Re: My fiance refuses to give me oral-should I take on a lover?

Helium, I am thinking of getting a female love just to get the OS. If I get a male lover I will feel like I am cheating.
Imagine me leaving him and finding anogher guy who loves to give me oral but is worse in every other way: stupid, irresponsible, cheater, lazy, rude, weak, etc, etc.
So if I could find a woman (alhtough I love men) just for what I am missing, it could relieve me. Really, it is my favorite thing in S.
Oh, he is creating the smell thing. Maybe he had a nasty experience in the past. I make sure I am VERY clean (out of the shower) when I asked him to please me.
But he is not a pleaser in general. He is not a guy who likes to please me, do things for me, buy me gifts, etc. He is a taker. The sex part is related to that. I have to give myself my own orgasms, every time we have sex. My right hand is my bestt friend!!

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