HELP!! What's going on???

HI All,

I'll try to make this as short as possible.

I just turned 36 a few weeks ago. 10 years ago I had a tubal (durning/after a c-section) I'm not sure if they tied, cut/burned them or what. (My son was not breathing when he was born so they was a lot going on, which is why I'm not sure what they did. I statred my period when I was 8 years old. So I have had it for 28 years.

I have been late 3 times. One my daughter, the other my son and the third (2-3 years ago) I did a hpt and had a faint pink postive line while 30,000 feet in the air I had a softball size blood clot pass. (the third pregrancy was not confirmed) so I assume it was a miscarrige. Which if it was then even after the tubal I got pregrant!

Okay, the situation at hand.... My cycle has been every third Tuesday (21 days) for a while now. I was due for my period 3 weeks ago yesterday. So, I am official late for the second month!!

I had some symptoms of being pregrant last month they either went away or I just got use to them. No morning sickness (which I had next to NONE with either of my children). So, I took a hpt the day after my missed period last month and it was negative. I took another today and it (malfuntioned???? How hard is it to pee on a stick when your going like a race horse? LOL) So all I got from it after waiting 3-4 minutes for it to even reach the control window (the part that's suppose to have a line in it) I got the top part of the line was red and the bottom much lighter) So I would have to say I got a bum test. (ironically with both my daugter and son the test window turned gray and I had to take a second one).

Also the month of end of august and September my skin and hair were healthy looking (noticeably) now I look like shit and my hair is like straw!! I have not colored or permed or even blow dried it!! AND, last night while lying down I felt pressure in my lower stomach. Near where my c-section scar is. My mind says I'm NOT pregrant. My stress level is no higher than usuall. I have had much higher stress and still gotten my period. I'm scared to go to the doctor. What if I have some kind of cancer or something. My mother told me it's just menopause. If it is then it hit quick!!

Bad thing is I smoke.. (Trying to quit) I got up at 6:30 and did not have a cig. untill 8:30 and it made me kinda sick. I've also noticed today that I don't really have the craving to smoke????????

Do any of you think I could be pregant?? Anyone experience anything like this?? Also horrid heartburn and indigestion to the point where I feel like I have chest pain I'm even on pepcid 2x a day.

PLEASE SHARE YOUR STORIES IDEAS ANY HELP... Also what are the chances of being pregant with a negative urine test???

Love to all,
Libra

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