Re: I need help fast: Serious family problems, long message... Please

I have read a few replies that you have had and just wanted to offer some encouragement and suggestions.

Nineteen is a scary time of life for most everyone but it can also be a time of great accomplishment.

School should not be a problem for you, all it takes is hard work and dedication. It does pay well in the future, so study as hard as you can and learn as much as you can.

You also mentioned concerns about money. Why should anyone be giving you money at nineteen? Get a job or even two. You can make enough to pay for school and all that you need. You have to get weened off of your parents support sometime, why not now?

As for your family problems, they will diminish if you get out on your own and support yourself. Seriously...

Also, remember that a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down. Do some nice things like drop by your mom's and take the trash out for her, leave some flowers on the breakfast table, and thank her for the good things that you forgot, after all, you made it to 19 years, got enough education, and are capable of leaving messages on this forum. This does not happen inherrently! Someone obviously gave you a lot of help along the way.

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