I'm not arguing with you! lol

What you've said is absolutely true. I don't know why I'm constantly being misunderstood, I'm sorry if I'm not communicating what I mean well. I'm tired. :)

I've already said more than a few times now, that I am working on myself, and my problems. I don't know why this is continually being ignored. DId you read the 1,2,3 things I listed in the other post?

Here is the third point I made, quoted from my other post:

"3)I've stated that I am now working on healing and doing the work to figure out the CAUSE of the problem in the first place"

I'm not making any excuses, I'm doing the work and figuring it out. And I'm doing well. I'm unsure why this is so hard to believe.

It's not that I don't appreciate you taking the time to respond, it's just that you seem to be ignoring half of what I say and only quoting things which favor your point, when I'm not even disagreeing with your point.. and I'm unsure why? It's not an argument, everything you have just said is everything I already know.

People keep telling me what I already know, as if I hadn't had a wake up call already and decided to change. That is what confuses me.

"You can always find an excuse ('it's the people I am around') or the venue (alcohol, crack, sex) but it is the underlying motivation and where it is coming from that is the true poison."

^^ :) Once again, not making excuses, but looking at the underlying reasons which trigger my drinking. What I quoted from you there is almost it exactly what I said in an earlier post, which makes me wonder if you read the whole thread. Thats not an insult or anything, I mean I don't expect you to HAVE to sit here and read the whole thread lol.. I'm just pointing out that yes, I know, of course if you don't figure out the reason for a behavior, it makes sense that the behavior would repeat itself.

Either way, I really appreciate you taking the time to post and share your thoughts in a respectful, kind way. =) and as I said, I'm not arguing with you, my only argument is that I agree with you and you don't seem to believe that I know what you are saying. ;) <3333

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