thing and experience.Loving a person is accepting his mistakes,understanding his negatives and positives well.   [End]
  • What's love ? Try this.... by Sylvette   5 mon  125
     
    ”When Brady and I were first married (almost 18 years ago) I thought ”being in love” was about how he made me feel. When he would do something nice for ME I would say with a sigh ”I love you.” However, what I really meant (even though I didn’t know it) was I love me, I love the way you make ME feel. This kind of shallow, worldy, misunderstanding of love I held can’t go the distance a lifelong relationship requires. When married life begins to get comfortable and routine, when we quit trying to woo each other, when the business of children, careers, even ”churchy opportunities” compete for ...   [retrieve this message]
  • [Message Subject Hidden by a Forum Moderator] by applepie10001   7 mon  268
     
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  • Russian Pop Singer by IrinaGlobal   8 mon  1,202  Music / Video / Off-Topic / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    I have always loved the beat and energy of dance and pop music. I think it’s great to dance to, and it is so entertaining! How do you feel about modern dance music growing in popularity? Do you have favorite artists or albums - dance or otherwise? ... ... I would love for you to check out my debut single ”Something About You” and let me know what you think! ... ... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vS6zVLLzd6o   [End]
  • Please help!! I need some relationship advice! by Sun.is.shining   9 mon  849  Relationship / Love / Dating: Di
     
    I have been with James for 5 years. We are both 26. He is funny, sweet and makes me smile. We met in while I was attending Uni abroad in the UK. ... In the last 5 months we have just gotten engaged. ... ... Our relationship has been a majority of high’s. However, since we became engaged, I feel like I’m noticing more things that I am uncomfortable with. ... James comes from a wonderful family, but they are very old fashioned. His mum is a very hard worker, in her business life as well as at home. Every night cooking, cleaning up, washing and generally making sure James and her husband are happy. She ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Please help!! I need some relationship advice! by #13442   9 mon  750
       
      I think you have to ask yourself honestly if you can live with this for the rest of your life. He is used to living this way his whole life and now that he is getting married and on his own, he has to learn certain things now, changes he will have to learn to accept. If it was me, I would have this talk with him, let him know how this is affecting the relationship and give him sometime to learn and grow and adapt to new lifestyle change, and not marry him or live with him unless changes start to happen. on the other hand, living with him can also be good, but you have to be strong. Make a ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Please help!! I need some relationship advice! by BlueRose   9 mon  759
       
      I agree with the poster who said that the two of you need to sit down and talk this out. You need to tell James everything you’ve written here. Just lay out the facts as they are. Avoid making a direct criticism of him. Tell hin the things that bother you. Then ask him how he thinks that they should be resolved. Let him know that if the relationship is to survive, resolving these problems is necessary. ... ... If he balks at making major changes or promises you that he will pull his weight, then reneges---it will be up to you to decide what to do next. ... ... Would it be acceptable for you to ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Please help!! I need some relationship advice! by Michael B   9 mon  1,017
       
      Some honest advice? ... ... Find out who you are. ... ... You live in a fantasy world of designer watches, wealthy families, and well paying careers and relationships full of smiles and ”highs” thrown your way without any effort on your part, and it doesn’t sound like you have had to struggle or genuinely suffer a single day of your life. ... ... If you cannot even express the BASIC levels of communication with someone- then the relationship is not based on anything REAL because neither of you live in the REAL WORLD and it will not work out in the long run. ... ... So, first find out who you are underneathe ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Please help!! I need some relationship advice! by Raynbo   8 mon  664
         
        This answer is a bit harsh...and judgmental to boot by saying you have never suffered a day in your life...but there may be some truth in that, as you do sound a bit young and superficial. A relationship based on smiles and highs and without honest communication is not a healthy one that is likely to withstand the many demanding challenges of marriage. ... ... You can also bet that if his mamma has spoiled him to the extent you say, it might take a lot of time and work to change that...and even then only if he truly wants to change. ... ... Hint hint: When someone loves you, they want to make ...   [retrieve this message]
        • Re: Please help!! I need some relationship advice! by Michael B   8 mon  779
           
          "Harsh"? I would say more like a breathe of fresh air . And your use of the word "judgemental" is certainly incorrect. I was perhaps a bit "presumptuous", but certainly not judgemental. Afterall, I am sure at one point in their life a bird has shat on their brand new rolls royce, causing immense suffering. Learning and growing from such heartbreaking experiences certainly has led to profound character development and deep compassion, evidenced in James for example, who cannot even clean up after himself. ... ...  She asked for honest advice and I gave it ...   [retrieve this message]
    • [Message Subject Hidden by a Forum Moderator] by ksushil970   7 mon  767
       
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    • love is never enough. by John McCain 2008   3 mon  228
       
      You women...boy...you women out there just hope and pray that the guy you are dating, the guy you’re engaged to will just...CHANGE SOME DAY. Every women thinks that at some time...”if I could just change ________, he’d be perfect”. Funny thing about this scenario is that guys NEVER WANT WOMEN TO CHANGE! Women want their guys to be better, guys want their women to always be like when they were dating. Truth is that you are a smart young woman to ask yourself this question. Yes, you are destined to be ”stuck”. Love is not enough. You will do most of it yourself. You’ve got to be real ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Image Embedded Love, romance and travel can be keys to health and longevity by Dquixote1217   9 mon  1,554  Life Extension/Anti / Love / Relationsh / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    Love, romance and travel can be keys to health and longevity By Tony Isaacs See more articles by this author ... ... ... (NaturalNews) Isn’t love grand? Besides being exciting and fulfilling, it also turns out that it is good for your health and longevity. Studies and experts agree: having a caring and loving relationship can lead to a healthier, happier and longer life. Traveling with a partner can make it that much better. The rest of the article. which most ladies will probably like and most men should probably read: http://www.naturalnews.com/036686_romance_health_longevity.html ... ... ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Free Distant healing this Sunday, July 15, 2012 with Qi-Gong Energy heal... by mu-shen   10 mon  902  News / Qigong / C / F.Y.I. / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    and here´s another ”thing” to look forward to coming Sunday, JUly 15, 2012 ... ... NEW-FREE DISTANT HEALING ... Sunday July 15, 5-6pm Pacific Time (Los Angeles) ... ... ... Dear Friends! ... ... ... I’m doing another no cost distant energy healing for everyone who wants to join and all their friends, families and anyone else who reads this. The main healing session is SUNDAY JULY 15, 2012 from 5-6pm Pacific Daylight Time or same as Los Angeles, (6-7pm MDT), (7-8 CDT), (8-9pm EDT-same as New York). ... ... ... You can join this fr’ee distant energy healing session by using your intention to be included. If you wish ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Hilarious! The love police and the new revolution!   R by mu-shen   10 mon  1,087  Occupy Wall Street / F.Y.I. / Love / 4
     
    by Buck Rogers, Staff Writer ... ... There are a million and one ways to revolt against an over-indulgent and self-destructive social and political system, but, sadly, history leaves us with the impression that a revolution requires firearms and bloodshed. Perhaps at times it has, however, in this thrilling digital age, the age of hyper-connectivity and global awareness, it is the mark of the enlightened to revolt in entirely new, creative and peaceful ways. ... ... Keen on setting brushfires in the minds of the people, The Love Police is ‘an absurdist performance arts group which concentrates on is ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Something very special about giving more than you take. by Teacher of Light   11 mon  272
     
    ... ... ... ... This Awareness asks are you giving more or taking more from life? For the one who takes or thinks he or she is taking more from others, will not have the same healthy attitude toward self as the one who feels he or she is giving more to others. This Awareness indicates there is something very special about the feeling of giving more than you are taking, which allows an entity to feel that here she has a value and is giving of self in such a way as to be valuable to others, whereas the entity who looks out only for self or offers very little for others will have the feeling of no ...   [retrieve this message]
  • The Vulnerability of Love. by Teacher of Light   11 mon  265
     
    ... ... ... ... This Awareness indicates that entities who love as the rose, who love as the fragrance of the rose, and giving their fruit without requirements in return, giving their being totally, these entities are truly loving, but these entities are very vulnerable and can be sacrificed by those who have no respect for there being. ... ... These entities are placing themselves in a vulnerable position whereby they can be destroyed. This Awareness indicates that wherein an entity can give forth this kind of essence, this as that which is a wondrous quality, but the entity may end up being crucifi ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Unrequited Love Almost Likened to a Disease. by Teacher of Light   11 mon  263
     
    ... ... ... This Awareness suggests that unrequited love is a very difficult subject to understand. It leaves some extremely deep emotional scars and feelings, and is likened unto a disease of the heart and emotions. It can force an entity to do things they would not normally do, and cause them to become bitter and hostile, or give them enough pain that they can learn not to inflict similar pain on others. ... ... There is great opportunity for learning and for soul growth during times of unrequited love, but there is also great temptation to get revenge, to become embittered and to hurt innocent pe ...   [retrieve this message]
  • "The Expression of Genuine Love” by Teacher of Light   11 mon  1,586  Love / Abuse Phys / Balance / 4 / 5
     
    Now, to express genuine love is a genuine appreciation and knowing of whatever you perceive. How you express that is to be becoming more intimately familiar with yourself and generating an acceptance of yourself and of your beliefs, allowing for your own expression of freedom in association with your truths and your preferences, and generating an acceptance of differences. In that, as you become accepting of difference, you also open the door to allow yourself to appreciate and to generate a knowing in association with difference, and that becomes the expression of genuine love: knowing an ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: "The Expression of Genuine Love” by #136970   11 mon  1,447
       
      ... ... If you’re really a "Teacher of Light" then why did you cross post a ... message on "love" in the section  on "sex?"  There ... is no connection between the two.  If in your enlightenment you truly ... recognize the chakra system that each and everyone on the Planet has you would ... know that love is a 4th chakra energy while sex is a 2nd chakra energy and the ... two have no connection. ... ... It sounds as if you’ve totally absorbed the programming of the religionists ... who try to teach that the two are same in spite of the fact that they aren’t. ... ... ... ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Image Embedded Chakras and energy system EDIT by #136970   11 mon  1,598
       
      ... ... This is a supplement to your nice little note that you sent to me.  ... Here’s a better, higher level picture of your chakras that all ’enlightened’ ... beings know about.  As you can see the 2nd chakra has no connection with ... the 4th chakra.  Those who think that it does have been programmed by ... Western religions. ... ... Everyone has at least seven major chakras.  Even animals have ... chakras.  It’s part of the spiritual energy system that goes with a ... physical body. ... ... Edited to put in the proper link for the site below. ... ... http://www.psychic-experiences.com/psychic-art ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Chakras and energy system EDIT by Teacher of Light   11 mon  1,344
         
        ATTENTION: ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... I know who you are....your insecurity and fear of your own power is clear. ... ... It appears you feel very limited and intimidated by others who appear to you as....evolved or advanced. ... ... And this frightens you, because you doubt your own strength and ability, that is why you insult others and attempt to de-value them and try to show that you know more than the so called ’enlightened’ beings on our planet. ... ... It is like a child, who tries to convince themselves that they are a grown up and have already been through the trials and tribulations of life....while ...   [retrieve this message]
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  • How to heal my teeth by #135002   13 mon  1,742  Dental Support / Dental Hea / Love
     
    please give me help on my teeth. ... ... i have a lot cavities and some teeth lost. i ve tried fruitariansim 801010. doing raw food. also tried ramiel nagel cure tooth decay. now im on robert morse and moving your lymph. ... ... how can i heal my teeth best. and how to deal with dentist should i go or not. and which should i do? how can i strengthen my teeth and what is my spiriutal reason why im let this happening. where is my inner wish for healing. i try so much different approaches. ... ... nearly all teeth has severe cavities. how can i deal with it. how dangerous is dental treatment ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Teeth by #136235   13 mon  1,685
       
      I suggest: ... ... Avoid x-rays. Find a dentist who will treat you without x-rays. Dental x-rays increase your likelihood of brain cancer. ... ... Avoid amalgam fillings. Get white fillings. ... ... Both x-rays and amalgam fillings are harmful to health. ... ... Before going to a dentist, phone and tell them you don’t want x-rays or amalgam fillings, and ask if they will treat you on that basis. Most dentists will not treat people who refuse x-rays. A few will. If you phone first, you may find a suitable dentist.   [End]
      • Re: Teeth by Jenifer   13 mon  1,654
         
        ... I second the above and you might try the calcium materials from the Calcium Therapy Institute which I posted about here: ... http://curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i=1921455#i ... ... I am also using the herbs comfrey and black walnut tincture to remineralize.   [End]
      • Re: Teeth by mackwhite   11 mon  1,435
         
        i am agree with it.. we should avoid x-rays but some time they are mandatory at that time its fine but frequent x-rays can cause problems....... ... And we can do request to dentist if treatment is possible without x-ray report then please dont take any x-ray ... but we cant force him...   [End]
    • Re: How to heal my teeth by chrismartin4u   12 mon  1,512
       
      I think your treatment will not be very much painful for you so don’t worry about that. You just concern with a dental expert about your problem. This is the best thing I can suggest you. ... ... ... ... __________________________ ... pediatric dentist ...   [End]
    • Re: How to heal my teeth by Zuanseo   12 mon  1,329
       
      hi ... this is gokul new to this forum. My doubt is that without healing the teeth is there any way to cure that [url=http://www.onlinedentaltips.com/dental_article/tooth_cavity_filling.html]tooth infection[/url] ... which is decayed   [End]
  • [Message Subject Hidden by a Forum Moderator] by suzzanesuzzane   17 mon  724  Relationship / Love
     
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    • Re: do you have a relationship problem like me? You too can try this. by JesustheMasterCure   14 mon  547
       
      Hi, yeah the dark side hooks ya, then all hell is let loose, go to fhu.com the mans name is Roy masters he is the most knowledgeable person i know who can help guide you to the light inside you that God put in there, to know and be known, not a evil outside spirit entity that calls upon the evil inside of that person, and gives it a false reality, you are giving the dark side more power to eventually ruin your life, more deception which is that one must be saved from to be truly free. Well Roy explains it better than me or anybody I have heard, but he’s the real deal not some evil spirit ...   [retrieve this message]
  • my mistake... by john2012   17 mon  713  Relationship / Love
     
    hi there, ... ... I’m with my girlfriend for over a year now and I love her so much... Recently she reads a conversation on my computer that I had with one of my friend that I have a one night in the past... We had talk about this night and my girlfriend read it and now she’s angry... ... ... she doesn’t understand why I had this kind of conversation a month ago with my friend.. But I don’t know too why I have tlaked about this to my friend... ... ... now she is thinking that I don’t love her as she loves me, she thinks I want another girl, she thinks I could cheats her, etc... ... ... But for me, she’s the ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: my mistake... by BlueRose   17 mon  776
       
      I hope that you see this response... ... ... How was she able to read a message sent to you on your computer? Did you happen to leave it up on the screen? Or does she know your passwords and regularly snoops? If it is the latter, I suggest changing all your passwords. People are entitled to some privacy in a relationship---not every single thing has to be shared. ... ... As for the one night stand --- did this happen before you were dating her? If so, it’s in the past so she shouldn’t get upset about it. Or did it happen while you were dating? If so, then it’s understandable that she’s upset. ...   [retrieve this message]
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  • Love Problem by SNR   18 mon  986  Relationship / Love / Probiotics
     
    Hey, ... ... I like a girl alot in my office. I thought she also liked me. I mean she normally wanted to be near to me, looked at me without my knowledge. I noticed that she missed me in my absence. But suddenly I came to know that a guy regularly drops to her office. I stalked the guy’s facebook and found that he keeps on writing about her. He even posts love message to her wall. She regularly likes the posts but doesn’t reply anything. How would I know if she loves me or not? I am just getting crazy..I can’t pay attention to anything just because of that. Please help me if I should avoid her ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Love Problem by BlueRose   18 mon  923
       
      I stalked the guy’s facebook and found that he keeps on writing about her. He even posts love message to her wall. She regularly likes the posts but doesn’t reply anything. ... ... --------------------- ... Well...I’m assuming that your reference to ”stalk[ing] the guy’s facebook” refers to the fact that he has his privacy settings on low and what he puts out there is for all to see? I’m assuming that she is the same way? Is that how you know all this stuff? ... ... Since you both work together, dating a co-worker can be a sticky situation. First of all, does your company have any prohibitions rega ...   [retrieve this message]
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  • Conscious Conception by #82252   18 mon  1,401  Pregnancy/Birth / Spirituali / Ask CureZo / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    Hi Everybody :) ... ... My partner and I have made a decision to have a child together. We want the entire preparation process before conception to be special - full of rituals, magical practices and methods that connect us to our unborn child. ... ... We are looking for books, websites and forums where we can make this 6-12 months to be a truly special period. ... ... Thanks in advance for any help - really appreciate it :) ... ... Brett   [End]
    • Re: Conscious Conception by look1beyond   18 mon  1,381
       
      one of the best things to do is both you and your partner go into a state of peace and calm. to do that you can chant, listen to music, look at a candle, or (my favorite) count backwards from 10 to 0 and with each descending number feel yourself going in deeper and deeper and at 0 enter your garden. the garden can be a place you already know and are familiar with or can be something your subconscious knows.Once in the garden put your protections and then send a message to the universe for your guardians or spirit guides to be there with you and dont wait for an answer as the answer is alwa ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Conscious Conception by #82252   18 mon  1,320
         
        Thank you for taking the time to respond, Seema. Your suggestion sounds really beautiful and intimate. We will definitely try this. Thank you for sharing :) ... ... Brett   [End]
        • Re: Conscious Conception by look1beyond   18 mon  1,257
           
          you are welcome. if you need any more details please do feel free to ask. i do hope and pray for both of you that the perfect soul finds it way to your house and gives you the gift of parenting. ... love ... seema anand ... www.lookbeyondindia.com ... twitter: lookbeyondindia   [End]
  • I think my girlfriend is cheating on me by glaze49   19 mon  1,362  Relationship / Dating: Di / Dating: Pe / 4
     
    Ok well I started dating this girl about 7 months ago and everything was going great and then one day i texted her and she never replied and i kept text for a week or so and finally after about 2 weeks she replied he dad had her locked up for using marijuana so i was like ok well how you been and she said she was still locked up so i asked how she was able to text and she told me her mom had brought her phone on a visit well when she got out we texted a few days and we stopped talking again i couldnt get ahold of her ... ... she had her facebook account deactivated or blocked me so i went into ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me by uchihaMadara   19 mon  1,146
       
      WTF?! Do what is the hardest in your mind, that is talk about everything that is bothering you and what you feel. If she is not understanding, give her some time then ask again. If you can’t communicate with her, then the relationship will not work. A general mix of things that make relationships work is trust, mutual respect, communication, and love. If any one is missing, including sex, then it falls apart eventually. ... ... One thing to remember, as a male, you’ll enjoy many, many more relationships as long as you’re more mature and can handle it. Don’t get hung up over one girl, there are ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me by skneld   19 mon  1,074
       
      I think you should step back and TAKE A BREATH..... your letter has NO punctuation.... it is just one big rambling sentence that sounds anxious and desperate. Which must mean that you are anxious and desperate. This is never a good way to begin or advance a-n-y relationship.   [End]
    • Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me by plankton9   19 mon  1,274
       
      Glaze, your letter is so, so very sad.  Not because your girlfriend is possibly a cheating flake, but because your life is such a mess! ... ... Yes, how sad. A seemingly sensitive, caring boy, who I’m sure is loaded with potential, and yet, you are unable to write a letter any better than a 7 year old.  No punctuations, capitals, paragraphs....HELP!!!! ... ... Look kid, get your nose into your schoolbooks, work hard at improving your intellect, get a vocation or means to improve your lot in life.  When you have matured and bettered yourself, then, and only then, find yourself a good ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me by SilentIndigo   19 mon  1,066
       
      @glaze49 ... ... I’m gonna be harsh, your an idiot. Go do something fun or focus on your learning and or career, just forget about her. ... ... If your best friend acted like that would you still consider them your best friend? Also what parents puts there own kid in jail. ... ... She lies, your dumb and manipulable. I’m sorry but you have to move on with your life and drop all contact with her. ... ... ???? How can people be like this ??? it blows my mind.   [End]
    • run for the hills, babydaddy by John McCain 2008   18 mon  952
       
      You don’t any part of this nut. What’s wrong with you? You want to ruin your future? How many problems did you list in this short amount of space...lots is the answer. Band practice? How old are you kids?   [End]
    • Re: I think my girlfriend is cheating on me by princeofsin   13 mon  966
       
      Dude, honestly grow some balls and be a man. She doesn’t sound a woman but a whore.   [End]
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  • Love addiction verses true love by rainbowlights   21 mon  1,402  Codependency / Relationsh / Love
     
    How do you know your love for each other isn’t simply more than soulmate love where you are meant to be together. There are lots of healthy relationships where two people are unable to be apart from each other - this doesn’t have to be deemed as love addiction. How do you know you aren’t destroying something that isn’t just meant to be. Unless of course when you are together you destroy each other. So can you define the difference between true love and love addiction. ... ... Thanks   [End]
    • Re: Love addiction verses true love by SoulfulSurvivor   21 mon  1,241
       
       My feeling is that "true love" is based upon trust, honesty, and mutual respect, rather than rabid, frantic sexua| desire and an unhealthy "need" to be with someone every minute of the day and night. ... ... Couples who experience a healthy relationship spend time with one another because they want to, not because they feel compelled to.  When we are comfortable in a trusting, healthy relationship, we have our own separate lives apart from our partners who have their separate lives, as well.  My good friends aren’t necessarily my partner’s good friends, and v ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Love addiction verses true love by randigfine   20 mon  1,258
       
      The key word is healthy. Is the relationship balanced? If one person is always doing the sacrifices and trying to hold the other person’s life together, that is unhealthy. Is the relationship painful? A healthy relationship should feel good. Love is not supposed to hurt. If someone is always feeling hurt and frustrated, for whatever reason, the relationship is not healthy. A healthy relationship should not be drama filled. Are you clinging to hope? Are you fantasizing about what you wish the person or the relationship could be if...? Are you both leading productive lives or are you u ...   [retrieve this message]
    • in some respects...they are the same. by John McCain 2008   20 mon  1,270
       
      I know many a relationship that doubles as love, but you could also see ”soulmate love”, as you call it. I suggest not to read too much into the bond between two hot lovers and let it flow. Where it takes you, that’s what it is. I could describe all sorts of flowery terms that make a damn good love song or poem, maybe even a movie script...but dissecting what you feel vs. what others define as love isn’t an arguement worth fighting.   [End]
  • Recovering co-dependent refuses to get in touch by rainbowlights   21 mon  1,010  Codependency / Relationsh / Love
     
    I met an old friend a few months back - instant chemistry and attraction and one thing led to another and before we knew it we had started a relationship. He told me early on that he was a recovering co-dependent and that he had just come out of rehab. He said that he may have to let me go if things got complicated whilst he was recovering. I agreed to give it a go and all was going very well infact I thought amazing but 3 months in he did a runner with no warning and now he refuses to answer my calls or texts so I have no clarity or means of closure if need be. I have left him too it an ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Recovering co-dependent refuses to get in touch by BlueRose   21 mon  945
       
      I don’t know what the whole recovery program involves for codependents but I do know this---His behavior towards you is very rude and inconsiderate. Since he told you that he would have to bail if things got complicated, then at the very least, he owed you an explanation. ... ... That said, I suspect that part of his problem was that he got involved in this relationship much too soon. The tip off was his telling you that he was ”recovering”. However, once he realized this, he should have explained it to you. ... ... At this point, I would say drop all contact with him. If, before doing so, you ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Recovering co-dependent refuses to get in touch by SoulfulSurvivor   21 mon  1,064
       
       I’m so sorry that you’ve experienced this.   ... ... He claimed to be recovering from co-dependency and that may be true.  But, I would look a little deeper and pay more attention to my personal boundaries.  It sounds to me as if you were mirrored, used, and discarded from what you’ve described.  That he won’t even return a message or text is not only rude, but it’s a screaming, flapping, waving RED FLAG - DANGER!  WARNING!!!! ... ... I don’t intend to hurt your feelings, but why on earth would you even entertain the notion of spending another second with this guy afte ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Recovering co-dependent refuses to get in touch by randigfine   20 mon  1,049
       
      Sometimes we only hear what we want to hear. He told you what the risk was and you made the choice to give it a go. Now you have to accept that you took a gamble and lost. His leaving was not personal. At this point in his recovery, everyone and everything is a threat. It takes a lot of work to change a pattern of addiction. Your relationship was wonderful because you will still in the honeymoon phase of your relationship. It always feels great in the beginning. You need to move on. This person is not stable enough to build a future with. All the love and support in the world can’t c ...   [retrieve this message]
  • i need help.. by ms.confused   22 mon  1,745  Relationship / Ask CureZo / Anxiety / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs now. we were officemates once and thats how i met him. He has had 2 kids from two different women and he didnt open up about this the moment we met for fear that i might not pay attention to him. i found out about this, and i’ve already had feelings for him so i just accepted him despite his past. i have now been living with him in his parent’s house, his brothers live with us too. My boyfriend is smart, funny, talented, musically inclined, handyman, great in bed, sweet, techy and knows how to deal with people, basically he can do anything he se ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: i need help.. by SoulfulSurvivor   22 mon  1,588
       
      You say that you ”don’t believe his words anymore” yet, you ”love” him SO much that you’re ready to place cameras to spy on this person?! ... ... It’s called ”codependency” when we weave our whole world around another human being. This isn’t ”love” that you’re describing, at all - it’s ownership, control, and obsession. Finding his job for him so that you work in the same building? Think about that for a moment - YOU are securing a position for another adult so that you will be able to better monitor his activities. ... ... You may want to consider counseling to sort out why you chose this type o ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: i need help.. by BlueRose   22 mon  1,701
       
      SoulfulSurvivor’s advice to you is spot on. However, in case it needs reinforcing, I’ll put in my two cents. ... ... This guy is a BS artist. He has proven that to you time and time again. Deep down you know it, too. That’s why you are considering going as far as installing a camera at home. Please note --- If you mistrust someone that much, then it’s time to get out of the relationship. ... ... Giving someone like him ”more sex” won’t matter. He’ll still go out and cheat on you. Another thing to consider---if you are having unprotected sex with him, you are putting your health at risk. ... ... So ...   [retrieve this message]
      • ...more help & possible answers by SoulfulSurvivor   22 mon  1,543
         
        For whatever reason, it sounds as if you hooked yourself up with someone who intends to cause a wake of damage everywhere he goes. He has created 2 offspring by different mothers and I’ll bet my next paycheck that he either complains and fights paying child support or simply does whatever he can to get out of it - for instance, makes certain that he’s legally ”unemployed” most of the time. ... ... This type of person doesn’t have the capacity to ”love” in any sense of the word. They take. They demand. They use. They discard. And, all the while, they perpetrate ”crazymaking” upon their v ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: i need help.. by #116107   22 mon  1,644
       
      He has you right where he wants you..... YOU are doing the begging!!! HE s=h=o=u=l=d be begging YOU to stay!!! If a person wants to cheat, they will find a way.... and HE will... because he knows that he can talk you into staying in the relationship. I think that you are unable to see who he r-e-a-l-l-y is.... your judgement is clouded by something. Trust is the glue, nails, and screws that hold a relationship together. Without trust, there is NOTHING. The sex can be good, the laughs can be hardy, but without trust, a ralationship cannot last. You are deluding yourself. It is time for you ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: i need help.. by MENDOMAID   22 mon  1,460
       
      I went through several relationships similar to yours. I needed a person who was strong in the ways I was weak. Because I needed them, despite ther faults and failings I would, like you, try to keep the person tied to me and only me. Although it did help some to have counciling it has turned out that although my weakness, anxiety, jealousy were very real and strong emotions, it was how I was reacting to health problems in my own body. These health problems were not life threatening but caused a gradual deterioration of my physical and mental wellbeing over the years. ... ... So first get a che ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: i need help.. by fledgling   22 mon  1,515
         
        Good idea, Mendomaid! ... ... Even if that isn’t the exactly the correct solution, one becomes aware of healthful issues, and is led to adjusting what needs adjusting. ... ... We would become aware of balance. ... ... ... Meanwhile, look at other ways to be happy; people who don’t treat you like a dishrag.   [End]
    • Re: i need help.. by arkad2011   22 mon  1,433
       
      Hey, sorry to hear you’re going through difficult times. I guess you’re down to 2 options: Let go of him and accept the fact that he can never be honest with you or move on from that dark past and learn to trust him again. I know it’s such a very difficult thing to do but you cannot just keep monitoring him for the rest of your lives. He also needs space and privacy. We’re already there, he broke your trust several times and you’ve become so paranoid that for the nth time he might do it again. But you must know that you cannot hold on to a relationship without trust as it’s the most stable ...   [retrieve this message]
    • i stopped reading at "...he has two kids by two different... by John McCain 2008   20 mon  1,036
       
      Women. Then I tried continueing on and read that you’re living with him and his brothers and this and that dysfunctionality. STOP THE INSANITY, FOLKS! Women....WOMEN OF CUREZONE...do not get hooked up with deadbeat losers with kids all over the map, different women here and there, living in parent’s abode. When will this stupidity ever end, ladies? Tell me...what day and time will you not be stupid with your lives? How many red flags do you need waved in front of your eyes? Five...ten...twenty? ... ... I don’t care how great a time or good a dancer he is, dump losers when you first ackno ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: i need help.. (Edited by Moderator) by ksushil970   6 mon  421
       
      first of all, i would say to you that, don’t try to monitor him, because you have doubt on him. Just try to believe on him, because you love him so much, and in any relationship, it is required, Than tell him all that things, about your doubt on him. After clearing everything, you will get a satisfaction and clear your all doubts about him. ...   [End]
  • The Confessions of a Love Addict by ungiman   23 mon  1,281  Codependency / Abuse Phys / Love / 4
     
    Hi, my name is A. I am a complete love addict. I’ve been going to meetings for half a year now and I am definitely in recovery, but every day is difficult and the only solution sometimes seems to be to take it one day at a time, if today fails then tomorrow will be a better day. I try to write to help me think, and perhaps I will also be able to help others. My site The Confessions of a Love Addict is my place of healing. Check it out and see if you can learn from my mistakes. - A. ...   [End]
  • if someone is very serious... by chirontherainbowbridge   23 mon  688  Addiction: Coffee / Love / Minerals S / 4
     
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  • I just don't know what to do or think. by #140825   25 mon  734
     
    I’m at a loss for optimism. I’m 22 years old and still feel like a kid. I act like an adult. Go to work, work hard and pay bills. I’m socially awkward. I blame homeschooling and my unusual upbringing. ... I tell myself I believe in God. But most of the time claim to be an atheist. I really do believe in God, I just don’t believe I’m going to heaven. I drink, do drugs and whine to myself. I feel all alone and hate it. But any social interaction gives me anxiety. ... I’m depressed because of a girl of course. I met her a few years ago. I lacked the confidence to properly speak to her. But I mana ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I just don't know what to do or think. by uchihaMadara   25 mon  853
       
      Older dude here. ... ... It will get better, trust me. ... ... Quit chasin’ her tail, but stay a friend that does not have any ”love” type emotions attached to the friendship. If you can’t give her up, try to stay unavailable for her to live your own life your own way. Women will come and go! The main idea is to get a grip of your emotions and make them work for you, not let them lead you. Love wisdom comes with age and it will come in a few years. The raging love feeling will subside and you’ll be free from its torment. ... ... From your language, you see yourself as worth-less than reality. You also ex ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I just don't know what to do or think. by #116107   25 mon  1,037
       
      I think that your struggles are easily defined. The first sentence of this letter states it.... ”I am at a loss for optimism” I am hoping to convey to you the power of your thoughts, and how what you think has the power to form your life as well as the world you live in. I have been a self taught student of the Law of Attraction for about 7 years now. This is a very powerful realization, and once you understand HOW powerful your thoughts are, you change what you think and say. Thoughts are things.... yes, things. Thoughts just come into your mind, and by listening to or giving attention ...   [retrieve this message]
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  • Image Embedded I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? by #139013   26 mon  2,187  Relationship / Women’s Fo / Love / 4 / 5
     
    http://curezone.com/upload/_Q_R_Forums/Relationship/SpringBreak2010_035_1.jpg ... ... I have dated David for 8 months now, not very long but I have come to love him so much and continue to love him more. Our problem is his inability to handle stress. ... I’m not saying his situation is easy, in the process of a nasty divorce (I met him half way through his divorce; his wife cheated with some old guy(55 year old, I don’t get it either) and so he also started dating other girls and it turned into a pissing match). I can say with confidence, they hate each other; it’s the usual story, they got pregn ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? by BlueRose   26 mon  1,917
       
      OK---Bear with me. There are two things I have to get out of the way here. 55 is old? Excuse me? ... ... Second, IMO, if it were me, I wouldn’t put a photo of myself out there. One of the best things about CZ is that others can come in here bare their souls yet keep their anonymity. Considering your current legal troubles, personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to have your photo out there at all. ... ... Now---as for your legal issues---Please hire a good lawyer! If you don’t do this, it could hurt you in the long run. ... ... Second, cut off ties with David. There is much too much drama going ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? Edited by SoulfulSurvivor   26 mon  1,842
         
        I will agree with everything that Blue Rose has suggested, particularly the replacement of your personal photo - remaining ”anonymous” is very, very valuable. ... ... More food for thought: you mentioned that this man had engaged in numerous ”random” contacts with other women during his separation. Ding! Ding! Ding! Warning! Red Flag Alert! Have you ever spoken with his estranged wife or previous partners on a personal, adult level, or does your information come from this man? What about his finances and employment history? What about any criminal background? ... ... Your last remark suggest ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? by MrCuddly   26 mon  1,861
       
      I say keep the picture. You’re a beautiful girl and it puts things into context. Of course it’s always easy to solve every problem for people by telling them to dump whoever it is that’s making life complicated. ... ... But I’ll agree with the others saying it sounds like you’re getting the brunt of being a rebound. And from a divorce no less. You’ll get to play nurse, psychiatrist, care giver etc to a vast amount of hurt and insecurities that you had nothing to do with. Whether or not it’s worth it is up to you - but the odds aren’t on your side. I cringe when I think of what my poor G ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? by #100163   26 mon  2,136
       
      I think you should spend some time really figuring out what you want - for you. This guys sounds like he has a lot of drama? Why do you want that? ... ... I’ve always been in relationships with a lot of drama - much older now, and still learning. Get out of the cycle while you can. ... ... I’ve been writing a blog about how to be a better person and a better partner. I’m six days in! :) ... ... http://bodhicittama.blogspot.com/   [End]
    • Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? by summer12601   22 mon  1,311
       
      I really wanted to make this post more gentle and tactful because I care about how this might make you feel but I just have the need to say this and without knowing how else to say it here it goes, ”Your boyfriend sounds emotionally and psychologically abusive.” ... ... Respect and trust toward you are your right to have in a relationship. He may have other thoughts about that but that is really his problem. I am sure that he has had a history of difficulties. Most of us have. But that is no reason to treat you the way he is. If you do not like something that he is doing or not doing, you have ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? by #125342   22 mon  1,270
         
        you feel lost..seems there’s no fullfillment and mutual joy here..a wife who by the token of children will be in his life forever..whose obviously effective at pushing his buttons and whom he still very much attached to by his emotional responses and reactions allbeit negatively..Also it seems he’s still in the midst and involved with their/her game..but untill he can find it in himself to let go and move on and devote himself to the relationship of the new and now....you’re in for a MUDDY RIDE! ... ... one rule, although not a guarantee buffer, is to consider getting involved with a man whose ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? (Edited by Moderator) by ksushil970   6 mon  369
       
      your problem is very serious, and i am also confused that how to handle it. Just try to consult with your boyfriend. ... ... ... ... _______________________ ...   [End]
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  • i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by ALWYZleft   29 mon  2,191  Relationship / Abuse Phys / Help Me / 4 / 5
     
    OK, I’M PRAYING-ONE DAY IS BALANCED AND UNDERSTANDING ’figure I’m being postitive and it takes 1 day at a time TIME HEALS ALL’. I’ve been on a date or two, I’m getting sooooooooo many compliments, meeting nice gentlemen BUT I’M STILL CRYING OVER A LONG TIME EX (from right after high school - who found me on FB and visitied 1 week). I know I expected too much, I found it WE CHANGED!! I just really wanted more, my feelings were rekindled and although I handled it maturely I CAN’T MOVE ON, I CAN’T STOP REMEMBERING, I CAN’T STOP CRYING. I’m angry ALOT now, I believe and KNOW I deserve hap ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by #23914   29 mon  1,978
       
      I went through the exact same thing at 58 with my high school sweetheart... It took years for me to stop crying (the first year as much as three hours a day), and I never stopped thinking about him...although not always fondly. It is now five years later, and just yesterday, I felt his presence in my car for a minute or so as I was driving home from work, almost as if he were sitting next to me. ... ... How long it will take to settle down depends on the circumstances of your life, the intensity of your feelings for him, your age, your general health and lifestyle practices and how much suppo ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by sirdave   29 mon  1,909
         
        i can relate to you both so much . i am also thinking about my high school love all the time, even after years. nothing helped so far, neither crying, nor looking for affection with other girls. in fact, kissing random girls always made me cringe and sick to my stomach. ... i also thought i would be the only person who could be so sensitive. maybe hypnosis can help? i mean what if the right person never shows up ? it really sucks.   [End]
        • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by #23914   29 mon  1,986
           
          Cringing or feeling sick when kissing someone new is a bit extreme. Perhaps counseling could help. Or EFT therapy. At any rate, while I don’t know how old you are, and there is always hope, ultimately, in order to make peace with yourself you must learn to learn accept ”what is”. ... ... You may find someone tomorrow, but the reality is that some people never do and they either end up alone, in an unhappy marriage or a string of unhappy marriages just to keep from being alone. ... ... I did both...but ended up alone and have learned to embrace it. ... ... I believe that some people have karmic bloc ...   [retrieve this message]
          • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by ALWYZleft   29 mon  1,894
             
            thank you so much for your response, but i don’t totally agree with you on some things written to someone else about cringing up when he kisses someone. i have experienced this frustration and/or unfamiliar ground (means he’s healing). i to married before for nearly 15 years, we toughened it out and i don’t regret that it didn’t work because i gave my all. so, i do have closure and believe that i deserve love and happiness (even through my pain over this ex lover from the past). dating is a learned behavior that is challenging and sensitive. just like adjusting to marriage, i’m learni ...   [retrieve this message]
          • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by sirdave   29 mon  2,019
             
            eft does not work. it didnt work for me and it doesnt even work for the practitioners that are well-known in the eft community. i know for a fact that some of them have seeked help at naturopaths for various diseases, so apparently its not a magic bullet and they know. but at least they make a lot of money off of it. ... and yes, it may be extreme to feel sick when kissing random girls, but they were party girls only interested in sex but i am looking for love and i cant be someone i am not. ... however , i am only in my mid-twenties so maybe i can get over her with some counseling. i definitel ...   [retrieve this message]
            • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by Raynbo   29 mon  2,006
               
              Not everything works for all people. I didn’t think EFT worked either...when the issue was hot it didn’t seem to do me any good. However, now that I have cooled off, I do it on myself whenever I am feeling obsessive about something, and it seems to help. Its’ simple. It’s free. It only takes a minute to learn how to do it. But to use it on yourself or not is up to you. I never thought of it as a cure all for diseases...just emotional issues, which may or may not be tied to disease. ... ... When I worked with a practitioner, I did not find it to be all that expensive. Mine also used couns ...   [retrieve this message]
        • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by ALWYZleft   29 mon  1,863
           
          you are not the only sensitive person, i loved my ex before he even arrived to see me. i guess it hurts more, knowing that we won’t even have a chance to be friends. i feel like we have history together and we know one another (whether the intimacy/love relationship part didn’t work or not). i guess that is why i didn’t put up any boundaries with him (stupid!!!) i have been on dates, i do not compare; and yes i believe i deserve happiness and could see the goodness and respect out of other men. but, it doesn’t stop the pain when i’m lying in bed at 1am and 3 am in the morining. it does ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by ALWYZleft   29 mon  1,884
         
        that’ really scarey (that it could be indefinite). i feel so juvenile, you would think his nonresponsiveness/desire to call or get in touch with me, would make me ’stronger’ and/or angrier. but it doesn’t! i have some good faith fulfilled days, occupied constantly and even went on a date or two. i have an ex-boyfriend who ’sounds’ interested and even shows that he is. but it’s n.o.t. (him). i know i have to heal first (but have to be willing bla bla bla). but it’s just not easy. ... ... again, i know i expected tooo much when we met/reunited; but, it was the same for me. the sad part ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by hoppimike   29 mon  1,851
       
      Yah I’ve been there too (about girls though, as I’m a guy lol). ... ... What I tell myself now at 25 though is that... if something didn’t work out... then it just wasn’t ”meant to be” :) Not in like a fate way, but more that if two people are really, really right for each other, then everything will work out in the end! :) And if not? Well then there’ll be someone out there that you WILL get along with better, and then it will work! ... ... That always makes me feel much better now if something goes wrong to do with rships! heh - hope it helps! :)   [End]
    • Re: i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!! by marylo   28 mon  1,869
       
      I feel for you. But iMPO you´re not crying for his loss. You are crying for a lost expectation which seemed not to be based in real facts, but it also hurts. ... ... You were in love with someone, who doesn´t exist. ... ... You´ll get over it eventhough you might think you won´t. ... ... Good luck!   [End]
  • Broken hearted girl...Please help :( by giselletaylor   30 mon  1,997  Relationship / Love
     
    Last month I reunited with an ex that I still had feelings for but always kepted my cool. He would call me and ask to go out for lunch and etc and with an open mind and heart, I acccepted these ”casual dates” He would tell me how much he missed being around me and I figured I’ll be honest too and tell him how much i still care for him. We both agreed that we still had feelings. He told me lets take it slow and see where life takes us meaning ”friends first and lovers second” which I somewhat didnt mind..basically dating. ... Here is where the problem starts. He has a female who works with in ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Broken hearted girl...Please help :( by BlueRose   30 mon  2,246
       
      You’re hurting and second guessing yourself for cutting off contact with him. That’s all normal. However, IMO, you did the right thing. ... ... I assume you are ”friends” with him on Facebook thus able to see his wall? Or is it that you’re not friends and he doesn’t have his privacy settings set at all? Either way, for him to make such comments to her all the while knowing that you will be able to read them, is callous and insensitive. ... ... Take the time to grieve and in the end know that you dodged a bullet when it came to him.   [End]
    • Relax! He will come back to you if that is what he wants! by EricB   30 mon  2,538
       
      A man who has not finished previous relationship is not a good material for a new relationship. ... Relax! If he is your future, he will come back to you. ... If not, you will find another man, one that is not a player. ... Posting public comments on Facebook while telling to another woman that he has feelings for her ... give me a break. ... The real question is: how many other women out there does he ”have feelings” for? ... The man is playing games, and is not ready for you. ... ... But, you are ready for him. ... ... That is imbalance. You have to play hard to get, to give him a chance to find out what or w ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Relax! He will come back to you if that is what he wants! by giselletaylor   30 mon  1,741
         
        Thanks! Yes, I am hurting badly inside . He is like my FIRST love at 24. I was expecting SO MUCH out of us talking again and i got hurt. I somewhat dont regret doing it because atleast I know. I am not following him but I can see his comments and he is posting comments on there STILL that I can see :( But he is not concern about me at all...He still posts comments like wifey and she is my honey..blah blah blah ... ... I NEVER thought I would be so hurt to the point that i cry everyday and think about him everyday. I had dreams about them both being together ....*sigh* ... Well i hope she make ...   [retrieve this message]
        • John McCain 2008 by giselletaylor   29 mon  1,783
           
          WOW THANK YOU!! I needed to read that..for ome reason your post stood out the MOST. Well i write music and the funny thing i came up with an great song ....called ”Shoulda been a man about it” LOL....I LOVE it too. Funny how relationships that are personal make great song! ... ... Thanks everyone. I know I will get over this hump. I dodged a bullet and yes ”I” come first . I love myself MORE.   [End]
    • he has his cake, and is eating it, too. by John McCain 2008   30 mon  1,768
       
      You were correct on your first assumption. Of course he is playing both sides of the fence. Smart girls do what you just did: investigate, learn the truth, don’t hide your head in the sand. Dump this guy on his ass. I’m a guy, I know what guys do. When we behave in this manner you dump our asses on the curb, hold your head up high, and walk right out the door. That’s what SMART, CONFIDENT, TOGETHER WOMEN DO. That’s you I’m talking about so follow the McCainster’s advice. ... ... I tell women all the time to dump guys because there’s a lot of bad apples out there. Trust me...75% of al ...   [retrieve this message]
  • "Invictus"... by drofinnah   31 mon  1,238  Poetry / Depression / Injustice/ / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    this is a poem by an English poet ”William Ernest Henley” (1849–1903).... ”Invictus”... packs a very powerful punch line/motto to live by... learned of it from the movie ”Invictus”... watched last night... very good movie... well worth watching... ... ... ”Invictus” ... Out of the night that covers me, ... Black as the pit from pole to pole, ... I thank whatever gods may be ... For my unconquerable soul. ... ... In the fell clutch of circumstance ... I have not winced nor cried aloud. ... Under the bludgeonings of chance ... My head is bloody, but unbowed. ... ... Beyond this place of wrath and tears ... Looms but the Horror of ...   [retrieve this message]
  • If you're ready to be free of the Narcissist & the pain by NPDSupport   32 mon  790  Love / Abuse Phys / Anxiety
     
    Hi everyone, just new to this forum and want to acknowledge you all and what you have been/are going through. What a crazy, wrenching and totally devastating it is – a relationship with a narcissist. I have been there and I have battled with the pain to the point of feeling numb and nothing (a relief to be honest) to so much anger, confusion, pain and loss (physical, financial, friends, family etc). ... ... I wanted to start with this post and encourage any of you interested in finding another way through this as like so many people here I have struggled in that pain for so long. Unable to get ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Please Help!!!! I don't know what to do anymore. by wildflower69   32 mon  2,983  Borderline Personali / Addiction: / Relationsh / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    Iam new to this board. I hope that some of you may have experience in the questions I am going to ask. To make a very long rocky story short. About a year and a half ago I met the man I am now married to. ... ... We dated for a year and then against my better judgement I got married to him in March. Its not that I did not wish to marry him at some point. Its just that I new that it was too soon and we had a less than ideal relationship up until that point. In the beginning it was wonderful..... I’m sure you are all familiar with this part of the story. Then I started to get the feeling that he ...   [retrieve this message]
    • get out of the marriage or you'll live to regret it. by John McCain 2008   32 mon  2,585
       
      way, way, way too many negatives already in this relationship, dear sweetheart. you gotta run for the hills now, while you’re on top of the situation, or you will live a life of misery. i’m the blunt one here on curezone. this is your life. angry, alcoholic, internet hound, cheater, liar, i’m running out of problem areas. life should not be this difficult. you don’t want to be hooked up to mr. moody for the rest of your days. should’ve listened to your gut instinct. but i’m not going to beat you up over something you know you shouldn’t have done. you made a big, huge mistake...now ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Please Help!!!! I don't know what to do anymore.   RR by SoulfulSurvivor   32 mon  2,667
       
      When you say "BPD," are you talking about "Bi-Polar Disorder," or "Borderline Personality Disorder?"  Although, the two can exist within the same person, they are not to be confused with one another.  Bi-Polar Disorder can be managed with behavior modification and, in some cases, medication.  It takes work, but it’s possible.  Borderline Personality Disorder, on the other hand, cannot be treated with medication and is rarely (if ever) successfully managed - these people do not have a conscience or remorse for what they do to others, wh ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Please Help!!!! I don't know what to do anymore. by ALWYZleft   29 mon  2,062
       
      Firstly, i want to congratulate you on your ’blessing’ and share with you the enjoyment of carrying and having my 1st and ONLY child. I had the same thoughts when the relationship went sour in 1st trimester; (you are not alone, it’s natural). But you have to seperate it from the inconsistencies in your relationship. Use your unborn child FOR STRENGTH!! HAPPINESS!! Remember: he or she is a ’gift’ embrace the ’gift’ you deserve, bond with it and be at peace. I had an abortion in highschool (I would never use it as a form of birth control 2day...esp since I am able). I was also marrie ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Emotional Betrayal by #129410   33 mon  2,876  Marriage / Divorce / Love / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    I have been married for 6 years and I have just fallen in love/lust with another person. I am at lost what to do. Nothing physical has happened, but we connected. ... ... My husband and I have a relative normal marriage, apart from the fact that we are very seldom intimate. Maybe once every four months. It got this bad after a miscarriage we went through. ... ... I have not lost my desire, only my desire for my husband. And his libido is quite low, as he is a total workaholic. ... ... I know I had a choice for a split second, before I fell for this person, but, obviously I made the wrong choice. ... ... Shoul ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Emotional Betrayal by BlueRose   33 mon  2,631
       
      You owe it to your husband and to yourself to get your marriage back on track. I’m sure that the miscarriage is one of the reasons you’re both off track. You both went through a stresful time. ... ... Was he a workaholic before the miscarriage? Or did it start after the miscarriage? If it is the latter, he may be using work as a way to avoid dealing with his feelings. ... ... First, try talking to him about his low libido, his workaholism and your feelings about the miscarriage. Don’t mention your attraction for the other man. After all, at this point you’re just lusting in your heart---and ha ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Emotional Betrayal by #129410   33 mon  2,448
         
        Thank you, Blue Rose, for your encouraging words. ... ... Yes, my husband was a workaholic even before we got married, but I did not realize what effect it would have on our relationship. Spilled milk. When you are young, you think things can only get better. ... ... We experienced the miscarriage 3 years ago, and one year ago, my husband, after I asked him for emotional support, told me, that in the 5 years we have been married, I have turned into the most boring person he knows. That really hurt and it stuck. ... ... A few months ago, a lady in our choir, was astounded to find out that we were married, ...   [retrieve this message]
        • Re: Emotional Betrayal by BlueRose   33 mon  2,334
           
          You’re welcome. ... ... Ann Landers, the late advice columnist, used to ask women in positions similar to yours ---”Are you better off with him or without him?” Only you can really answer that. ... ... I see a big red flag when you said: ... ... I am 35 now. And my biological clock is driving me crazy. My husband does not want children. I do. ... ... I strongly believe when planning a family, you both have to be on the same page. In other words, you both have to want a child. If you give into him and don’t have a child, you will always regret it and feel a hole in your heart. On the other hand, if he is ...   [retrieve this message]
          • Re: Emotional Betrayal by #129410   33 mon  2,389
             
            My heart is pounding: I was just reading up on my given name Catharina, where the wiki page mention that Hecate is associated with the name Katharine ... ... Hecate or Hekate (ancient Greek Ἑκάτη, Hekátē, pronounced /ˈhɛkətiː/ or /ˈhɛkət/[1] in English) is a chthonic Greco-Roman goddess associated with magic and crossroads. ... ... Yes, I need to do some soul searching. Maybe a week of isolation would help. ... ... ... Thank you again, Blue Rose ... ... Keep well ...   [End]
        • Re: Emotional Betrayal by Bythc   33 mon  2,255
           
          in the 5 years we have been married, I have turned into the most boring person he knows. ... ... If this is how your husband feels, really. The the question is, do you want to spend the rest of your life with a person who thinks you are the most boring person the man knows? Life is too short, IMO.   [End]
        • Re: Emotional Betrayal by #129440   32 mon  2,342
           
          I feel for you, 129410. ... ... Contrary to what someone else said I don’t think you owe anyone anything but yourself. You know in your heart what you feel, therefore staying in an unhappy marriage, other man or not, is not going to make anybody’s life any better. ... ... Besides, based on the comments you said your husband has made, I would not be inclined to stay with him. To be frank, he’s probably cheating on you already anyway. I am not going to encourage you to cheat with this other man or to leave the marriage because of him. You must decide what you want to do about your marriage at this poi ...   [retrieve this message]
          • Re: Emotional Betrayal by #129410   32 mon  2,196
             
            Thanks, every opinion added here, gives me insight, and helps me. ... ... ”...therefore staying in an unhappy marriage, other man or not, is not going to make anybody’s life any better...” ... ... That is the thing: the marriage per se is not unhappy, it is just me. My husband seems content. So, maybe before ending my marriage, I should look at ways to improve my actions, thoughts and try to become content with myself once more. ... ... ”...To be frank, he’s probably cheating on you already anyway...” ... No, I am certain he is not. He simply does not have the time for it, because he is already totally tak ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Emotional Betrayal by HarmonicCharge   33 mon  2,356
       
      WHY are you with your husband? ... ... Just because you are married? ... ...   [End]
      • Re: Emotional Betrayal by #129410   33 mon  2,328
         
        Yes, I am with my husband, because I have made a promise to him in front of God, to love him and be true to him. ... ... I still love him, but in my heart I have betrayed him by developing an infatuation with another man. ... ... When I compare the love I have for my husband, with the love I have for my brother, it is very similar. Is this what a marriage becomes after only 6 years? ... ... I feel I am in the prime of my life, yet, I feel so unfulfilled by our marriage. Maybe this person I have met, is just a catalyst, sent to prompt me into action, and nothing more. ... ... I realize something has to be don ...   [retrieve this message]
        • Re: Emotional Betrayal by HarmonicCharge   33 mon  2,324
           
          Sounds like he is married to his job. It must have hurt very much that he wasn’t like that in the beginning but became a workaholic. ... ... I guess I see marriage as a man made contract and why would I stay with someone just because we are married, when the same circumstance would have been dissolved had it been just a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. ... ... But I do respect your view. ... ... The thing that stuck out in your post was that you wanted children... ... ... It may take a few years to find a man who you would want as a father, so you should think about your future! ... ... I regret taking my sweet ...   [retrieve this message]
          • Re: Emotional Betrayal by #129410   33 mon  2,304
             
            ”...maybe you want to stick it out with this guy for the next 60 years?...” ... ... You made me think. I realized that my first hope would be for my marriage to get better. But how does one re-kindle a fire? I have never had to cross a bridge like this before. ... ... I think, for my own sanity, my first step would be to change my Gym time to early mornings. Thus, avoiding the source of my immediate disharmony. Then, when my heart, head and my loins have calmed down, I will re-evaluate the situation. ... ... Thanks for the input. I really appreciate it. ...   [End]
            • Re: Emotional Betrayal by HarmonicCharge   33 mon  2,345
               
              I think you are on the road to realizing what is best. ... ... The answer is inside you somewhere. ... ... I am in a similar circumstance with big decisions to make, ie having children vs. not having any vs. adopting someday if I wait too long to have my own, never having any kids etc etc etc ... ... I was in a relationship where he did not want kids and that took many years of my life... ... ... It almost becomes an emergency situation as we as women become older, there is not much time left to conceive naturally, and then there is the dilemma of if that is what we truly want. ... ... He sounds like he would mak ...   [retrieve this message]
    • emotional rescue. by John McCain 2008   33 mon  2,328
       
      it’s easy to understand with the cold fish husband you have and scott studly walks into your life, you’d be a little taken back. you state that he doesn’t care about sex. you state that he’s a workaholic. the miscarriage situation was the catalyst that put all these negatives in force, and your hubby was the lucky guy on duty during this period. now, you obviously want something he can’t give. seems to be a normal reaction to the situation. you do realize if you go and screw this new stud you’ll end your marriage, even the good parts of it. so with that in mind, it’s easy for an out ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Emotional Betrayal by love2ski   33 mon  2,446
       
      I disagree with some of the comments other people have made. I was in a similair situation, my marriage was at a low point and I felt vulnerable. I was attracted to someone that played on a sports team with me. Right after the attraction started I told my husband. He appreciated that I told him and that we could then work on our marriage and what happened in the first place for me to be in that kind of position. ... ... I assume your husband is your best friend, and as such the only way to affair proof your marriage is for the two of you to be totally honest with each other. Nothing can tear th ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Emotional Betrayal by #129410   32 mon  2,150
       
      T hank you all of you, for your input, I appreciate it very much. ... ... I have read about similar situations on the net, and it seems everybody feels quite despondent. Nobody mentions a resolving of the situation. ... ... ... To Harmonic Charge: ... ... ... I feel for you and your situation - I believe a lot of what is happening to me, might be connected to my biological clock overriding my sensibility. My body wants to procreate. I will lie if I say I did not have a fleeting thought of me having the other guys child. I realize it is pure insanity thinking like this. ... ... ... I hope you find resolve f ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Emotional Betrayal by #129410   32 mon  2,421
       
      I have done some reading, about marriage and affairs, and came across this website: ... ... http://www.marriagebuilders.com ... ... I found the description of what marriage is and the stages it goes through, very, very insightful. Maybe someone will find it helpful too. ... ... At least I have a better understanding of why I find myself in this situation, and how to try to fix it, if I choose to do so. ... ... There are some good reading on WHY affairs happen, and how to avoid situations that might give rise to an affair. ... ... This is a summary of the basic concepts. ... http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mb ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Emotional Betrayal by peepalala   22 mon  1,343
       
      hi ... as far as i think i advice you to be loyal to your husband because marriage is a relation that only works when the both of people be loyal and dedicated to this relation and as you mention you have a normal marriage life then dont make it mess ... . we are the common people who make mistake but god give us chance to learn from them so please dont feel bad because you still dont do anything wrong , ... ... Spread the word... Divorce doesn’t have to be devastating ... http://knowingdivorce.com/   [End]
  • is it a bad thing? by cocteau   3 year  1,266  Sex / Love
     
    Hello.. I’m 17 and I’ve never had sex so i don’t know much about it.. I’ve heard that if the guy comes quickly, it’s not good. why? is it bad if the girl comes quickly too? ... ... btw, is it true that guys don’t like unexperienced girls? the older I get, the more ashamed I feel about being a virgin but I know that if I just did it with someone who I didn’t love, it would make me feel disappointed and useless.. ... ... I’m still in love with my ex. he doesn’t feel the same way about me but he said that if I ever wanted to meet him just for sex, he would meet me in a heartbeat.. what should I do? ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: is it a bad thing? by BlueRose   3 year  1,217
       
      You write: ... ... the older I get, the more ashamed I feel about being a virgin ... ... OMG! You’re 17! You’re still young! Why on earth would you feel ashamed to be a virgin? Are your so-called friends giving you a hard time about it and putting the idea into your head that being a virgin is a bad thing? If so, you need better friends! ... ... You also write: ... ... I’m still in love with my ex. he doesn’t feel the same way about me but he said that if I ever wanted to meet him just for sex, he would meet me in a heartbeat.. what should I do? I mean, I know I shouldn’t.. but I still love him.. and a ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: is it a bad thing? by arn   29 mon  1,000
       
      While there are different attitudes amongst different cultures and individuals, most guys want to have sex with many different girls, then marry a virgin.   [End]
  • feeling onfused.. by cocteau   3 year  1,515  Love / Depression / Lonely / 4
     
    I don’t know how to start.. well, first of all, I just became a member here and I’m hoping someone here could help me.. when I was 14 I met someone on the internet. we started off as friends but eventually we started having strong feelings for each other. We were both facing a hard time in our life, he being ill and I had depression. No one understood me and I felt so lonely.. until I met him. He always listened to me and made me want to live life again. He had so many plans for us, he even wanted to marry me, he said. We had big dreams and it made me so happy. I finally felt that my life ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: feeling onfused.. by marylo   33 mon  1,310
       
      Hi, I´m sorry for what you have been through. ... I one got so depressed, I was afaid to go out of the house, but that is history. ... ... If you got so a strong connection, why didn´t you tell him the truth? ( Afraid of meeting him) Whas it embarrasing? ... ... I know how you feel, but I´m sure you´re also aware of how he feels. (in fact the doesn´t know the real reason) he might think you´re married, or just unsure of what you want, and the list could be endeless. ... ... I guess, it´s a good idea that you make now the move and go to meet him. ... ... Be daring,this life is for those who dare. ... ... Why don´t you ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: feeling onfused.. by BlueRose   33 mon  1,497
       
      I’ll echo much of what Marylo said. I, too, wonder why you didn’t just tell him that you were too depressed at the time to want to meet him? You said you both connected, then you should have been comfortable enough to tell him of your depression. So...you didn’t tell him, he made a trip just to meet you---and you didn’t show, nor did you tell him the reason why. Do you really wonder why he broke it off? As Marylo pointed out, he doesn’t know the reason you didnt show. For all he knew, you weren’t a young woman but an older man pretending to be something other than himself. Stories l ...   [retrieve this message]
  • My gf of 1 1/2 yr said she loved me but used old gf name by Bella66   3 year  2,014  Gay/Lesb. Support / Love / Happiness / 4 / 5
     
    I know it’s late-this just happened. Last 5 weeks have been tough as I underwent a spinal fusion surgery and have been useless since. Recovery is very slow. Anyway, we go to bed tonight. As usual, she is sleeping before I am....no surprise at all. The surprise came about half an hour later when she started talking (I’m guessing in her sleep) never heard her do it before-we have been together 1 1/2 yr. She is talking about a picture that we had taken on some rocks/jetty and that there was something wrong with it and needed to be changed and this had something to do with her bros weddin ...   [retrieve this message]
    • i hear the secrets that you keep...when you're talk'in in your sleep. by John McCain 2008   3 year  1,965
       
      you’ve got to be big enough to handle the truth. now, some will say that it isn’t a dealbreaker, she didn’t know what she was saying. ok. do you buy that? didn’t think so. you’ll always remember what your little honey said to you that one night, and it will linger. i think this ”dale” needs to be revealed to you. ask her about it. i’d want to know. you need to know what this guy is doing swimming around in her head because it is obvious that something’s going on. i might let this one slide, but i want to know what’s going on with this ”dale” fellow. report back your findings, pr ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: My gf of 1 1/2 yr said she loved me but used old gf name by cocteau   3 year  1,810
       
       ooh I’m so sorry.. what if you just ask her who Dale is?  ...   [End]
  • Audio Embedded Wasted Days And Wasted Nights......... by The Hunter   3 year  479
     
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  • Poll by #62845   3 year  1,763  Relationship / Marriage / Sex / 4
     
    Would you stay in a sexless marriage for love?   [End]
    • Re: Poll by HarmonicCharge   3 year  1,863
       
      It depends on the reason for it being sexless.   [End]
    • Re: Poll by Hidden Username   3 year  1,772
       
      Maybe if the guy supported me getting it elsewhere. ... ... ... I haven’t had sex in almost a year. That’s hard enough as it is. I can’t imagine staying ”married” to someone and never getting it again..or very infrequently. ... ...   [End]
    • Re: Poll by #68716   3 year  1,592
       
      I thought that’s why women got married, so they wouldn’t have to have sex anymore.... ... ... ...   [End]
      • Re: Poll by #62845   3 year  1,571
         
        Wow... didn’t expect that.   [End]
        • Re: Poll by #68716   3 year  1,559
           
          I was, just didn’t think it woulda happened so quickly. Its a matter of DHA levels, dehydroepiandrosterone.   [End]
    • sexless in the city. by John McCain 2008   33 mon  1,476
       
      tough call. would the mccainster stay in a sexless marriage? hmmmmmm...sex is really important in a marriage. but you throw in the word ”love” which intensifies the bond. i might if i loved her. let’s put it this way, this is how i could cum to grips (pardon the pun) with your query. if my wife had a medical concern that forced the sex to be painful or damaging to her health, i most definately would stay in the marriage. i am not going to penalize her for something she cannot help. not this guy. i’m a man of honor and if i have to hold a vibrator over her clit until she climaxes, ...   [retrieve this message]
  • Can My Marriage Be Saved? by TwiceBittenStillShy   3 year  2,749  Relationship / Divorce / Depression / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    My wife and I have been married for 22 years. I recently discovered that she has been having a secret two-year love affair with a man in another state that works for her same company. This follows another one-year affair that she had had about 14 years earlier with a man who lives in the same area as we do now. After my recent discovery, we rationally discussed where to go from here, as we have a vulnerable 10-year old son to think about (we also have two older boys in college). My wife and I still get along, but she struggles to be intimate with me, and confesses she has never really ...   [retrieve this message]
    • 22 years is long enough to hang on to a fantasy. by John McCain 2008   3 year  2,522
       
      move on. if you can’t take a hint, let me give it to your straight: she’s been hump’n more guys than you know of. once a liar, always a liar. these are just two you found out on. you’ve been played for a chump and still keep coming back for more. forget the counseling and stand up straight and tall for yourself, man. go find another woman while you still have years left to find one. the kids will be fine. your wife is screwing other guys. and you’re ok with that? lol...geez...there’s a name for women like that, brother. just because she’s your *****, doesn’t mean the LABEL DOES ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: 22 years is long enough to hang on to a fantasy. by motif   3 year  2,324
         
        a little drastic but I tend to agree :) ... ... p.s. ... did you think about shooting her? ... just kidding LOL   [End]
      • Re: 22 years is long enough to hang on to a fantasy. by #129589   3 year  2,313
         
        I agree with JM. ... and I doubt very seriously she’s ’fallen deeply in love’ with the other two. ... She not hardly worth it. ... Go find a good woman, she’s not even a good mother. She’s putting herself before any of you. ... Grow some balls, and tell her to take a hike..   [End]
    • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by BlueRose   3 year  2,321
       
      My first thought was to also say ”move on”. However, I keep coming back to what you wrote ”we have a vulnerable 10 year old son to think about”. So...I’m guessing that there is something going on with him that’s different from other 10 year olds? A physical problem? An emotional problem? Both? Or is it that he is a typical 10-year old but you are just concerned about how a 10-year old will handle a divorce? ... ... If he is your typical 10-year old, then with some extra attention and some counseling, he should be able to handle it. Divorce is never easy for kids (even grown kids) but s ...   [retrieve this message]
    • once started it's like domino... by motif   3 year  2,309
       
      IMHO, it’s sad but on the other hand who said it has to be one marriage for a life? Why not to try other forbidden fruits?   [End]
      • Re: once started it's like domino... by HarmonicCharge   3 year  2,163
         
        When I was younger I said marriage should be a contract. Choose a 6 month, 12 month, 18 month contract, then go from there. You may or may not want to renew. ... ... Now I am old enough to make one marriage last until death! ... ... But from age 20 something-stay happily married until 80 or 90 years old? That is for the very few.   [End]
    • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by #29335   3 year  2,235
       
      Yes, it can be saved. If you both get along and want to stay together. I don’t believe any couple has a perfect love and respect all the time. ... ... If you both agree on what’s best for your family, and work to keep things sane, you’re doing better than alot of folks. ... ... If you love her that much I doubt you’d be any happier without her. ... ... I’d say work it out. Good luck.   [End]
      • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by #129589   3 year  2,278
         
        I don’t believe any couple has a perfect love and respect all the time. ... ... ... Uhh yeah! Especially when there was NONE to begin with. ...   [End]
        • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by #37250   3 year  2,337
           
          Been there, done that. I heard the same words 32 years ago and have spent all these years trying to change the outcome. If that was your spouse’s feelings at that time it is not likely to change regardless of what you do. You are fighting a losing battle. You may be able to live together but you will never have that love and deep down peace and happiness you are looking for and need. Don’t wait too long or you will wake up one day and realize it is too late to fulfill your dreams of a truly happy marriage with all the benefits.   [End]
          • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by #29335   3 year  2,230
             
            You make it sound as if that perfect mate is just out there waiting for you. ... ... I know alot of nice middle age people and they all have their baggage, habits and kid problems. ... ... Chances are it wouldn’t be better, just different. ... ... I know old people who never found true love and are lonely, and I know people that stuck together through the cheating. ... ... The ones that stuck it out are happier.   [End]
            • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by #87647   3 year  2,194
               
              I can agree with the first half of your message but not the last part. How can anyone in their right mind be happy knowing their spouse, who they took a vow with to forsake all others, is bonking someone else (unless you went into the marriage knowing they were like that, then no one is to blame but yourself). IMO that, in and of itself is totally nuts and to continue in that charade would make anyone depressed or worse. I’m sorry but I would rather be alone than with someone who can’t be satisfied with the total package of ME just the way I am. ... ... No, you are never going to find someone t ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by #62845   3 year  2,218
       
      I’ve read the responses, and this caught my eye: ... ... ”I know old people who never found true love and are lonely, and I know people that stuck together through the cheating. ... ... The ones that stuck it out are happier.” ... ... This surprised another poster as it would many people if it were confirmed to be true. It doesn’t surprise me, though. ... ... What you do will depend on your priorities. Our society and Hollywood idealize the flame of new romantic love. The flame will lesson over the years. I think in our old age, companionship will become far more important which is why couples that stuck it ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by MrCuddly   3 year  2,333
       
      Wow - you guys are harsh! Guess we’ve all been there. ... ... At least your wife is being honest with you by letting you know there’s no romantic future in the cards. And she IS sticking around for the benefit of the kid(s). ... ... You have to get over your hopes for a happy ending (in either sense) with your wife, and decide between a loveless though semi-functional family situation - and breaking up the family for a more gratifying relationship (ok life). ... ... But bottom line, your wife has already put her personal wants at odds with the needs of the family and it’s only a matter of time befo ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by hoonos   3 year  2,385
       
      Sorry about your situation TBSS, but before you decide to stay for the benefit of your children, perhaps it would be wise to have a DNA test run to be certain that all of them have been fathered by you. My cousin found out after twenty years of marriage to his cheating ex wife that the children she insisted were fathered by him were actually provided to her by TWO different men that he had no knowledge of here even knowing. ... Incidentally she and the ”system” took him to the cleaners and he lost ”their” home to her and one of her studs. The two children he had provided for and had sent to c ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by #29335   3 year  2,121
         
        It’s pretty stupid to think your children will still love you after you make them take a test to prove they’re not yours. Duh   [End]
    • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by #68716   3 year  2,167
       
      If it were me, I’da gone and found that first mutherfker and beat the sumbitch silly and give her a stern talkin, if I loved her, and if she ever did it again I’d leave her in a heartbeat. By now she probably figures you got no backbone cuz ya kicked neither of their asses and maybe she’d be right in thinkin that. If that’s the case, maybe that’s why she don’t want to be inimate with ya, cuz yer not strong enough. I don’t intend to be attacking you, just offering a thought for consideration. Its wired into women to want a strong man, to look up to and not down on.   [End]
      • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by lannmann   3 year  2,038
         
        ... I tend to agree with Sylvette about backbone and being a strong man... very true. ... ... lannmann   [End]
      • Absolutely true by #101166   3 year  2,138
         
        This post by Sylvette above may not be written in the classiest fashion, but it reads like the gospel truth. ... ... ... It’s what I thought when I first read this by hthe original poster - no woman wants to think her man is a jellyfish.  Had this man showed more character, she probably would not have slept around in the first place. ... ... ... Some women with mamby-pamby husbands will get a lover, subconsciously desiring for the husband to find out and actually DO something about it.  When the husband doesn’t do anything, the wife will further sink in disappointment, and perhaps ...   [retrieve this message]
        • Re: Absolutely true by #68716   3 year  2,085
           
          Healthy women need strong men, so they can be themselves, and there’s few things better to behold than a woman who’s being a woman.   [End]
    • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by JWangSDC   3 year  1,907
       
      You need to ask yourself the question, are you better than this? Or rather, can you be better than this? Because right now you are not. Your wife is too afraid to leave you and the security you provide and she enjoys that. She is also in pain, she doesn’t have the confidence to leave you, a man she doesn’t love, because she doesn’t feel she can provide the security for herself. ... ... So if you are not ready to face the truth and better yourself, stay exactly where you are. If you think you can, you need to find ways to move on. Honestly this is the best way for both of you to work out anyway, ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Can My Marriage Be Saved? by WhumOwens   26 mon  1,422
       
      Hello, I think this is a very usual problems between couples, we can never tell how loyal our  partner is. No question that were having a high divorce rate here in our country. Well, it happened and there is nothing we can do about, if she does it ones, then i think its ok, but twice? it is unacceptable. You should think wisely now, its hard to pretend she loves you but in reality she doesnt. its better to to get divorce and talk about children, just be smart and think of yourself and your children ...   [End]
  • [Message Subject Hidden by a Forum Moderator] by amandastryker   3 year  1,309  Astrology / Love / Gay/Lesb. / 4 / 5 / 6
     
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  • A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by #128972   3 year  4,148  Relationship / Love / Lonely / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    Hello everyone this is my first time posting here and I would like your opinions and ideas on situation I am currently in. There is this girl, who will remain anonymous, I’ll call her Jane. ... ... I befriended Jane last year, I felt complete and utter affection and adoration for her skills, talents and beauty. Over the course of few months I believe we became good friends, I also grew strong feelings for her love and companionship. I am usually the solitary type, I don’t enjoy hanging out with big groups, nor do I care about a social life. But, Jane on other hand I felt was person I could al ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by MrCuddly   3 year  3,859
       
      It does sound like you’re probably more into her than visa-versa. She probably doesn’t even feel like she’s using you. ... ... Beautiful women are used to people showering them with affection, gifts, services, attention ALL THE TIME! I guess when so many people try so frantically to give you things, you stop feeling guilty for accepting after awhile. ... ... We’ve all been there, my friend. Take your lumps, grieve, and move on. No doubt it won’t be the last time you’re taken for a ride by someone of the opposite sex. ... ... When I was younger I would date or live with many beautiful women. Pe ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by BlueRose   3 year  3,865
       
      Sad to say, there are people like Jane who will use you then discard you. As soon as you figure out that a person is treating you like that, it’s time to move on. Whenever there is someone I know who starts calling me only when she wants something, I just end contact with her. ... ... I understand feeling lonely and wanting friends. It’s tough to make friends when you are a loner/introvert by nature. Thus I understand why you responded the way you did when Jane called you up only because she wanted something from you. However, you must stay strong. Next time she calls and wants somethi ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by #68716   3 year  3,754
       
      If you have any ounce of self-respect left you will leave her. She obviously has no intentions of recipricating any of your feelings. So why waste your time? Dump her like the narcissistic rag that she is and move on. ... ... And dont ever fall for a model again!   [End]
    • .........lol by uchihaMadara   3 year  3,812
       
      If you have taken enough math to put 1+1=2, then you surely know that you are your own greatest illusionist if you think the answer is elusive. The hardest illusion to break free from is the one that you yourself created. ... ... Play the hard to get game too if you like her, express how busy you are and that ”she” should be chasing you when she needs or asks for your company or attention, regardless of your ”lonely” state of mind. Never give in to the lonely feeling, it will permeate in your essence and label you as a ”SAP!” If she does not give, pull away your hand that feeds her. ... ... Here’s a ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: .........lol by spudlydoo   3 year  3,927
         
        Its really interesting to see this girl blamed by people on here. She is not responsible for how the original poster feels, thats his responsibility. It looks to me like she’s been trying to give a message by being unavailable, perhaps the original poster should take the message and back off. ... ... I do wonder why the original poster had to mention that the girl is a model, I fail to see how what she looks like has anything to do with how she acts. Would the OP feel less upset by her behaviour if she was average looking? ... ... Nobody can ’make’ us have feelings for them, as you said UM, we crea ...   [retrieve this message]
        • Re: .........lol by uchihaMadara   3 year  3,771
           
          Well spud, ... ... Assuming most models have a bigger boost in their egos, they trample on the average folk almost like a right bestowed upon them. Women especially get off, get a high, feeling like they are good looking and want that attention and affirmation due to an inherent insecurity admitted by most. ... ... I don’t like to play the blame game, but certain actions need to occur on the original poster’s behalf. ... ... He needs to change his point of view or confront his issues with the way someone is behaving toward’s him. If confronting the issues, he needs to do the last thing on his mind and th ...   [retrieve this message]
          • Re: .........lol by spudlydoo   3 year  3,646
             
            Hi UM, ... ... ”Assuming most models have a bigger boost in their egos, they trample on the average folk almost like a right bestowed upon them. Women especially get off, get a high, feeling like they are good looking and want that attention and affirmation due to an inherent insecurity admitted by most.” ... ... I have to disagree with this comment, this just plays to the sterotypical view that abounds in our society. There are people that think they have the right to trample others, and they are the narcissists of this world, and looks or lack of them has nothing to do with this personality fault. ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by Desperadonyc5   3 year  3,738
       
      There is a fabulous book called Why Walk When you Can Fly by ISHA. She talks about love consciousness-loving yourself unconditionally. It is brilliant and will do you a world of good as it has me.   [End]
      • Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by #58606   3 year  3,833
         
        You’ve gotten incredible answers. Mine is the same-- she is not interested in you. ... ... The best remedy for a situation like this, to *not* get out of control or messy, is to speak up and talk honestly, but respectfully of what’s on your mind.. If you don’t, then she doesn’t know what you are thinking, expecting etc.. and vice versa. This is not so much a case of her using you.. do you see? In order for this to never happen again and to grow as a person, you need to take responsibility for what happened, and see that you had a part to play in what happened.. How can good boundaries be esta ...   [retrieve this message]
    • you are a tool that is being used. by John McCain 2008   3 year  3,764
       
      your first assumption was a correct one. the girl is using you for your talents in getting her through the class, through the loss of a boyfriend, lunch, etc. drop her and move on. let it be. don’t become one of those pathetic losers who hang on and give, give, give without any receiving. there’s plenty of those pussies in this life without you adding to the tally. you were used, learn from it, and forget her. and just another thing: don’t go overboard with the affections for women these days, it’s best not to invest so much so early in the ”relationship”. you gave it all, she gav ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by HarmonicCharge   3 year  3,835
       
      Hate to say it, ... ... But nothing in your post makes me think she sees you as anything more than a friend. ... ... There will always be ”the beautiful people” but... ... ... ... Usually we want to meet our soulmate, and generally this does not just mean someone that society finds owns an attractive outer shell. ... ... You didn’t list any good traits that she posseses that you admire. ... ... It is OK to have a crush on an aesthetically pleasing person. ... ... But deeds and actions are the glue that bond any friendship. ... ... You sound like a very sweet and thoughtful person. The woman that does find she has chemistry ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by Hidden Username   3 year  3,652
       
      You’re not even a friend to her. ... ... I mean, you don’t forget your FRIENDS birthdays or ignore it! You do NOT have to be in love with someone to wish someone a Happy Birthday. This is obvious but you seem to miss this. ... ... Well Ok, I forgot my friend’s Bday last year.. Lots of stuff going on, I don’t make notes of things, etc. I read it on her Twitter a few days later and apologized and she just laughed. ... ... ... You’re obsessed with her. Just because you want her as a friend doesn’t mean she will be a good friend or wants to be your friend the same way. She wants you as a tool.   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: A Girl that I adore and care for, feeling unappreciated and isolated by diamond1234   3 year  3,788
       
      I understand but can not do anything to help you   [End]
  • Looking back on a past relationship and feeling hurt by #128471   3 year  3,826  Relationship / Abuse Phys / Love / 4 / 5 / 6
     
    I was in a relationship with a guy for a year. It’s been about a year and a half since that relationship has ended. However, during that time, it was a hurtful, depressing time for me. ... ... I don’t think about this relationship as much. However, there are times I have dreams or run into a familiar object or place that makes me relive this past. I have no intentions of ever wanting to get back with him. I always feel hurt and sometimes get teary eyed when I think of this. Is this normal? Does anybody else feel this way? ... ... ... (some more details, maybe to help answer the question) ... The r ...   [retrieve this message]
    • Re: Looking back on a past relationship and feeling hurt by SoulfulSurvivor   3 year  3,811
       
      It’s very normal to mourn a loss, whether it’s a close relative to natural passing, or a relationship that went bad.  ... ... Dwelling on the loss is the problem, though it doesn’t sound as if you’re doing too much of that.  It sounds more as if you’re reflecting on how to avoid choosing a bad partner, in the future.  Good for you!!!  Putting aside education for any relationship is a really, really big error in judgment - at least, it was for me.  Our education is more important that we can possibly imagine, and it’s a good thing that you didn’t end up marrying this guy ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Looking back on a past relationship and feeling hurt by jurplesman   3 year  3,833
         
        Being hurt in a relationship can be devastating, especially for those with a low self-esteem. If you want to be successful, in a significant  relationship you need to have a healthy self-iimage. People with a healthy self-imaghe do not get hurt so much in rejection of love. They know they deserve better and start looking for a BETTER relationship very soon. But if you have a low self-esteem rejection in love can be really devastating. It seems to reinforce a previously held negative self-image. It can trigger a depression, and this means a pre-existing tendency to become depressed was ...   [retrieve this message]
        • now my husband spends much more time with me by wendysayi   12 mon  1,386
           
          ... i want to say my full satisfaction with the spell of dr_k_healer_of.all_brokenheart@solution4u.com. my problem is that my husband is always cheating on me and even spends nights out. sometimes he even leave for the entire week end, pretending that he has work. my life was lame until i asked dr_k_healer_of.all_brokenheart@solution4u.com to cast a spell for me. now my husband spends much more time with me   [End]
    • Re: Looking back on a past relationship and feeling hurt by jadedqueen   3 year  3,656
       
      I think this is completely normal. I have been in the same situation. I hear a song on the radio and remember everthing down to the smell of his cologne on a certain day. BUT in the end you just remember how he made you feel....belittled, disrespected. He was secretive and didn’t behave appropriately in your relationship. I think its fine that you grieve the loss of the relationship but I think its ever better that you are no longer willing to tolerate the treatment. Much luck. Don’t go back! :-)   [End]
    • no message by HarmonicCharge   3 year  3,501
    • Re: Looking back on a past relationship and feeling hurt by HarmonicCharge   3 year  4,442
       
      He probably promised you he wouldn’t talk to his ex anymore because he got into a fight with her. ... ... It is normal to be nostalgic about past relationships. Of course there was something good about them, and they begin with an attraction. But people evolve and sometimes others do the opposite, like starting to treat their partner like crap. ... ... Don’t waste the moment wishing to be back in an abusive relationship. ... ... It is nice to have someone there, yes, but better to have nobody than be with a cheater or a mean person. ... ... Work on finding inner peace and be patient! You will meet a man wh ...   [retrieve this message]
      • Re: Looking back on a past relationship and feeling hurt by faithmelose   15 mon  1,549
         
        ... priestoflovespell@yahoo.com was 100 percent right about my ex husband and the court of appeals matter. It happened just like he said it would. The woman judge, he told me would see right through his manipulation and send it back to court for a trial so that he could back up what he is claiming. This is exactly what he told me would happen,. he also told me I would receive retroactive pay, which I am expecting i got. Basically there was not a word in spell that did not work out exactly how he said it would. ... D I ...   [End]
    • [Message Subject Hidden by a Forum Moderator] by russell amir   11 mon  1,224
       
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