Re: I still love my big brother, but...

Golly, hon...your family relationships are already broken.

I don't know exactly what should be done, but I doubt that these breaks can be 'mended'.

Rather, I think that you will all have to form new ways of relating to each other...or not.

Sadly, you have lost opportunities to be the ideal and typical family, but you have other opportunities ahead. Sometimes things happen that are totally unexpected. And sometimes a person can see exactly what they want to do. Other times you just have to wait.

Above all, do things that make you proud of yourself and your ability to manage yourself calmly and maturely.

Burying sadness within is no way to live. It brings more problems as you grow older, compounds them. On the other hand, creating fusses never helps.

It's best if you have another member of the family replace unhappiness with a solid and uplifting relationship. You now need to be proud of yourself.

Wait and watch for such a strong friend. It isn't necessarily going to be easy, but you will be wonderfully pleased when it comes.

This is your time of learning better. At least you now can begin to see what you prefer.

You've come a long way!


My best,

Fledgling

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