Re: maybe its actually my fault

OK I've got the same problem with my husband after he read my diary. He found out that I was sleeping with another guy during our break up of several months (while we were dating 10 yrs ago). He knew about the other guy cause I told him but I lied that I didn't sleep with him. Now, that we are married, he became so abusive (over a year) and we are only 3 yrs in a marriage. I can't understand his behaviour anymore. He's calling me a lyar and does not thrust me a thing, he's checking the milage on the car, recording the phone conversation etc (I was always honest with him, that incident was my only lie to him). He told me that he hates me so much now and wants a divorce even though we have a small child. He blames me for everything and says it is solely my responsibility if the marriage fails! I am totally depressed and confused. He won't even talk to my family members and does not want to see them ever in his life because they stood up to protect me. Please somebody help!

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