lol...okay, cut the guy some slack. My husband and I married at 40. Neither of us had married previously. We both had our careers too far up our bu--s. We've been married now for 25 years--and always have been mostly organic, on and off raw (even before we were married). I wouldn't make assumptions just because someone is not married before 40. David is a very busy guy doing us all a very great service--so were my husband and I. Sometimes we just have to make choices regarding focus. I think it would be very hard to be married and keep his schedule--I've been there and know.