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 Loneliness may cause physical illness 
by DelennChat
4 mon
258
Celiac
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Loneliness may cause physical illness ... ... by David Gutierrez, staff writer ... ... (NaturalNews) Feeling lonely disrupts the immune system and may lead to many of the same health problems as chronic stress, according to a pair of studies conducted by researchers from Ohio State University and presented at the annual meeting of the Society for Personality and Social Psychology in New Orleans. Learn more ... ... [End]
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- Body odor problems making live lonely
by #168010
5 mon
859
Body Odor
/ Lonely
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I am a 35 year old female with terrible body odor not from poor hydgiene. This problem has affected me for years and made my life very lonely. I am just looking for people to talk to that have gone through a similar situations. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by affliction
5 mon
810
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I think a lot of us on here have a lot of the same problems caused by bo such as loneliness and anxiety. Sometimes im so lonely i dont know how i can bear it. its good to have this support forum and talk with this group. I’m here if you want to pm me as well. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by third.year
4 mon
719
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Regardless how much money you make, how much love and support you get from family, how good looking you are. If you smell not cause by hygiene, you’ll be depressed. It gets so intense that many times you wish you’d die. ... ... Wanna hear something funny, one of the greatest fear wont kill myself is the humiliation I’d get if people found out I kill myself coz I smell. I don’t wanna die a laughing stock to everyone I know. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by lilly35
4 mon
690
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LOL! Makes sense to me. Thanks for making me feel like I am not alone. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by affliction
4 mon
686
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another thought. before i thought what would i do if i won the jackpot of 50 million? what would i spend it on? I’d give a team of doctors 1 million dollars to find out whats causing this odor and get rid of it. id probably even pay them 25 million if it came down to it. when we live in the western world with so much technology ud think we could find a solution to body odor and unfortunately many people think it can be solved with a simple $7 formula from the drugstore when we tried everything and that person is so disgusting they say of me. if only they knew all the stuff i tried and if o ...
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by lilly35
4 mon
662
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I know how you feel trying to deal with all the comments and ”hints” people try to give to you. Sometimes I think the hints are nastier than it would be to actually tell the person they have an odor. At least then maybe you could explain that you couldn’t help it and that you tried everything, maybe that would get them to back off a little. ... I have spend thousands of dollars throughtout my life and gimmick products. None of them work and they just make you feel more hopeless. ... I too would spend everything and even give up years of my life if it meant this would be cured. ... The good th ...
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by Kadima
49 days
193
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Hey, ... sense of humor is the best medicine. ... ... Guys, ... did anyone try anything to change this problem? (I don’t mean to insult anyone, just asking). ... ... I know I can help you, if you like me to. ... ... ... It will be a little hard, because everyone is different, so I would need to know every person’s story: how it started, what you were feeling at that time, why you think you have bo, what you did to get better, etc.. ... ... So, let me know. ... ... I would love to help. ... ... Warmly, ... Eugeniya ... [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by affliction
4 mon
678
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It’s so true even if i spend hours on clothes and makeup and get a big paycheque with no bills, I’m so depressed because i smell worse than a living corpse. Please dont consider killing yourself because you smell and suicide is never a laughing matter no matter what the reason. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by #156161
4 mon
694
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People are very rude but who is to say if the shoes was reversed how we would have acted... I would given anything for somebody to just come out and tell me you stink instead of taking behind my back. But I always tell myself God never gives us problem we can’t handle. So we just have to be strong and keep moving and try to find answers. ... ... I know it gets though but we have to hold our heads up high.... And stay positive and we have to be our own advocate. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by #167830
4 mon
651
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Dear affliction, thank you for the very timely reminder: TMAU, BB, and BO is NO LAUGHING MATTER. Take care. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by #167830
4 mon
655
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Hi there third.year, sounds like you got it goin’ on. Am I to assume that you were referring to yourself, when you mentioned all those beautiful blessings in your life? ... You are absolutely correct third.year in what you said about having good looks, money or a good job, a loving family who supports and encourages you, and how these things at times seem pointless. You have probably even said to yourself: ”I feel all alone, even though I’m in a room full of people”. You, may have even tried laughing or smiling about your the unpleasant odor that emits from your body. The Bible mentions at Ec ...
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by #156161
4 mon
673
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Wow draheraw reading your post made me emotionally so well said. Sometimes we humans only focus on what we lack and what we don’t have. I am sure well I could only speak for myself but if I don’t have this odor issues I would have been complaining about something else. It’s human nature to focus on things we don’t have instead of counting our blessing. There are people out there that have it worst than us besides our odor we have no medical issue. There are people that suffer with cancer and pain. I am not saying what we are going through this not painful but there are people that have it ...
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by #167830
4 mon
659
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Dear #156161 How beautifully said and expressed. I could’nt have said it better :)...Keep your head and chin up #156161, and stick to your goal of getting TMAU and other odors under control. Please do me a favor and check out the thread dealing with Trimehtylaminuria, where I comment on the medical reason we suffer from TMAU (primary and secondary). I’d like to see what you think about it. Thanks and take care. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
RRR by hadenuff29
4 mon
748
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Wowee man these forums are like committing suicide. ... ... Everyone needs to get more positive and get on the front foot and take spme serious action.The illness wont miraculously dissapear without action. ... ... There is too much information I need to tell you but one of the best things I could say is to buy the book the MIRACLE OF FASTING by Braggs. In it on about page 83 i think, he talks of a person with chronic odour issues who overcomes it with a year of regular weekly water fasts, and some 7-10 day fasts. It’s an awesome book and I recommend it just for that one case study. I personally ha ...
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by Rugare
4 mon
636
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Hey just wanted to ask if you had tried the fasting and whether it helped [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by hadenuff29
4 mon
702
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Yes I have mate, I have done a lot of green juice fasts. Absolutely they work, but just be aware the odours will get terribly worse probaly during the first fast as everything dies off and old toxins and feces are eliminated. You get worse before you get better. There is no way around that. ... ... Good luck ... Jordan [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by #167830
4 mon
629
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Hi I’ve never tried fasting, and I don’t knock it. Fasting does have its benefits. Ive fasted a couple times in my life but really did not have much success. Some have success some don’t. It varies frm person to person. Im just a person that does or keeps things as simple as possible if I can’t I suppose if the black tea didnt work Id be looking at other possible solutions.. And for me drinking black tea does the trick when keeping down body odors associated with TMAU. ... Remember, that a defective human gene called fmo3 is within every cell on our bodies so we therefore will never totally ...
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by affliction
4 mon
621
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I get so depressed today thinking its valentines day soon and yet again i have nobody, totally deserted with this odor condition and i never get the ones i want for the most part :( no friends really to call on me and check up on me i just was wishing i didnt exist altho ill probably retract that comments later on. im just going to drown my sorrows in a bucket of fried chicken. [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by hadenuff29
4 mon
653
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One question, Are you diagnosed TMAU? ... ... If your odors arrived at the same time you got some really bad intestinal issues, I’m certain you don’t have TMAU [End]
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by affliction
4 mon
572
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Hello hadenuff 29 my bo is something i was born with i think or occurring in very early childhood. my digestive problems came about by around the age of 18 not due to natural causes so it has no relation to the bo. my tmau result was actually in the normal range, in fact low for even the normal range. ... ... TMA (umol/mmol creatinine) ... Normal Range ello hadenuff 29 my bo is something i was born with i think or occurring in very early childhood. my digestive problems came about by around the age of 18 not due to natural causes so it has no relation to the bo. my tmau result was ...
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by hadenuff29
4 mon
609
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Hi Affliction, ... ... I’m glad it’s not Tmau. You’re lucky in that aspect. ... Does you mum have digestive issues too? Or ever had any serious illness? ... ... I think you are trying a lot of different things from what you are saying, but you arent sticing ot them for long enough. 2 weeks won’t cut it. Sometimes probiotcs will need to be taken for years just to get the balance back in the guts. A mild case of IBS can be fixed quite easily, but it will still sometimes take a good 6 momths. So imagine ours is a lot longer, depending on the time you have been suffering and how bad it has gotten. ... ... Imag ...
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- Re: Body odor problems making live lonely
by affliction
4 mon
603
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Hello thats a good idea. I dont have a history of family bo problems or food allergies/ibs altho my grandmother had excessive sweating in her underarms. also it’s not ibs what i have its something that happened after a SA a few years ago where something is not working properly, i believe my liver or soemthing and it has no relation to the bo, the bo happened much earlier. That’s a good idea i dont stick with things long enough i sort of try one thing and then the next looking for a quick fix. maybe the smell is even coming from my stomach i dont know but i should stick with the probiotics ...
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- Board games
by bentring34
7 mon
123
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I think board games are a great way to bring people together to stop the feeling of loneliness. Take The Logo Game, Chess, Backgammon or Market Meltdown for example - hours of fun! ... [End]
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- Feeling no one gives a damn for me.
by #23475
8 mon
403
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All have an agenda of what should be. If I´m not what they want, they get mad and give me their back. [End]
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- Chronic loneliness and lack of passion
by HurtHeart
9 mon
926
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After many losses, too many to write now, I had a romantic relationship 3 yrs following my divorce. This was someone I felt strongly connected to and worked with 13-14 years ago. We were both married then and never discussed the mutual attraction. ... To make a long story short, he said it was just a fantasy and ended the relationship in an email. I was devastated and then depressed. I was angry and confused after the break-up and said things in anger I regretted. ... I had a marriage on paper before this relationship and HE opened up doors to long repressed feelings of longing for connection a ...
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- Re: Chronic loneliness and lack of passion
by BlueRose
8 mon
904
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It may surprise you to hear this but, these days, you are not alone. Many of us feel disconnected. In past times, people were less mobile and often tended to stay in the same town/city/neighborhood for their entire lives---as did their extended families. ... ... You said that you moved to a new state for financial reasons. Are you living in a transient area? If so, in such areas, people (generally speaking) don’t want to put in the effort to make connections. Their thinking is that people will move anyway, so why bother. ... ... Yet, paradoxically, if you are in an area where people still tend ...
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- Re: Chronic loneliness and lack of passion
by HurtHeart
8 mon
782
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BlueRose, thank you for taking the time and giving great thought to my post. I agree about the casual conversations - some days the only chat I have are with cashiers or hair dresser. I am a talker, so it is easy for me to start talking to strangers. It is interesting to note that not everyone I begin to chat with is comfortable with that approach. I did that in a museum recently and you would not believe the look I got. We all have our needs and fears. An aquaintance moved to a 55+ active community and encourages me to do the same. My concern so far - and it may change - is the lack ...
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- Re: Chronic loneliness and lack of passion
by BlueRose
8 mon
769
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You’re welcome. I’m glad that you wrote back. ... ... It’s true that not everyone wants to chat. I’ve come across store clerks that are rude despite my being polite to them. It’s best not to let people like that get you down. ... ... As I said, you’re not alone. Many of us are in similar situations. Over the years, I’ve had many people I considered to be friends who stop keeping in touch. Yet I still believe that one day I will meet someone who will turn out to be a really good friend. ... ... It sounds to me like you’re on the right track. Keep being friendly to others. One day you will connect ...
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- 50 different ciders for health
by #158272
9 mon
1,033
Apple Cider
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Cider and Perry is very good for your health in moderation. Please check out our pub which sells over 50 different varieties. You can add us as a friend on Facebook! ... www.facebook.com/railway.newnham [End]
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- Lonely and Broken
by fastingforlife
17 mon
675
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... Hi, so there’s nobody on here I’m guessing, since there hasn’t been any posts for 18 days. ... ... I was actually looking for the ”Liver” forum and was scrolling through all the ”L’s”... Hey, yep.... That’s me... I’m pretty f*cking lonely right now. I realised it earlier today, when I was trying all these home remedies on myself, desperately trying to feel better, struggling, as I always seem to be, searching, ever searching for the answer to my infernal health problems. ... ... Why do I always feel like SH*T??? ... ... WTF IS WRONG WITH ME?~!?!?!? ... ... Then a thought struck me. I’m dying of a broken h ...
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- Re: Lonely and Broken
by fastingforlife
17 mon
619
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By the way, I’m not seeking attention or advice, and this doesn’t warrant a reply. It just felt good to get that out. Thanks. [End]
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- Re: Lonely and Broken
by bettersoon
13 mon
445
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Wow. I’m brand new to this site and like you was scrolling through the list and saw ’lonely.’ I couldn’t believe there was a place to talk with other lonely people. I’m a 45 year old married mom to two teenage boys and I’ve just recently realized how lonely I am. I just said it to my counselor this past week. I have all kinds of problems, but they boil down to - lack of relationship with anyone. Aren’t married people supposed to be connected after 19 years? Nope. Not in my house. I so understand what you are saying about the bubble. In fact that’s exactly how I describe my life - in a bubb ...
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- EFT changes sad feelings, quite promptly...
by fledgling
17 mon
1,203
Lonely
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/ Anxiety
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...If you need a quick out. ... ... Here’s an easy, and free, video you can use immediately. ... ... ... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6i33V2EcVlY&feature=relmfu ... ... ... Don’t worry if it looks silly...simply be alone and do the suggested moves with the instructor. ... ... I had a toothache and I used the video on it. ... ... I had tried EFT before, years ago, but it wasn’t as intense an experience as the toothache. ... ... I went through the video twice, then, the next day (yesterday) the ache suddenly came back. I went through the video once more, then I went to sleep for a long time. ... ... The toothache is gone. I ...
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- Re: EFT changes sad feelings, quite promptly...
by LifeWorksCommunity
17 mon
1,043
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Wow! That’s incredible. I’ve seen techniques like this used by shaman’s and similar spiritual healers. The mind is a powerful thing, that’s what everyone needs for a good recovery. [End]
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- Thanks for your endorsement, Lifeworkscommunity...
by fledgling
17 mon
1,063
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...I am in the midst of trying EFT on EVERYTHING. ... ... And I mean EVERYTHING. ... ... ... Since I have begun with Healing Bioenergy, http://curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i=1883384#i I have returned to EFT (tapping). ... ... I knew that it works years ago. I am sure, also, that Healing Bioenergy works. ... ... I have come to think that there are many modalities that help as well. ... ... They are simply ways to focus the mind, effectively, I believe. ... ... Just accepting one way or another as possibly helpful is a great help, too. I think a person comes to accept a practice when they are ready. ... ... I even go so far as ...
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- Well, can't get anymore lonely than this.
by Hidden Username
23 mon
772
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So I have no friends. No particular reason for this other than I was picked on in school so don’t have friends that carried over into adulthood from school like most people. I had a lot of health issues in my 20’s and also moved around a lot. I just simply have no way of meeting people. I mean, it’s not like you can just walk into a store and invite someone to hang out. I’ve met a few people off line just go to concerts with but even that didn’t amount to much. Mostly because I get sick of having nothing to offer or to talk about. Most women have kids or are married. I do not. Unless you s ...
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- Re: Well, can't get anymore lonely than this.
by BlueRose
23 mon
810
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I’m sorry that I didn’t notice this earlier. I hope that you come back to this thread and read my post. ... ... First of all, don’t assume that most people have friends from childhood that carried over into adulthood. I can honestly say that the only friend from my younger days that I still hear from is one of my college roommates. I think that the older generations seemed to be better at keeping life long friends. For example, my parents came from the so-called ”greatest generation” and both had life long friends. What is surprising about my parents is that my mother was a narcissist and ...
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- Love your reply, BlueRose
by fledgling
17 mon
497
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This business of being born to families which don’t function well is a rotten trick, I think...but there is no complaint department. ... ... The only thing we get is the person inside...and what a person that is! ... ... Pick something you do well. ... ... It doesn’t have to be earth-shaking, just something you do well and enjoy...to a degree. ... ... Like, for example, I enjoy sorting, and I am very good at it. ... ... When I was first interested in scrumbling (random knit/crochet with leftover yarns), I found lots of yarn at garage sales, inexpensively. ... ... By myself, I spread each purchase in a rainbow on a long ...
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- I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing?
by #139013
27 mon
2,245
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http://curezone.com/upload/_Q_R_Forums/Relationship/SpringBreak2010_035_1.jpg ... ... I have dated David for 8 months now, not very long but I have come to love him so much and continue to love him more. Our problem is his inability to handle stress. ... I’m not saying his situation is easy, in the process of a nasty divorce (I met him half way through his divorce; his wife cheated with some old guy(55 year old, I don’t get it either) and so he also started dating other girls and it turned into a pissing match). I can say with confidence, they hate each other; it’s the usual story, they got pregn ...
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- Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing?
by BlueRose
27 mon
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OK---Bear with me. There are two things I have to get out of the way here. 55 is old? Excuse me? ... ... Second, IMO, if it were me, I wouldn’t put a photo of myself out there. One of the best things about CZ is that others can come in here bare their souls yet keep their anonymity. Considering your current legal troubles, personally I don’t think it’s a good idea to have your photo out there at all. ... ... Now---as for your legal issues---Please hire a good lawyer! If you don’t do this, it could hurt you in the long run. ... ... Second, cut off ties with David. There is much too much drama going ...
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- Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? Edited
by SoulfulSurvivor
27 mon
1,885
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I will agree with everything that Blue Rose has suggested, particularly the replacement of your personal photo - remaining ”anonymous” is very, very valuable. ... ... More food for thought: you mentioned that this man had engaged in numerous ”random” contacts with other women during his separation. Ding! Ding! Ding! Warning! Red Flag Alert! Have you ever spoken with his estranged wife or previous partners on a personal, adult level, or does your information come from this man? What about his finances and employment history? What about any criminal background? ... ... Your last remark suggest ...
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- Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing?
by MrCuddly
27 mon
1,912
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I say keep the picture. You’re a beautiful girl and it puts things into context. Of course it’s always easy to solve every problem for people by telling them to dump whoever it is that’s making life complicated. ... ... But I’ll agree with the others saying it sounds like you’re getting the brunt of being a rebound. And from a divorce no less. You’ll get to play nurse, psychiatrist, care giver etc to a vast amount of hurt and insecurities that you had nothing to do with. Whether or not it’s worth it is up to you - but the odds aren’t on your side. I cringe when I think of what my poor G ...
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- Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing?
by #100163
27 mon
2,191
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I think you should spend some time really figuring out what you want - for you. This guys sounds like he has a lot of drama? Why do you want that? ... ... I’ve always been in relationships with a lot of drama - much older now, and still learning. Get out of the cycle while you can. ... ... I’ve been writing a blog about how to be a better person and a better partner. I’m six days in! :) ... ... http://bodhicittama.blogspot.com/ [End]
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- Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing?
by summer12601
23 mon
1,359
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I really wanted to make this post more gentle and tactful because I care about how this might make you feel but I just have the need to say this and without knowing how else to say it here it goes, ”Your boyfriend sounds emotionally and psychologically abusive.” ... ... Respect and trust toward you are your right to have in a relationship. He may have other thoughts about that but that is really his problem. I am sure that he has had a history of difficulties. Most of us have. But that is no reason to treat you the way he is. If you do not like something that he is doing or not doing, you have ...
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- Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing?
by #125342
23 mon
1,322
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you feel lost..seems there’s no fullfillment and mutual joy here..a wife who by the token of children will be in his life forever..whose obviously effective at pushing his buttons and whom he still very much attached to by his emotional responses and reactions allbeit negatively..Also it seems he’s still in the midst and involved with their/her game..but untill he can find it in himself to let go and move on and devote himself to the relationship of the new and now....you’re in for a MUDDY RIDE! ... ... one rule, although not a guarantee buffer, is to consider getting involved with a man whose ...
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- Re: I Feel Lost, What Am I Doing? (Edited by Moderator)
by ksushil970
7 mon
426
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your problem is very serious, and i am also confused that how to handle it. Just try to consult with your boyfriend. ... ... ... ... _______________________ ... [End]
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- Seeking Support, Friends, answers
by nanonanogo
28 mon
5,544
Morgellons
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/ Anxiety
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Hello, ... This is only my second day officially here. I replied to a post yesterday, asking questions; and this morning I posted something that seemed like a bit of comic relief for me, and for others, I’d hoped. I guess I have an ”off” sense of humor that maybe no one else understood or appreciated. I have had no replies at all, which has made me more depressed and sad, and afraid - feeling so alone. ... I contracted this thing when I moved into a new apartment the last week in December, 2010, and started showing symptoms and seeing strange things around the place a couple of weeks later; ...
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- Re: Seeking Support, Friends, answers
by hoppimike
28 mon
5,260
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holy f*** lol! Move out somewhere and get the place sprayed wall-to-wall! ... ... As for your own health.. I dunno it depends what they are... ... ... Maybe it’s best to get something tested, and try not to come into contact with too many people to spread it until they’re gone, don’t you think? ... ... I mean, if the place gets sprayed, one gets tested, then you can work out what they are and take medication to kill them. I mean I agree natural remedies are nice but.. sometimes you just need to kill stuff! lol ... ... I hope you’re ok though. ... ... Feel free to add me on MSN or Yahoo or something, I’d be happy ...
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- Re: Seeking Support, Friends, answers
by Katara
28 mon
5,214
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Hello, Nan. I have empathy for you, this condition is horrifying and yes, we feel very alone. ... ... It is not something you can discuss easily with close friends, or anyone else. I, too have symptoms like yours for three years. ... ... I, too have asked questions and made posts on this site that have been ignored sometimes. ... ... The wild hairs wind around themselves to make a nest and I find a fuzzy ball in the center. other fibers that come off me get into the nests and they are up under cabinets and in corners. they look like starfish and get stuck on comforters and other bedding like they a ...
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- Re: Seeking Support, Friends, answers
by nanonanogo
28 mon
5,108
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Hello Katara, ... ... I so appreciate you responding. It is a good idea to see the ”cocoon” things as nests... that connects better with me... CLEAN, clean, clean! I will throw my dog’s blanket away right away... he’s been sleeping off of it most of the time, in a little corner on the very low ”carpet” we have here. He is still acting happy, and doesn’t seem much affected. I do, however, give him DE mixed in his food each evening, and I’ve been spraying borax with h202 and rubbing it in well every few days. Ted from EC recommended that for when we have the morgellons. He’s 16 years old, ...
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- Re: Seeking Support, Friends, answers
by Katara
28 mon
5,156
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When I first came down with this and was using Morg Sanctum site it was mentioned - I found the nesty things too and noticed they seem to be ”organized”. Most of the times they are small and just beginning now - much fewer. Once in a while a bigger nest will show up from the back of the closet - a place I haven’t been in quite awhile but now I know them for what they are. They come from inside folded sheets, etc. ... ... Good idea to throw away the dog bed and get one that will wash easily. Throw pillows and blankets are a bad idea unless they can be washed easily - aka often. Use easily w ...
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- Re: Seeking Support, Friends, answers
by nanonanogo
28 mon
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Yes, Katara, there must be a breakthrough soon; and I pray everyday. I will check out the things you pointed out, thank you. ... I’m having another ”horror show” tonight... I was starting to get a toothache, as I do a lot lately, so I started by swishing and brushing with warm salt water, as I was in the kitchen. It went away after awhile, so I went to the bathroom to finish brushing my teeth; then I brushed my tongue (which has been kind of blackish lately - I attributed it to partial detoxing)... then I went to brush the roof of my mouth. I had been feeling something odd there with my ...
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- Re: Seeking Support, Friends, answers
by BlueRose
28 mon
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About 3 years ago, there was an excellent article about Morgellon’s Disease that appeared in The Washington Post. You can read it here: ... ... http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/story/2008/01/18/ST2008011801924.html ... ... Best of luck to you as you heal. [End]
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by #138950
28 mon
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I am sorry that you are struggling and lonely. I do know the feeling. Just know there are others out there that do care and sometimes you cannot find that type of care from doctors. I know that is frustrating, we assume they should care and understand. I hope you are feeling better. [End]
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by nanonanogo
28 mon
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Thank you very much, friend, for your kind words. Those, and those from others today, have really helped me get through a tough, tough time. Unfortunately, with Morgellons disease, the Doctors don’t know what’s going on, so almost no one is getting any help or support from them. We hope that will change very soon. ... ... Thank you, again! [End]
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28 mon
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Oh how I can relate...six years of total life depletion. The good news is, some of the things you are going through can slow down over time. I’ve had things clear twice only to return. ... ... Let your cloths sit over night in baking soda, borax and DE. After drying, wipe dryer out with Pine Sol. I found freezing clothes 24 hours then immediately dry steaming or microwaving them helps a lot. ... ... Have not used this, but have been told Cedarcide with their fogging system is extremely helpful to rid them from house. I used DE and then I regularly clean with Pine Sol or a homemade recipe salt, ...
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by nanonanogo
28 mon
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Wow! Thank you so much for this kind and informative response. I will do what you suggest that I can, and later, if money improves, will try some of the more expensive stuff. What about far infrared therapy, NutraSilver - or the like, sulfur internally/externally, and the enzymes for inside and outside the body/home... any luck with any of those... some are swearing by them, and I’m getting some money tomorrow, and planned to order these things, plus a few more. Also, did you get ”them” in your teeth? They are causing me great pain within an hour after I lay down to go to sleep, now.
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by morgticia
28 mon
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Nanonanogo, ... I’ve heard very good things about TKO Orange as a cleaning agent from a friend that has a very bad infestation problem. Try to use natural products only. I would not spray the apt. with any chemicals. Morgellons sufferers have problems with toxic overload, so you don’t want to make it worse by blasting your environment with chemicals. ... ... You’ve got to get out of that apt. and yes, I’d leave behind as much as you can. ... ... I was so paranoid about people taking my trash, that I’d wait till the garbage truck was coming up the block and deposit my belongings in the truck myself! If ...
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by Iolite
28 mon
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http://www.cedaroilstore.com/CEDAR_OIL_ANIMAL_PEST_CONTROL_s/3.htm ... ... You can try getting some cedar oil spray. It’s really strong in the house. I’ bought some last summer for my dog for fleas. I sprayed her inside the house and it took hours for the intense cedar smell to go away. I’ll bet if you sprayed this stuff inside, it’d work as well as a fogger. ... ... TKO oil is a good cleaner and insecticide. It’ll kill wasps, ants, etc.... I bought a half gallon to use as a general cleaner and It’s still almost full. It’s concentrated, you dilute in water. ... ... http://www.tkoorange.com/
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by dynastyjam
3 mon
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I’ve had this horrid disease for over 12 years... Luckily I have only had lesions on my feet.... Like you I take many vitamins and have many cleansing rituals I go through... ... I was disturbed to hear about your teeth... I haven’t heard many people speak of this.... ... I had the same thing about 10 years into it... I would go to the dentist and they would act as though I wasn’t properly caring for my teeth.... It’s all so embarrassing.... ... Sadly, nothing worked for long.... I would, like you, find something to stop the pain and then it would start again... the affected tooth discolored almost ...
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- i'm really tryn to move on, when does the hurt stop?!!!
by ALWYZleft
30 mon
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OK, I’M PRAYING-ONE DAY IS BALANCED AND UNDERSTANDING ’figure I’m being postitive and it takes 1 day at a time TIME HEALS ALL’. I’ve been on a date or two, I’m getting sooooooooo many compliments, meeting nice gentlemen BUT I’M STILL CRYING OVER A LONG TIME EX (from right after high school - who found me on FB and visitied 1 week). I know I expected too much, I found it WE CHANGED!! I just really wanted more, my feelings were rekindled and although I handled it maturely I CAN’T MOVE ON, I CAN’T STOP REMEMBERING, I CAN’T STOP CRYING. I’m angry ALOT now, I believe and KNOW I deserve hap ...
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by #23914
30 mon
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I went through the exact same thing at 58 with my high school sweetheart... It took years for me to stop crying (the first year as much as three hours a day), and I never stopped thinking about him...although not always fondly. It is now five years later, and just yesterday, I felt his presence in my car for a minute or so as I was driving home from work, almost as if he were sitting next to me. ... ... How long it will take to settle down depends on the circumstances of your life, the intensity of your feelings for him, your age, your general health and lifestyle practices and how much suppo ...
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by sirdave
30 mon
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i can relate to you both so much . i am also thinking about my high school love all the time, even after years. nothing helped so far, neither crying, nor looking for affection with other girls. in fact, kissing random girls always made me cringe and sick to my stomach. ... i also thought i would be the only person who could be so sensitive. maybe hypnosis can help? i mean what if the right person never shows up ? it really sucks. [End]
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by #23914
30 mon
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Cringing or feeling sick when kissing someone new is a bit extreme. Perhaps counseling could help. Or EFT therapy. At any rate, while I don’t know how old you are, and there is always hope, ultimately, in order to make peace with yourself you must learn to learn accept ”what is”. ... ... You may find someone tomorrow, but the reality is that some people never do and they either end up alone, in an unhappy marriage or a string of unhappy marriages just to keep from being alone. ... ... I did both...but ended up alone and have learned to embrace it. ... ... I believe that some people have karmic bloc ...
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by ALWYZleft
30 mon
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thank you so much for your response, but i don’t totally agree with you on some things written to someone else about cringing up when he kisses someone. i have experienced this frustration and/or unfamiliar ground (means he’s healing). i to married before for nearly 15 years, we toughened it out and i don’t regret that it didn’t work because i gave my all. so, i do have closure and believe that i deserve love and happiness (even through my pain over this ex lover from the past). dating is a learned behavior that is challenging and sensitive. just like adjusting to marriage, i’m learni ...
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by sirdave
30 mon
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eft does not work. it didnt work for me and it doesnt even work for the practitioners that are well-known in the eft community. i know for a fact that some of them have seeked help at naturopaths for various diseases, so apparently its not a magic bullet and they know. but at least they make a lot of money off of it. ... and yes, it may be extreme to feel sick when kissing random girls, but they were party girls only interested in sex but i am looking for love and i cant be someone i am not. ... however , i am only in my mid-twenties so maybe i can get over her with some counseling. i definitel ...
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by Raynbo
30 mon
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Not everything works for all people. I didn’t think EFT worked either...when the issue was hot it didn’t seem to do me any good. However, now that I have cooled off, I do it on myself whenever I am feeling obsessive about something, and it seems to help. Its’ simple. It’s free. It only takes a minute to learn how to do it. But to use it on yourself or not is up to you. I never thought of it as a cure all for diseases...just emotional issues, which may or may not be tied to disease. ... ... When I worked with a practitioner, I did not find it to be all that expensive. Mine also used couns ...
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by ALWYZleft
30 mon
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you are not the only sensitive person, i loved my ex before he even arrived to see me. i guess it hurts more, knowing that we won’t even have a chance to be friends. i feel like we have history together and we know one another (whether the intimacy/love relationship part didn’t work or not). i guess that is why i didn’t put up any boundaries with him (stupid!!!) i have been on dates, i do not compare; and yes i believe i deserve happiness and could see the goodness and respect out of other men. but, it doesn’t stop the pain when i’m lying in bed at 1am and 3 am in the morining. it does ...
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by ALWYZleft
30 mon
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that’ really scarey (that it could be indefinite). i feel so juvenile, you would think his nonresponsiveness/desire to call or get in touch with me, would make me ’stronger’ and/or angrier. but it doesn’t! i have some good faith fulfilled days, occupied constantly and even went on a date or two. i have an ex-boyfriend who ’sounds’ interested and even shows that he is. but it’s n.o.t. (him). i know i have to heal first (but have to be willing bla bla bla). but it’s just not easy. ... ... again, i know i expected tooo much when we met/reunited; but, it was the same for me. the sad part ...
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by hoppimike
30 mon
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Yah I’ve been there too (about girls though, as I’m a guy lol). ... ... What I tell myself now at 25 though is that... if something didn’t work out... then it just wasn’t ”meant to be” :) Not in like a fate way, but more that if two people are really, really right for each other, then everything will work out in the end! :) And if not? Well then there’ll be someone out there that you WILL get along with better, and then it will work! ... ... That always makes me feel much better now if something goes wrong to do with rships! heh - hope it helps! :) [End]
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by marylo
29 mon
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I feel for you. But iMPO you´re not crying for his loss. You are crying for a lost expectation which seemed not to be based in real facts, but it also hurts. ... ... You were in love with someone, who doesn´t exist. ... ... You´ll get over it eventhough you might think you won´t. ... ... Good luck! [End]
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- Feel so adrift, alone.. and stuck in a country far from home..
by #135894
30 mon
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Hey there.. ... ... I’m 22 years old.. in the final year of dental school in India.. and I basically have no friends whatsoever.. I moved here four years ago for my parents.. and for myself.. to change the wreck I was becoming back home in Texas.. but, I don’t know if I’m better now.. I mean, yes, I’m more sober.. and pursuing an education.. but I get depressed so often.. I live at home with my parents (who are so very conservative and strict).. and they don’t let me talk to anyone on the phone.. or step foot outside the house after school.. and even in school, I’m observed-- told who to talk ...
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by Iolite
30 mon
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You are 22 years old for cripes sake! Your parents in India with you? Geesh! It would help the depression isolation if you could make some friends. Can you talk to someone in the Student Health Center about your depression and isolation? ... ... Why are your parents trying to be controlling? At 22 years old, you should be in school alone and your parents should be back at the states. Being this protective is keeping you from growing and maturing and learning how to be independent. ... ... [End]
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by tesorina
30 mon
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Thank you so much for replying.. but there is no such thing as a student health center here.. not even a counselor.. nada.. I’m just trying to think of the three years that have already passed and of the eight months left to go.. What else can I do? [End]
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by Iolite
30 mon
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Yes, eight more months... then you’re ”Free at Last”! Seriously, put a state or two between you and your parents! Good luck with your studies! ... ... You can also join user groups on the ’net to connect with other people. I don’t know your whole story, but it sounds like your drinking might have been a form of self medication. Since there’s no student health center, can you talk to one of your professors? Maybe one of them can point you to a physician that can help you with your depression. [End]
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- Need someone to talk to Wife cheated
by avengerz43
31 mon
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Sorry for the long post only read I guess if you have time I just need someone to talk to. ... ... Hi, not really sure how to do this or whatever but I really needed somewhere to vent, someone to talk to. I guess I’ll keep it as brief as I can but this might be kind of long. ... ... My name is Zach, I’m 27 been married 7 years and have a 3 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. My wife is 27 as well and we met kind of funny, on match.com the dating website. See I guess in my youth I probably caused a lot of girls to seek infidelity help since I was a big male whore lol no but seriously I was a pl ...
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- Give her a second chance! But don't trust her too much!
by EricB
31 mon
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Give her a second chance, but don’t trust her too much! ... Try to find out why would she decide to come back to you? ... Does she feels the same connection toward you, the same kind of love that you feel toward her? ... If her only reason to stay with you is economical or for the sake of kids, or until she can find some other place to stay, then you do not have future together. ... But still, you need to forgive and show respect toward each other, for the sake of kids and for your own mental and emotional health. ... ... ... How to deal with your anger? How to deal with jealousy? ... ... Easy. ... ... Find another wo ...
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by Roooth
31 mon
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My answer is brief: all this pain and frustration and uncertainty and mistrust and endless playing over in your head awful things... everything bad that’s happening to you emotionally now is how you can expect your life to be permanently as long as you try to be with her. I’m very sorry for this, but I believe it to be the truth. [End]
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by powertool4
30 mon
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I read the entire thing, I was pretty bored today. ... Almost makes me not believe this is real but if the story is real, that is some f***ed up shit. ... ... The part of your brain where you think ”what if she had some molestation, trauma” and all that stuff is your BRAIN trying to justify or rationalize for the sake of your mental wellbeing something traumatic that happened to YOU. Your brain is asking ”what if” questions because it cannot wrap itself around the true hard facts that are shocking and unbelievable. I dont blame you. But you have to recognize that it is your mind playing games on y ...
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by SoulfulSurvivor
30 mon
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Is it possible that the original poster needs to address his past before he can go about casting stones? Predatory behavior reaps what it sows, and this might be one of Life’s Lessons: what goes around, comes around. ... ... I would urge the OP to cease all "intimate" relationships and get into some serious counseling to get to the root of his own behaviors. What is very clear is that the OP is apparently wanting to control his girlfriend - we do not have the ultimate authority to control anyone but OURSELVES. Once the OP has done some hard, courageous, a ...
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by SoulfulSurvivor
30 mon
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oops....WIFE, not girlfriend. ... [End]
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by powertool4
30 mon
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Everyone has issues and i’m SURE the OP has relationship issues as well. But there isn’t much info about his past and as far the situation is concerned and from the information disclosed, SHE completely f***ed him over. What she did was wrong period. Doesn’t change the facts. ... ... Its possible the OP has problems with choosing the right kind of women but he said no such thing so anything more than what was stated above is just conjecture. With the information GIVEN, her hurtful and cheating actions are clear. And even if he does have some sort of intimacy problem, it certainly does not mitig ...
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by SoulfulSurvivor
30 mon
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My most sincere apologies for my post - it DID read quite judgemental, and I am very sorry. ... ... The point that I was trying to get at was that the OP obviously has issues with intimacy - not sexua| intimacy, just plain intimacy. Now, whatever the wife has done is her own responsibility, but in order to avoid making the same disastrous choices in a partner, again, it would be a very strong and courageous leap for the OP to engage in individual counseling. He cannot "fix" whatever is motivating his wife to cheat. The only person that he can control is him ...
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by MrCuddly
28 mon
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Wow - that’s really judgmental and messed up. First of all, it’s his wife - not his girlfriend and they have young children to think about. So it’s not at ALL on the same level of being a playa when you’re young and single. ... ... The wife is clearly selfish and shows no regard in the least for her marraige, children and family. And in this case she couldn’t more clearly be the sexua| predator - and with tragic consequences. ... ... Most of us know that this marriage (like so many others) is doomed - but with kids at stake, the OP will never feel good about himself if he gives up without a fight ...
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by JesusIsKing
30 mon
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You will need to forgive her. Get close to Jesus and He will heal your heart. Both of you get a bible and read daily. Pray together, and spend time with each other. ... ... Love yourselves even more. And love your kids. Put Jesus first in all you do. [End]
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by #23475
30 mon
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This guy didn´t seem to be interested in his post, so I won´t add anything. [End]
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by 13years
26 mon
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Whats crazy is a lot of women do this, or go through this. Must be some baby hormone thing, I dunno. Most girls do this at 20 too. ... ... Start f***ing a bunch of dueds and drag some poor guy through it. ... ... ... Good news, she will whore herself tired, and realize she loves you. Might take a year and couple of guys later but it will ... ... happen. OH and shes going to give you a STD if your not super careful. If you do have sex with her again. Put on a condom, and watch her face. She will get soooo insulted so p ...
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by #144420
22 mon
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I see this is an old post, but I am new to this sight. I am currently going through a similar situation with my husband, whos done the cheating. And I just wondered how it’s going for you. I’m trying to decide if I want to try to work things out, or if it’s going to be alot of work and hurt for him to do the same thing all over again. I’m so confused! [End]
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- Theoretic Music (Harmony) in a Conservatory is good for training the bra...
by Nicolas22
33 mon
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I am wondering if starting a topic on Harmony (Theoretic Music) or piano at certain age and practicing it in a Conservatory so as to keep us abreast of all challenges with other people studying these disciplines as a appropriate training of the brain and brain health, would attract anybody to participate in such a discussion. [End]
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