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  • Video Embedded Gay Moralist   RN by Molly Bloom  5y   1,498
     
    Sent to me by one of my gay friends. I don’t think he’s amoral. I think he’s human. ... ... ... [Video Embedded Here]   [End]
     
  • Re: confused   RN by thomas  9y   2,020
     
    Dawnalynne- Thank you for your message. You have asked several important questions that I am more than happy to address. Hopefully my answers can shed more light on what I had envisioned for this forum and why I asked for it to be created in the first place. ... ... I was born a gay man and have known this since I was in 7th or 8th grade. It is something that I have lived with for many years and tried to reconcile within myself. For too many years I denied who I really was. I became the person everyone else wanted me to be and not the person I was born to be. There were so many difficult ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Thanks to Curezone and Welcome to Everyone   RN by thomas  9y   1,475
     
    Thank you Curezone for creating this forum and welcome to all visitors. Several week ago I had left a message in the Suggestions to Webmaster Forum for the creation of a Gay Community Support Forum. As I viewed many of the forums here on Curezone I thought it was interesting that there wasn’t already a forum for the gay community. So I figured what the heck, why not make the suggestion. They seem to have forums on just about everything and anything and some things I have never even heard of before, so it wouldn’t be that great of a stretch. So needless to say, I am really glad to see ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Image Embedded Gay men, straight women have similar brains   R by #69242  6y   1,713  Cross-post
     
      ... ... New study points to possible biological source of sexual orientation ... ... ... updated 3:32 p.m. ET, Mon., June. 16, 2008 ... ... ... ... LONDON - Gay men and straight women share some characteristics in the area of the brain responsible for emotion, mood and anxiety, researchers said on Monday in a study highlighting the potential biological underpinning of sexuality. ... ... ... ... Brain scans also showed the same symmetry among lesbians and straight men, the researchers wrote in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. ... ... “The observations cannot be easily attributed t ... [Image Embedded Here]   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Gay Men Are Found to Have Different Scent of Attraction   R by LCD  9y   1,812
     
    May 10, 2005 ... Gay Men Are Found to Have Different Scent of Attraction ... By NICHOLAS WADE ... ... http://www.nytimes.com/2005/05/10/science/10smell.html?hp&ex=1115784000&en=7e... ... ... ... ... ... Using a brain imaging technique, Swedish researchers have shown that homosexual and heterosexual men respond differently to two odors that may be involved in sexual arousal, and that the gay men respond in the same way as women. ... ... The new research may open the way to studying human pheromones, as well as the biological basis of sexual preference. Pheromones, chemicals emitted by one individual to evoke some be ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: The Question of Homosexuality and Religion   R by plantsheal  9y   1,815
     
    dear heart, ... ... i do sense you are sincerely posting out of concern . . . you seem to be a gentle soul who is discouraged by some of the events taking place in the world. indeed, it can seem if you focus only on negative events that we are in a downward spiral -- however, murder, oppression, all ’sin’ as you call it has been going on since the dawn of human consciousness. there is not an increase in war, pestilence, or murder . . . simply an evolution of technology combined with a media that insists on reporting every grim neuance occuring in every corner of the globe. ... ... child of God, th ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: The Question of Homosexuality and Religion   R by thomas  9y   1,705
     
    In my version of the bible which is the same one most people use, it says: ... ... ”So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.” ... ... I am pretty sure it doesn’t say: ... ... ”So God only created heterosexual christian men and women in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.” ... ... Hey I could be wrong, maybe it says that in your version. You never know. In this world anything is possible. ... ... All kidding aside, that first quote is extremely important. Therein God tells us that all of us are create ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: The Question of Homosexuality and Religion   R by Blue Stone  9y   1,826
     
    ”The reason most people hate the Bible, and don’t like to read to read it is because it’s a mirror of who they really are, and they don’t want to be reminded by seeing the truth” ... ... Did you sacrafice a goat or whip a slave today? That’s a pretty old and tarnished mirror. You are basing your entire belief system on a book which is dogmatic religion...not spirituality. Big difference. People drink koolaide to their death for religious beliefs. People love their neighbors out of spirituality...gays included :-) ... ... Thinly veiled hate is still hate no matter how it is dressed up. I think ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: The Broader Question of Support   R by thomas  9y   1,819
     
    Norris6- Thanks for sharing that story. It is a perfect example of the point I was trying to make in the very beginning with my quote, ”No man is an island unto himself”. ... ... I find it very interesting that while most of us began by responding specifically to Dawnalynne’s questions, this dialogue has really broadened itself into a question of support. As such, I decided to begin by defining support and then share some of my thoughts. I checked an online dictionary and found that this was the most applicable definition, “the activity of providing for or maintaining by supplying with money ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: confused   R by plantsheal  9y   1,919
     
    part of the problem i have with your question is that as a queer person i’m tired of having to explain all of the time . . . why should gays be able to marry, why do you need ’special rights’, why should there be a classification of hate laws, why do you need pride marches, bla bla bla bla ... ... ...so you don’t understand why a forum like this would be helpful? too bad!!! why should we have to spend time explaining the obvious over and over . . . this isn’t what the forum is for - tho some may not mind responding -- but to those of us who’ve had to ’expain’ our whole lives it gets old. ... ... no ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: confused   R by boronia  9y   1,818
     
    I can understand the response of others to your questions. You seem to have a problem with people seeking support from others? Why is that? After all we are all here to support and love eachother in life....whether in regard to health, sexuality, ...isn’t that what curezone, and life, is for...sharing experiences and empathising with and loving eachother. If not, life would feel pretty empty and meaningless don’t you think? ... ... You may not have realised (!) that gay people experience discrimination and oppression due to their sexuality being considered ’wrong’ or ’a moral evil’ (especially ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: The Question of Homosexuality and Religion   R by Autumn  9y   1,654
     
    Hello thomas, ... ... Very nice new forum, many thanks. And what a sensitive thoughtful question! ... ... Wow, didn’t know that about the new pope. Oh no, already? ... For every one pope, there are millions of Catholics at the bottom living as well as they know how, and God talks to them just as much. Maybe they have more time to listen! ... ... I was always completely devoted to the Catholic Church, it was really the center of my life. But 2 years ago at Christmas I sat down on a beach all day and thought it over. When I came back from that beach I found that I could no longer say ”Oh, this church is the m ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: How can I explain to my girlfriend that I did homosexual things when...   by peggyaus  3y   5,410
     
    Hi there, ... ... Vis a vis putting your girlfriend into coventry (not speaking)- it sounds as though you were playing games in your human interractions. I would be wondering WHY you do this. Is it in your family not to be direct? ... ... You also appear to feel the need or be at least vulnerable to confess everything to any random person who wants to know things. I think over time you will need to learn how to discern what is private and what is public information and what is in your best interests to either share of keep private. I know you feel terrible about your homosexual interractions - b ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: How can I explain to my girlfriend that I did homosexual things when...   by peggyaus  3y   5,264
     
    Hi there ... ... It sounds as though you are particularly fixated on this one aspect of your past, because I”m sure there are ALOT of things that you have done in your life that were not very nice, just like all of us. Why are you fixated on this one thing? It sounds to me you need to reconcile this with yourself, aside and separate from associating this issue with your girlfriend’s request for ”truth” no matter what. ... ... You also need to understand that experimenting with other peers of same sex is very common; I’m not sure of the percentage, but it is mighty high. If you feel so bad about i ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: How can I explain to my girlfriend that I did homosexual things when...   by BlueRose  3y   5,362
     
    First of all, you aren’t the only one who experimented like that at a young age. If you do some research, you will read that for yourself. ... ... Second, IMO, it’s not necessary to have to tell your SO about every single thing, be it good or bad, that you did in your lifetime. This happened when you were a curious child experimenting with others around your age. ... ... I’m far more concerned to hear that you have treated your girlfriend so poorly to the point that it has affected her self-esteem. ... ... It’s good that you realize that what you did to her is wrong and that you feel regret for your ac ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Refreshmenow  4y   5,323  Cross-post
     
    Today I got my tests results back since completing the 2 months of the Dr Bob Beck Protocol to treat HIV. ... The results are here on my blog: ... http://freedomfromhiv.blogspot.com/ ... ... I would appreciate any feedback please.   [End]
     
  • Re: Did I make my brother gay?   by #69242  5y   17,827
     
    ... There are really two questions.. One, did you make your brother gay..and two, was your behaviour inappropriate. To answer the first question...No, in all likelihood you didn’t make your brother gay. I have known enough gay people to feel strongly about that. But in terms of the second question... yes it was completely inappropriate behaviour. It very well may have been innocent at the time, but what longterm effect(s) did it have on him? Maybe none at all...but maybe it has scarred him. And I can’t tell you which it is. Should you talk about it with him now? I have no idea. I am not an ” ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Virginity loss - from consensual to rape.   by bevraf  79d   450
     
    This is so heartbreaking story but i’m very proud of you cause you stood still and moved on, so happy you found your happiness now.A salute to your BF as well cause she accepted you despite of your dark past.   [End]
     
  • Re: Virginity loss - from consensual to rape.   by SoulfulSurvivor  80d   511
     
    ... I'm sorry that this happened to you.  I suggest that you get some help from in depth counseling therapy with a rape and trauma specialist as this post reads more like erotic prose with entirely too much graphic detail, rather than a description of recovery and healing. ... ... ... ... www.rainn.org. ... ...   [End]
     
  • Virginity loss - from consensual to rape.   by luke28inlove  80d   515  Cross-post
     
    Well, I was 16 when it happened. It was with my best friend’s uncle. Early in 2002, Nate’s parents divorced and he stayed with his father and moved to a house near mine. That summer, Nate’s uncle Carl came visiting. He was around his 30’s and, at first, I found him incredibly good looking. His face was very young and attractive, though his hair was starting to go grayish. As soon as I met him, I could not stop fantasizing about him. So, When Nate took a trip to London to visit his mother, I kept making excuses to go to Nate’s house to be around Carl. One day, I went to Nate’s house and Car ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: sexua| dysfunction?   by Audienceofone12  9mo   575
     
    Hey. I don’t have any advice but I just want to give you hope. I had a similar experience growing up and I often have during foreplay/sex with my husband. Curtains things will set me off and my mind flips back to a memory. And I have a really hard time shaking out the memory and focusing on me and my husband in the moment. BUT it is getting better. It gets easier. Everyday I get further away from it.   [End]
     
  • Re: Im in love with my gay friend. Am i getting played?   by BlueRose  20mo   908
     
    At 19, she is just starting out being on her own. That said, my advice still stands. It appears that she is confused about her sexua| preference. ... ... With her being 19 and you being 25, a 6 year age difference is more pronounced than if she were 29 and you were 35. A 29 year old would be more mature and have more life experience. A 19 year old and a 25 year old are too far apart when it comes to maturity levels. Of course, there are exceptions to this rule. However, it’s clear that she needs to grow up and figure out if she is gay, straight or bi. ... ... As I said before, it’s best to ju ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Im in love with my gay friend. Am i getting played?   by Mrconfused  20mo   725
     
    shes going to a local college. she is 19 im 25   [End]
     
  • Re: Im in love with my gay friend. Am i getting played?   by BlueRose  20mo   816
     
    I gather that you’re both young since you mentioned that she is going off to college. Am I correct with this assumption? ... ... If so, you both have your lives ahead of you. From what you wrote, it sounds like she doesn’t know what she wants. Perhaps she is struggling with issues regarding her sexuality. ... ... The best thing for you to do is move on. You say that you can’t imagine being married to anyone but her. As you meet other people, I suspect that feeling will change.   [End]
     
  • Im in love with my gay friend. Am i getting played?   by Mrconfused  20mo   768
     
    ok this is the situation. i met this girl at work. she would always come up to me and ask me if i wanted to take her out or to the movies. i would just play it off and say no because i always thought she was just playing around and i didnt have a car. when i told her that excuse she would offer to borrow someones car and pick me up.when i would say no i would completely blow her off and show no interest but she was still persistent. ... this would go on for about a year. i finally get a car and one day i just said i would take her up since she seems like she likes me. so she approach me a ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: About hepes   by Strugglingone  24mo   636
     
    You should go to the doctor and get it checked out. Please understand that people with genital herpes DONT always have symptoms. It is important to read up on it and be aware of all the facts. I hope you schedule an appt with ur doc and get things taken care of. Better safe than sorry.   [End]
     
  • Re: Dating with Herpes 1 & 2   by Strugglingone  24mo   564
     
    Hello. Yes, you should definitely discuss this with her. If you truly like and care about her and you’re thinking she feels the same for you then you should talk about your future plans with each other and have things out in the open. Maybe ask her how she feels about dating someone with herpes. ... ... I wish you the best!   [End]
     
  • Video Embedded Whats goin on ... by Jonah Mowry   by LCD  28mo   1,312  Cross-post
     
    Whats goin on ... by Jonah Mowry ... ... ... ... ... UPDATE, PLEASE READ ... ... To all my friends and supporters, ... ... I made this video 4 months ago just before school was about to start. I was 13. It was a very emotionally dark time in my life. I made the video at 4:00am in the morning; I hadn’t been sleeping at night for a long time, too many things going on in my head. I was dreading going back to school and I had not come out to my family yet. Only my closest friends knew. I didn’t know how to say what I needed to say. All I could think about were all the bad things that had been happening at school ... [Video Embedded Here]   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by beckprotocolguy  28mo   2,924
     
    I too have had excellent results from the full Beck Protocol. I am also posting my progress on his blog as well as my own blog at http://beck-protocol.blogspot.com. ... The thing I noticed the most about this protocol is that you have to follow the protocol explicitly or else it won’t work correctly. You will get fluctuations and unfavorable results. I had an increase in viral load by accidentally using the South pole of the Magnetic Pulser for a month just when my viral load was plummeting. It is difficult to find any instructions in one specific location based on an actual user but that is ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: sexua| dysfunction?   by jurplesman  28mo   1,761
     
     I have a slightly different approach in that I believe that the main issue is  about your personal insecurities or self-esteem issue. To be successful in love and life, one needs to have an unshakeable belief in the self. People with a good self-image may not like rejection in love, but at least they will look for a BETTER man: it is not a disaster. With a low self-esteem rejection in love may mean disaster and confirmation of one’s low self-image and aggravate the emotional upheaval further. As you improve your self-image, so will you improve the choice of your partner! ... ... ... ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: sexua| dysfunction?   by Michael B  28mo   1,754
     
    Well, I don’t think it’s dysfunctional per se. I just think that alleviating the lust in older mens sexua| perversion gives you a self esteem boost or a feeling of self worth to make up for your past experiences. For them it’s probably the greatest 5 seconds of their miserable lives (certainly gives THEM a self esteem boost as they sound pretty despicable). ... ... You get off on it and it isn’t a bad thing. ... ... The only question you have to ask is: would you get off MORE from a passionate long term relationship with an attractive, charming, funny, loving, romantic, 25-30 year old alpha male who ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • sexual dysfunction?   by #147664  28mo   1,912  Cross-post
     
    i am a 23 year old survivor of childhood sexua| abuse who is having trouble experiencing normal sexua| activities. ... ... i rarely have sex. i do often masturbate. usually this is fine but sometimes i try to masturbate and it only upsets me. i would like to be able to be able to masturbate without crying. ... ... i do not have romantic relationships. when i do have sex, it is always impulsive and my partners are always older men--often older men who mistreat me. it is like i compulsively re-live the abuse. ... ... i don’t think that i’m the only person who has experienced these sorts of things. ar ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Oral sex, anal cancer and HPV vaccines - hard to swallow   by parazapper  30mo   2,095
     
    If there was to be full innoculation, the death rate would probably far exceed that caused by HPV itself. That does not even cover the extensive amount of long term health consequences. Thanks but, I will just stick to my zappers, Rife, Beck, etc. ...   [End]
     
  • u know where u can stick your poison?   by boatman  30mo   1,606
     
    i see another paid shill(dangerous bacon?) (corinthian?) ... ... is here disseminating bogus numbers-by-construction studies conducted by the people who will profit from them. ... ... believe this BS at your own peril. ... ...   [End]
     
  • Image Embedded Oral sex, anal cancer and HPV vaccines - hard to swallow   by Dquixote1217  30mo   2,619
     
    So, based on a study of men on men anal sex, all boys 11-12 should get HPV vaccines to guard against anal cancer even though 70% of them will never engage in anal sex with men or women?  And this theoretically might save a bit over 400 lives each year?  Out of how alll the millions of men and boys? ... ... Should we find vaccines for every thing out there which causes a few hundred or more deaths per year?  And what is the short and long term effects of all those vaccinations singly and in combination?  The HPV vaccine already has 400% higher adverse events than any other c ... [Image Embedded Here]   [retrieve this message]
     
  • HPV vaccine can prevent most anal cancers   by #107689  30mo   1,868  Cross-post
     
    ... ... This has implications far beyond gay men.  If you do a little research ... and learn how many heterosexual couples engage in anal sex you will discover ... that it is somewhere around 30%.  The younger the couple, the higher the probability.  ... With gay men somewhere around 3% of the population (that number jumps all over ... the place depending on who you believe - and not all practice anal sex) you can ... see that in total numbers there are many times (about 10 times) the number of ... heterosexual couples engaging in anal sex than gay men.  ... ... This study was done world wide and ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: How can I explain to my girlfriend that I did homosexual things when...   by caffina  3y   4,924
     
    I wouldn’t be so scared of coming forward with the truth. If you really love her and want to marry her, she probably feels the same way. If your love is deep you will be accepting to each other’s past and there shouldn’t be any feeling of resentment. Go ahead and tell her, it happened so long ago it doesn’t matter anymore.   [End]
     
  • Re: How can I explain to my girlfriend that I did homosexual things when...   by BlueRose  3y   5,340
     
    Why did you feel you had to tell her? As I said in my last post, what you did back when you were 11, isn’t uncommon. Did you even read what I wrote to you? ... ... It sounds like you’re a teen still living at home. Am I right? If so, tell your parents that you would like to get some counseling. You could tell them that you have a lot on your mind that you need to sort out. If they won’t help you, then talk to your guidance counselor at school. ... ... To be honest, from what you’ve written, this relationship isn’t healthy for either of you. You need to work on what is troubling you---and qu ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: How can I explain to my girlfriend that I did homosexual things when...   by hattynut  3y   5,178
     
    The thing I did before is another thing I am absolutely ashamed of, and something I don’t even understand. ... ... Like many other boys, I masturbated for a long time, and I thought nothing of it. I also mentally pictured a lot of girls, usually from my class, and it was just a habit of self pleasure I had. I never really thought about it, it was almost like a chore that I forgot about every time. ... ... So I met my girlfriend, and we were ’something’ for just a week. We went pretty quickly, and after about 3 days we were already cuddling. Because I was temperamental, angry, arrogant, short sighted ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re:   by #69242  3y   5,116
     
    ... Hi Hattynut. Take a deep breathe. The world is not going to end. No need to contemplate suicide. You are young and have questions. If youth was easy then most of the art created today wouldn’t exist. It is a learning experience. ... ... In terms of your situation. I am still a little unclear. You have obviously been very emotionally affected. Which is understandable. And to be expected. Please clarify this for me.... ... ... ”When I was younger, up to about 11, I had homosexual encounters with other boys roughly my age, and several times with one that was a couple years (not a lot) younger. I neve ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • How can I explain to my girlfriend that I did homosexual things when I w...   by hattynut  3y   5,714  Cross-post
     
    I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half, and it is a very serious relationship. I do love her, and we want to get married. However, she is asking me to never lie about anything, no matter how bad, and I wouldn’t have a problem with it if I didn’t do what I did. ... ... When I was younger, up to about 11, I had homosexual encounters with other boys roughly my age, and several times with one that was a couple years (not a lot) younger. I never did actual anal intercourse, but we did do a very small amount of oral, and pretending to do anal. I never thought that this would affect my l ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: the clock is ticking :-)   by chirontherainbowbridge  3y   1,069
     
  • Re: the clock is ticking   by Insight  3y   880
     
    Signed.   [End]
     
  • the clock is ticking   by chirontherainbowbridge  3y   852
     
    Should I mention there are less than 48 hours to do this? ... ...   [End]
     
  • Please help stop the death penalty for Ugandan gays   by chirontherainbowbridge  3y   920  Cross-post
     
    http://www.avaaz.org/en/uganda_stop_homophobia_petition_2/?copy   [End]
     
  • Re: About hepes   by trust2009  3y   1,374
     
    From reading others on web: from friction effect in hours, fungus one day, gonorrhea 2-4 days, chlamydia 4-7, hpv weeks and herpes I don’t know - one might have same diogrosis with incubation period. what about syphilis or lyme? ... when using condom one can abuse more for even if he is sick and know it he tries it thinking he is secured but what about if it brakes, or misunderstand him. there are bad tricks that can defeat each others.   [End]
     
  • About hepes   by #139588  3y   1,353
     
    I am new to the forum and I have quite a few questions. I am gay and I always try t o be very careful but recently I had a slip up recently. On the 14th of March I had had penetrative anal sex with my ex-boyfriend. we both performed oral sex on each other but when it came to actual sexy he was the one entering me. The condom ripped during intercourse but he wasn’t aware of it right away so that means at some point his penis was skin to skin with my rectum. Two days later the 16th of March I realized I have a discomforting feeling in the area around my anus. It was warm to the point that it ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • It's been seven years. Need some advice. [gay]   by ScotTiger  4y   1,205  Cross-post
     
    Hello there! ... ... I’m a bi guy, 27 years old, been in a stable relationship with a girl for the last eight years now. We’re polyamorous, but all of the lovers I’ve/we’ve had in the last seven years haven’t been penetrative tops. ... ... I recently met someone whom I’m interested in, who is. I’ll be going to visit him in a month or so, and while neither of us have extremely active libidos, I was a scout, and I’d like to be prepared. The problem is, it’s been a long time since I’ve had any sort of penetration done to me, and the last few times I have, the experience has been mildly painful. ... ... So ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • tough situation.   by John McCain 2008  4y   4,952
     
    all of straight parents shudder to think of our kid’s turning out gay, but as you’ve experienced, tough luck on this one. how can the father not know being that she’s doing her girlfriend in the house? ??????? maybe that’s why he’s an ex, huh? and as a parent, why are you taking the lead from your under-aged daughter on when and where you the parent say anything to anyone about any damn topic you want? act like the mom and tell her dad what’s going on. or give her an exact time and date when she has to be a grown-up and face the consequences. that’s what parents do...the dictate the ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Some ideas   by NotTwo  4y   3,036
     
    It may be that the fire of your sexua| relationship just needs a bit of work. A good book to read is ”Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow”, which explains how traditional sex in a long term relationship can lead to situations where there is sexua| indifference or low sexua| desire that develops between a couple. ... ... The way to heal this issue is to have intercourse without ejaculation for both the man and the woman. The book recommends the Karezza technique, but you can also use the Tantric sex techniques. ... ... Also, losing an erection after the start of sex is not a hinderance to having and enjoyable sex ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • My teen daughter has her first girlfriend   by Realsis  4y   6,156
     
    My teen daughter has her first serious girlfriend. I share custody with her father and he doesn’t know she’s gay. She’s been having her girlfriend stay the night over at her fathers house ! Its not up to me to tell him she’s gay but my daughter is taking advantage of his ignorance by sleeping with her girlfriend at his house. I don’t approve of them staying the night with each other just the same as if she were dating a boy I would not approve of sleeping together at a parents house. I feel my daughter is taking advantage of my trust. She knows I won’t tell her father because that’s up to ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: My gf of 1 1/2 yr said she loved me but used old gf name   by cocteau  4y   2,226
     
     ooh I’m so sorry.. what if you just ask her who Dale is?  ...   [End]
     
  • i hear the secrets that you keep...when you're talk'in in your sleep.   by John McCain 2008  4y   2,435
     
    you’ve got to be big enough to handle the truth. now, some will say that it isn’t a dealbreaker, she didn’t know what she was saying. ok. do you buy that? didn’t think so. you’ll always remember what your little honey said to you that one night, and it will linger. i think this ”dale” needs to be revealed to you. ask her about it. i’d want to know. you need to know what this guy is doing swimming around in her head because it is obvious that something’s going on. i might let this one slide, but i want to know what’s going on with this ”dale” fellow. report back your findings, pr ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • My gf of 1 1/2 yr said she loved me but used old gf name   by Bella66  4y   2,447  Cross-post
     
    I know it’s late-this just happened. Last 5 weeks have been tough as I underwent a spinal fusion surgery and have been useless since. Recovery is very slow. Anyway, we go to bed tonight. As usual, she is sleeping before I am....no surprise at all. The surprise came about half an hour later when she started talking (I’m guessing in her sleep) never heard her do it before-we have been together 1 1/2 yr. She is talking about a picture that we had taken on some rocks/jetty and that there was something wrong with it and needed to be changed and this had something to do with her bros weddin ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Did I make my brother gay?   by Crucified4NoSins  4y   16,836
     
    You can’t ”become” gay, either you are gay, bi or straight, with variations in between, not everyone who is gay likes stereotypical gay things, just as not every straight guy plays football, drinks beer and watches Nascar. ... ... Andrew Lloyd Webber is a director of musicals, he loves arts and is very effiminate...and is married to Sarah Brightman and has five kids. Listening to a certain style of music does not make you gay. I just want to quickly bring this to your attention, because really that stereotyping of gay people, is homophobia. I’m straight, I like Lady Gaga, I like art, on the oth ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Dating with Herpes 1 & 2   by stolenheart  4y   2,474  Cross-post
     
    Hello everyone, ... sorry English is not my first laungage ... I recently met an amusing women online, we live in d/nt states but we have been commincating via email & phone many times aday. We decided to meet in person but before that we both wanted to do the std tests before we meet. To make long story short, I tested positive for both herpes 1 & 2 that was not what I expected giving my history. I lost whom I thought the love of my life 5 years ago & have been single ever since. I ended up calling him after 5 years after i got my results & he said he had both type 1 & 2 for the last 16 years ...   [retrieve this message]
     
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  • Re: How to ask my brother if hes gay?   by sfmarkh  4y   3,973
     
    I’m a gay male. My advice is to wait till he comes to you. You can make it known that you are ok about people being gay by other means. An example could be: If watching TV and the subject of being gay comes up or if the TV show has gay characters you can indicate your positive views. This will make it much easier for him to disclose his being gay to you. ...   [End]
     
  • Re: How to ask my brother if hes gay?   by HelpMeHelpHim  4y   4,005
     
    Thanks Tom, I guess I’ll have to wait. I just don’t want him to wait another 20 years when he’ll wish he had done it sooner. I want him to be himself and live life happily. Thank you for your help   [End]
     
  • Re: How to ask my brother if hes gay?   by SeattleTom  4y   4,142
     
    Hi - It’s good that you are trying to help your brother with his difficult situation. I know from much personal experience that growing up gay in a small town is not easy. ... ... I think your intentions are good, but trying to talk to your brother about his being gay might put a strain on your relationship with him. If he’s not ready to come out, this might embarrass him, and cause him to feel threatened. Before I came out, I didn’t want anyone to know, and I went to a lot of trouble to make people think I was straight. If my sister had known I was gay and had tried to talk to me about i ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • How to ask my brother if hes gay?   by HelpMeHelpHim  4y   4,161
     
    Heres the facts.My brother has always been bullied in school because people said he was gay. He would come home crying and I would fight all the time for him. He is in his 20’s now, has never had a girlfriend, has never talked about how hot a girl is or anything. The only porn I have caught him looking at was gay porn(when he was in highschool, could have been curious). He is very religious and I have also accidentally seen an article he was looking at online titled ”Do gay’s go to hell?”(also years ago). We are from a small closed-minded town and his best friends and family have alwa ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Is this normal   by mystead69  4y   576
     
    Am I normal... ... ... Didn’t know where to post this question, would appreciate it if I got a reply. ... ... I am bi, but I’ve not had much experience with guys. I really enjoy it in a passive way but my c**k doesn’t get that hard. Especially when having my ass played with. I cum easily when taken in the ass. ... ... I have the most intense orgasms... almost how I imagine a woman would have. Right from within. ... ... Is this normal. I’m slightly embarrassed about it, especially for the guy who thinks I’ve not enjoyed it. I do produce cum, but not as much as I would normally. So I think they assume I’m fakin ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by future82  4y   4,360
     
    am so glad to see ur results and know that all this stuff from dr beck really works. am about to start treatment with the magnetic pulser from dr beck and the blood electrifier along with DMSO and MMS. for herpes. because i have search and search for something for so long for this embarrassing std for to long. i want this think out of my body for good. the MMS will def take care of wats left of the hiv virus in ur body... i would use the magnetic pulser to if you haven’t invested in one yet. it sends magnetic pulses to your lymph nodes around ur body to free up any remaining virus in those ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Sexual problems/Anxiety Maybe Gay? I need help.   by tigerlily23  4y   3,718
     
    now, it is easier to have sex. my bf can penetrate me deeper but i am still tight. ive been drinking aloe vera im not sure if it is killing the candida   [End]
     
  • Re: Emotional upheaval caused by sexual issues with husband   by BlueRose  4y   3,591
     
    Thank you for responding, Molly. What I pick up from reading your recent post is that your gut is screaming to you that something isn’t right. I can understand second guessing your gut but I also know that if your gut is still insisting something isn’t right even after your logical mind tells you otherwise, then your gut is right. ... ... That’s the way it’s been with me. I’ll give you two examples (minor compared to what you’re going through, I realize that.) Several years ago, I had a job. I worked hard, was reliable but yet I couldn’t shake the gut feeling that something wasn’t right. ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: chances are 50/50 your husband is a closet gay guy.   by Molly06  4y   4,355
     
    I can see what you mean about getting biased responses. I’m interested if many gay men experience ED if they’re with a woman. ... ... I’ve searched everything in the house, yard, and cars and I’ve found nothing pointing to gay. But like you said why would someone say something like that? And why would he be able to use condoms with someone else. I’ve been feeling self-consious about my looks around him, but I’ve never had a problem getting the interest of good-looking men, and I’ve gotten a lot of compliments on my looks, so I don’t see where there’s something different about me and the avera ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Emotional upheaval caused by sexual issues with husband   by Molly06  4y   3,319
     
    BlueRose, thanks for your reply! I’ve asked the question and he became very angry. He said he wasn’t gay and he wouldn’t be married if he was gay. I tried to explain that there are many married gay men, and he told me I was crazy. I tried telling him that I think gay is something that one doesn’t choose and tried to show nonjudgement so he’d feel comfortable telling me, but he went off further. He then started telling me all the things I do wrong, like not cleaning to his standards and he resents that I don’t make that much money, so he turned it around on me. I couldn’t believe his explo ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • chances are 50/50 your husband is a closet gay guy.   by John McCain 2008  4y   3,698
     
    i deal in common sense 101, not ”alternative lifestyle 101” that you’ll probably hear on the topic. going to a gay/lesbian forum for help in this area is like going to ryan’s buffet for weight loss solutions. here’s the deal: somebody somewhere told a guy you don’t know that your hubby likes guys. red flag, baby, red flag! your guy’s sexual expertise is going down (pardon the pun) quickly...red flag, red flag! and when you caught him in a lie with the condoms...well, you get the picture. you are a smart woman for bringing it to his attention, and ours. it’s more of a ”he’s a liar” ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Emotional upheaval caused by sexual issues with husband   by BlueRose  4y   3,497
     
    It won’t be an easy question to ask but it needs to be asked. Ask him right out if he is gay. Not only listen to his answer but watch his reactions. ... ... Also, listen to your gut feelings---especially if your gut feelings have a good track record of being correct. If you do have good gut feelings, what are they telling you now? ... ... All that said, some straight men just have very low sex drives. Sometimes, physical problems get in the way. Also, sometimes people have mental hang ups that keep them from engaging and enjoying sex. ... ... If he says he isn’t gay and you believe him, then ask h ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Emotional upheaval caused by sexual issues with husband   by Molly06  4y   5,380  Cross-post
     
    I’m struggling with my husband not having interest in having sex with me. There’s an age difference and he blames that, but I feel there’s something more to it. He’s in his 50’s. I’m younger by 15 years. When we are intimate, he often can’t keep an erection. When we first met, it soon became apparent we couldn’t use condoms due to him losing his erection. He didn’t even want to try to use them with me, and told me he thought he has an allergy to them and always had a problem with condoms. So I thought he had a legit reason other than not being attracted to me for erectile problems. He se ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Sexual problems/Anxiety Maybe Gay? I need help.   by Molly06  4y   3,652
     
    I see it’s been a while since you posted this. I hope things are going better for you now! I commend you on trying to get to the bottom of what’s going on and caring about your wife. It sounds like you may have psychological issues affecting your sex life. Anxiety and depression can get in the way of relaxing into arousal. These are treatable and you should see someone with a background in treating these common disorders.   [End]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by parazapper  4y   4,681
     
    First, Great Blog, keep it up. ... ... Do not give up on the Beck, but adding the Terminator should help. ... ... As I see it, there are several things to consider. If you have a virus present, it tends to reproduce around the clock so you need to attack it 24 hours a day. Attack it on all fronts. ... ... I did not see a plasma level reported for vitamin-D? This is very important even though your doctor may not think so. As much as 3000 IU a day can be beneficial for a few weeks. Just monitor the blood levels and enjumes. Also, possibly consider full flush niacin for its health boosting benefits. As a no ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Exploited Citizen  4y   4,882
     
    Check out that the HIV tests are 95%+ inaccurate, and are not valid for measuring HIV loads, according to the tests inventor Kary Mullis. ... ... Beck works, the BS HIV tests do not. ... ... ... ... Post edited by moderator.   [End]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by jman2007  4y   4,711
     
    Im sure its helping. ... ... maybe diet changes. ... ... I know glutathione can sometimes remove viruses from the blood maybe juicer some crucifer vegtables? ... ... Also i have heard microcurrent on the lower back is where viruses can sometimes hide. maybe zapp the lower back? ... ... also foods known to help remove heavy metals, virus like to attach to those.   [End]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Silver_Is_Money  4y   4,752
     
    I’ve never heard of chymotrypsin. Is it available to the public as a supplement?   [End]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Dquixote1217  4y   4,889
     
    I consider it to be essential.  As you know, serrapeptase is the digestive enzyme secreted by silk worms to dissolve thier cocoons.  It is one of the most powerful enzymes for dissolving fibrin and in my opinion is a must for conditions where scars and fibrous tissue are involved. I rank it alongside chymotrypsin for use against cancer cells and tumors to strip away the outer protective layers so that the body’s immune system and other cancer fighters can work best.  Serrapeptase and bromelain are the two enzymes I use myself alongside the outstanding Garden of Life Ome ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Silver_Is_Money  4y   4,695
     
    Speaking of enzymes, does anyone here consider the enzyme called Serrapeptase to have any credence? I know it isn’t specifically a digestive enzyme, but it is rather classified as a proteolytic enzyme, whatever that might imply.   [End]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Dquixote1217  4y   4,957
     
    I agree that it is too early to make a final judgment and that increased viral load may be temporary. However, are you doing anything other than zapping and using silver? ... ... I suggest you add plentiful olive leaf extract (tincture if possible) and plentiful digestive enzymes.  There have been reports of people completely reversing HIV with olive leaf (which is a powerful natural anti-viral) and digestive enzymes help strip away the outer layer of viruses, thus helping kill them off and making them more susceptible to items such as colloidal silver, olive leaf and oleander extract. ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Raphael81  4y   5,027
     
    Ok i see that you were on meds before the protocol. ... ... Stopping the medications always raises ”virus load” counts .That happens to everyone and it can take some time to get it down again . ... ... I have stopped taking meds about 6-7 years ago and although i have managed to get a low load it has never turned lower than 50 copies. I have also not seen anyone getting an undetectable load after quiting antiretroviral and i have been talking to a lot of hiv positive people . The only case that i have seen people getting sometimes negative load results are those who have never been on antiretrovir ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Raphael81  4y   4,689
     
    Great Blog ..Keep updating it . ... ... Do not stop the protocol . 2 months are not enought time to judge the effectivness of it . ... ... I have not done the full Beck protocol but i use the Blood electrification and the CS and sometimes my load gets high and sometimes it goes really low . ... ... It is very propably that these equipment release in the blood stuff that the PCR can count as ”viruses” .Clark mentioned in her book that people who were recovering were getting higher viral loads for months. ... ... ... It’s more accurate to judge from the way you feel rather than from your counts although these ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by unleashhealth  4y   4,849
     
    ello, that’s a great blog you’ve got going, pleae add me to your lit of providers for blood electrification units, the web addres is www.unleashhealth.com, thank you! I will add your blog onto my links page a well!   [End]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by jman2007  4y   4,761
     
    maybe its like a heavy metal chelation. ... ... the medicine brings it out so sometimes the numbers go up. ... ... but as soon as your body catches up detox it drops. ... ...   [End]
     
  • Re: Drob Beck Protocol Test Results   by Tizona  4y   4,862
     
    I am not convinced a higher viral load is a bad thing. The virus wants to burrow down into your tissues and hide. The protocol is designed to bring the virus out into the open so that it can then be killed. That is what any good antiviral protocol does. ... ... The real question is this -- how do you feel? How is your energy? Are your symptoms better or worse? ... ... Do not judge the efficacy of any protocol on one simple medical test that can be misread or misapplied ... ... How much colloidal silver are you doing per day?   [End]
     
  • Re: Future of Nutrition, Longevity and Beauty discovered in the Ocean   by infinitelove  4y   420
     
    With all due respect, I see no David Wolfe endorsement.   [End]
     
  • Re: Did I make my brother gay?   by #45684  5y   17,359
     
    Maybe he tried to get close to a female on one or two or more occassions, but every time he tried, all he could think of was his sister humping him. Maybe that created a repulsion that stopped him from ever being able to be with any female, since it made him think of you every time. ... ... Or not. Its hard to know. ...   [End]
     
  • Re: I'm a gay man but I'm started to become attracted to young boys   by FromOz  5y   2,799
     
    Only one cure for you. Cut it off! Don’t ever leave your house. Spare our innocent children. People like you make me sick, literally.   [End]
     
  • Re: I'm a gay man but I'm started to become attracted to young boys   by ughhatelife  5y   2,743
     
    Those ”boys” are another human life. They have their whole life ahead of them. You corrupting them at ssh a young age would be the epitome of evil. If you believe inn god or not theree has to be ”something” that deals with people that do these sorts of things. I base this soley on the effects it has on the kids mind. ... ... Disgusting.   [End]
     
  • Re: Sexual problems/Anxiety Maybe Gay? I need help.   by ughhatelife  5y   3,840
     
    Watch a gay porn and don’t fill your head with ”NO NO NO BONAR!” If you get aroused you areeprobably gay. If not you have psychlogical problems. Probably fear of abondonment or being neglected. I consider myself asexual in the traditional sexual sense. Now if it is a one night stand or a prostitute I can’t stop and can go 10 timesn a row. But regular women who want to be around me all the time. I can’t stand it.   [End]
     
  • Ariztical Entertainment/Soul Maid   by 2legcaco  5y   6,133
     
    Watch Soul Maid. A modern day fairy-tale loosely based on Sleeping Beauty, which is ... ridiculously romantic, hopelessly funny, and unabashedly politically incorrect! ... ... Our hero Moses (Joe Schenck) suffers from “seizures” that manifest themselves as religious visions from a spurned goddess named Glintentica, who is planning her “second coming” to earth. ... ... When Moses meets David (Tom Bailey) the man of his dreams, Glintentica is intent on taking over David’s soul, forcing and compelling him to abandon David, and ultimately assuring the entire gay population becomes forever extinct. ... ... Wi ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Vodka n/m   by ladylove  5y   3,041
     
  • Eating Out: All You Can Eat Official Trailer Released!   by 2legcaco  5y   6,137
     
    Check out the official trailer for the new film ... Eating Out: All You Can Eat! ... (scroll down for trailer) ... The third film in the Eating Out series. ... Featuring six openly gay hunks ... plus Rebekah Kochan, Mink Stole and Leslie Jordan! ... Coming to theaters this October! ... New York - The Quad - Opens October 9th ... San Francisco - The Roxie - Opens October 9th ... Los Angeles - Sunset 5 - Opens October 16th ... Film Festival Screenings in October: ... Atlanta Out on Film Festival - October 3rd ... Image Out Rochester - October 10th ... Tampa Gay & Lesbian Film Festival - October 17th ... Southwest G&L Film Festival ( ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Habaneros/onion/garlic tincture ACV or vodka?   by grassman  5y   4,125
     
    Alcohol is the best of the seven common menstrua available for the tincturing process.As far as preservation is considered,what is the designated purpose for this tincture?If you do not mind me asking,it is close to the master tonic and will be a bit brash.If you want to save money 80proof will work for a year at least.Alcohol can be a bit expensive if you can not find a 100proof off brand vodka or gin.   [End]
     
  • Re: I'm in love with a girl   by Donn  5y   6,052
     
    Its a funny thing when we come into this life, no one hands us the blueprint for this whole thing, but we instinctively know when we go against it. ... Anne Hache went against it for a while, but no longer. ... ...   [End]
     
  • Re: I'm in love with a girl   by jennydrea  5y   6,112
     
    WATCH NOW ————— Gay and Lesbian Films. Copy ’Ariztical’ ctrl+enter.. You can watch your favorite movies online whenever you want. Not only Gay and Lesbian Films Ariztical has a wide variety of LGBT films to please even the most discerning customer. Whether you’re looking for dramas, comedies, ‘family’ flicks, light erotica or male nudity you’ll find what you’re looking for at our company. ... ... ... Gay and Lesbian Films. Copy ’Ariztical’ ctrl+enter.. You can watch your favorite movies online whenever you want. Not only Gay and Lesbian Films Ariztical has a wide variety of LGBT films to pleas ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Habaneros/onion/garlic tincture ACV or vodka?   by #116107  5y   3,604
     
    100 proof vodka   [End]
     
  • Re: Habaneros/onion/garlic tincture ACV or vodka?   by Watering  5y   3,573
     
    vodka   [End]
     
  • Habaneros/onion/garlic tincture ACV or vodka?   by #73889  5y   3,575  Cross-post
     
    I’m getting ready to make another tincture. Does AVC or vodka make the better tincture? I’m interested in which is better for long-term storage. ... ... I know I should wait for the next New Moon, but I don’t think the habaneros will last that long. ... ... Thanks! ...   [End]
     
  • Re: my gf wants to have a baby but doesn't care about my feelings!   by tigerlily23  5y   3,239
     
    2 months is better than 2 years, even though when i said someone said i should stay with her, that was my boyfriend. she is only dating me not him. thank u very much for ur advice! other ppl said u should cut ur ties or try to work it out then my bf says she will go into a depressive state if u leave. i should of told him im not gonna stay with someone who thinks they know more about life!   [End]
     
  • Re: my gf wants to have a baby but doesn't care about my feelings!   by FlybyNight  5y   3,080
     
    If she is as selfish as you say, she shouldn’t even be thinking about having babies!!! Personally I think you should tell her exactly how you feel. If she can’t handle it then maybe it’s time to walk away, 2 months of your life wasted is a lot better than 2 years!   [End]
     
  • my gf wants to have a baby but doesn't care about my feelings!   by tigerlily23  5y   3,318  Cross-post
     
    hello, i am new to this forum. i need help! my gf is 19 almost 20 and i am 23 we are both bi. i have been torn apart for a few weeks cuz she thinks she is preggo. last month, 2 weeks b4 july ended, she slept with some guy whom she made friends with but didnt tell me until like a few days later! ... ... she had so many probs with an ex bf in june when i met her and was preggo by him but had an miscarriage. she was convinced that she wasnt ready for a kid at the age of 19 and wants to wait until the future. this is august and now everything i have told her about life and kids, seems to go down th ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Sexual problems/Anxiety Maybe Gay? I need help.   by meganrose  5y   4,005
     
    Hey there-it seems to me that you are not gay at all...just that you are beating yourself up a lot. Why do you have such low self-respect? If you have been married this long, it is normal to get ED. I would talk about it with your doctor and see if something like Viagra can’t help you. There may be other things that decrease it, such as depression. It sounds to me like you are also depressed and have a low self-image, so no doubt you are decreasing your libido by low self esteem. ... ... Talk it over with your doctor to get the right dosage and prescription, and to determine if you need ps ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Bisexual   by meganrose  5y   1,235
     
    Hey there...it sounds to me like you are not attracted to both genders but you don’t want to accept that you are gay maybe because there is a bit of a stigma that is associated with it?? ... ... I would really look within yourself and try and figure out what you are feeling. ... ... Afterelton.com and afterellen.com are both LOGO community forums (gay entertainment network) with a great community to help you with these types of questions. I’m not promoting them I just think this forum is too sparely posted on to be of any help...when you most need it. ... ... Best, ... Megan Rose   [End]
     
  • Re: I'm in love with a girl   by meganrose  5y   6,079
     
    Hello there! ... ... First off, I think you need to come to terms with your sexuality. In my mind, this girl has just helped you to do just that. ... ... You kind of remind me of me, to be honest!! You seem like you don’t want to truly accept that you are gay, but trust me, to be gay is actually a truly unique and exciting thing!!! I would recommend that you do the following: ... ... 1) Start watching gay/lesbian movies, TV shows. Why?? Because it will show you a greater lesbian community that will show you being gay is normal. Also, if in these films you find the female relationships as beautiful ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Always coming out but never out   by meganrose  5y   1,218
     
    Hey there-I know what you mean, that is can be hard to tell the people who you love the most. I agee very much so! You truly care about their opinions and friendships and you never want to ruin that! ... ... What I would suggest that you do, is start talking with some gay people who you know. Or...do you know any? I started my process by just emailing the only gay person I knew. From there, I started watching programs that focused on gay people so that I could realize that this IS normal. Also it is a huge confidence booster. So for women, the obvious choice would be the L word (perhaps E ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Always coming out but never out   by hughwalker  5y   1,392
     
    Hi! My name is Hugh and I’m struggling to come out. I’m a passive mature homosexual and I have no problem saying it here. But the people who really count don’t know. And I can’t tell them. Thats my problem. I just want to be free to be myself with my friends. It’s really not working!!   [End]
     
  • I'm in love with a girl   by #117209  5y   6,311
     
    Ok. So, hear goes. I apologize for the length. I am venting feelings that have been cooped up for a long time. ... ... I’m 20 years old. ... ... I’m in love with my best friend. My best friend has told me she is in love with me. Sometimes I’m not sure if she really is, but I like to believe that she is in love with me. We have a strong emotional attachment to each other and have been together physically. ... ... Neither one of us is ready to come out as being together. She does not know where she stand, whether she is just bi-curious or bi-sexual. I am fairly certain of where I stand but am a little unsu ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Bisexual   by #117196  5y   1,367
     
    Can you be bisexual without having been sexual with both genders?   [End]
     
  • Sexual problems/Anxiety Maybe Gay? I need help.   by #116231  5y   4,412  Cross-post
     
    My problems are destroying my marriage. We just had our 7 year anniversary and the day before I could not get it up. Wow what a celebration that was. I have been having ED problems since 02. So its been going on our whole marriage. And its getting much worse. A big part of my problem is I obssess about thinking ”will I be ready next time or not” It’s like a voice repeating in my head over and over and over. And if my wife and I are just casually snuggling or kissing I can get aroused very easily. But if I know intercourse is next I often freak out because I dont want anything to go wrong a ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: I'm a gay man but I'm started to become attracted to young boys   by #114170  5y   3,020
     
    Well there goes the myth that homosexuals are not pedophiles!   [End]
     
  • Re: Well, if the closet fits...   by #116050  5y   1,158
     
    I understand your dilemma, because I went through it myself. It sucks because your basically in constant limbo... trying to balance your social life and your personal well-being at the same time (it’s not easy)... but the most important thing is to be true to yourself. You don’t have to change anything, just be you (which it sounds like your already doing). I basically was forced out, and it was really hard. But looking back I’m grateful, because I truly found who my real friends were - and not a bunch of social climbers. I also became a better person, more understanding and caring towards ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Please help,   by Edrese  5y   1,878
     
    I feel the same way brother...   [End]
     
  • Never had lesbian sex before...honestly would have no idea what to do?   by #110335  5y   1,422
     
    Hi there! I know this is going to sound like a weird question but I honestly have never had sex before. I am a lesbian and would of course like to have sex with other women but I don’t know what I would do. ... ... I have been watching the L Word for ideas...and it seems to me like it’s pretty much just a kind of genital to genital rubbing? Does that really make a woman climax? ... ... Sorry to be so graphic but I need help! ... Thanks, ... Meg ... ... p.s. ”going down” on a woman kind of grosses me out...not into that at all.. :-/   [End]
     
  • Re: Please help,   by #108005  5y   1,954
     
    Maybe you should start caring about what other people think or would think! It’s always easy to do just what you feel like its difficult to start taking responsibilty for your actions! Hence the guilt!   [End]
     
  • Please help,   by #48577  5y   2,190  Cross-post
     
    Hi, I’m a 43 yrs old male. First Time posting here, thanks for the help. ... ... 1-i was raped by a friend of mine when i was like 11, it was not violent. ... ... 2-i started receiving therapy around age 11, never told my therapist or anyone about it. ... ... 3-i have been very confused about my sexuality, i have been with lots of women as well as men. I did it with guys on my 20’s,,then stopped had a relationship with women, then started again. (almost 95 percent of the time im a top) ... ... 4-In the past 7 yrs i have done it with lots of guys and when I finish sex i feel very anxious many times and stress ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: I'm a gay man but I'm started to become attracted to young boys   by #18837  5y   3,197
     
    It’s wonderful that you have enough sense of who you are and how you want your life to be, that you know not to act on your attraction to young children. I would guess that most child preditors don’t even stop to think about the damage they do to the children or they are so damaged themselves, that they just don’t care. They kill the positive potential that child could have been. The preditor just cares about their own next feeling of power by controling and abusing a powerless child. They take their innocense away too soon. I was sexually abused by males and a female starting at age 3 an ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: My partner was repeatedly molested as a child: several rapists (fami...   by nekobasu  5y   2,690
     
    Hi Jeremy, ... ... I’m a straight male, just so you know. I have several brothers who were raped or molested by men when they were in junior high school or high school. I’m currently in a relationship with a lady who was raped regularly by a family member when she was very young, which is why I’m on this site. It doesn’t matter what someone’s gender, sexuality, or lifestyle choices are. Victims all feel extremely ashamed of what happened to them. A man attempted to molest me when I was eight years old, and I’ve only alluded to it a couple of times to girlfriends. To this day, I’ve never told an ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Well, if the closet fits...   by #114352  5y   1,329
     
    I’m an 18 year old male who is somewhere on the border between gay and bi (The details of which are not relevant). I am currently entirely in the closet with all friends and family. My question for this forum is in what lies ahead for me regarding the closet. I am stereotypically straight in every way. (love sports especially football and baseball; heavy metal/rock for music preference; extremely analytical; lack of emotion on the surface/that characteristic straight guy indifference; hate asking for help; would do surgery on myself attitude... to name a few)I honestly could easily pass of ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • You don't need to "define" yourself   by Molly Bloom  5y   1,510
     
    I’m lucky, I live in the SF Bay Area. Sexuality is all over the place here, and there is very little judgment. ... ... I have friends that were in homosexual relationships, and then moved to a heterosexual relationship or visa versa. These people are young, middle aged, and older. I know lots of them. ... ... What these people have said to me is ”you just love who you love”. Period. It’s pretty darn simple. I wish society made it that simple too. ... ... Perhaps the pressure to ”find your sexuality” and define yourself is making you over think this. I myself have been in love with women and men, b ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • i am in need of some feedback   by ns/rr  5y   1,153
     
    my name’s lynn, i am a junior in high school. questioning and unsure are the perfect words to describe me, i just cant figure myself out. i have recently been kicking my specific sexuality around in my head, i’m a contemplative person by nature and not being able to figure this out is driving me insane. i was wondering if you would have anything to say in response, and i was thinking that writing it out would probably help me--the whole putting abstract thoughts into words thing ya know. so, here i go plunging into my longish story. i have always questioned my sexuality, from the time t ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Did I make my brother gay?   by Vance MacThamhais  5y   17,865
     
    You didn’t make your brother gay. He would have been gay wether you dry humped him or not. ... ... If he had a brother that abused him sexually do you think he’d have been heterosexual. ... ... You have a genetic predisposition to your preferred sexuality   [End]
     
  • Re: Did I make my brother gay?   by Hveragerthi  5y   18,056
     
    You need to stop beating yourself up because you did not make him gay. People do not choose their sexuality, they are born with it. I know this is really hard for a lot of people to accept but how often do you hear someone say I have always been attracted to the same sex as far back as they can remember? People often pretend to be attracted to opposite sex because of societal pressures, but deep down they are unhappy with the opposite sex. Wishful thinking is not going to change anyone’s preference because again this is part of your genetic make up. They even isolated a ”gay” gene quite a ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • You should definitively talk with him.   by White Shark  5y   17,899
     
    How old was your brother when the sexual experimentation started? ... How old was he when you two ended your sexual experiments? ... ... I am unwilling to call it abuse, cause up to 10% of kids in some societies experiment with sex ... and it is not uncommon that siblings ”use” each other for sexual pleasures and experimentation. ... ... There is a large number of kids who discover masturbation and practice it at the age of 3 or 4. ... It is believed that kids as young as 2 could experience orgasm. ... ... ... As you said, he liked it too, at least later ... ... ... Our experience may change our ability to fall in lo ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: Did I make my brother gay?   by Raider  5y   17,670
     
    Hello, ... I am sure that was very hard for you to express the guilt and remorse your feeling for your actions as a child. That must have been very hard for you to write that post. ... ... I wanted to just reach through the computer and give you a hug. ... I do not have to much advice to give except that you might try to get up the courage to talk to your brother about what you both did when you where young because I am sure he remembers too. Maybe being able to talk about it and apologize might help in your healing and he might open up to you. ... ... There is a really great thing that really works thats ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • This is becoming a huge problem in the world...   by fledgling  5y   17,823
     
    ...As our children gain access to media outlets promoting wider, and wilder ’sexuality’, to sell their products...children are introduced to questions that did not exist, should not exist in their world. ... ... More and more adults have lost the standards that made them better parents. ... ... How long does it take an unwatched three-year-old to get to the ’juicy’ stuff on a computer? ... ... And, how much of it do they have to see to spoil their innocence, for life? ... ... How many game shows are on television using slightly ’racy’ ideas and words that we think are going ’over the heads’ of our babes? ... ... I ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • if i knew someday my penis would explode if i kept putting it in my wife...   by John McCain 2008  5y   1,291
     
    no. your penis will someday explode putting it in nasty rectal holes as you describe. and will you accept responsibilty that day your doctor gives you the death sentence? probably not. because, that’s what you do...blame your actions on others or lack of cure or society, blah, blah, blah. think of a rectum open wide as a gambling game, a russian roulette glory hole if that works for you. each and every time you put your junk into that dirty bottom, the chamber of bullets spins, the odds escalate that you’ll pull out a disease-festering nub that you’ll wake to each and every morning o ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • i notice that anything "normal" or "tradition" or "christian"...the gay ...   by John McCain 2008  5y   935
     
    and, true to form, this silly founding fathers ”report” doesn’t disappoint. first, you need ”gay heroes” to get some self esteem pumped into you. now you need to advance a hatchet job story on the founding fathers and their religious faith, or lack thereof you champion proudly. for what purpose? to uplift your abnormal lifestyle and sink another’s? your ways have become tiresome and sophomoric. travel down the hershey highway of life to your own whims and desires, but leave the rest of traditional amerika alone, is that too much to ask? we all see the bullsh*t you spread...save it f ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Whoa!!! Stop! Stand back! Think again!!!   by fledgling  5y   17,946
     
    Children may do some pretty silly things...but there is no way they are ’responsible’ for anything!!! ... ... ... ’Curious’? Absolutely! ... ... ’Mimicking’? Of course! ... ... ’Responsible’? Of course NOT! ... ... ... NOT until they become ’adult’! ... ... ...And then we must all discern where we became ’stuck’ as a child, and grow out of it. ... ... ... I admire that you are willing to take the ’blame’ for your brother’s confusion, 99243...but there is no need. NONE! ... ... That’s just another place we can become ’stuck’...guilt. ... ... ... The ONLY way out of any ’stuck’ spot is to understand what is better, and begin to do it. ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Re: congratulations...you probably did harm him.   by #99243  5y   18,002
     
    O.k. - you’re right in mocking the fact that I mentioned that I’m not homophobic. Since I’m not sophisticated enough to communicate it in ways other than stating, ”I’m not homophobic” - or - ”I have no problems with gayness.” - I should have just said nothing - and have people assume that I am homophobic. I mean, this is what they’re going to think anyway, right? ... ... It might be ”tired”, it might be ”trite” - but since I’m no Keith Olbermann or David Letterman (as I’m sure you already surmised - you sized up and dismissed my intelligence-level quite nicely) - I know of few other ways in c ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • congratulations...you probably did harm him.   by John McCain 2008  5y   18,114
     
    i love it when folks pour out their feelings that you did in fact damage him, perverted his sensibilities, altar his course of life, sexually abuse him, and did this negative or that negative that changed his path...but then come back years later saying apologetically ”not that being gay is harmful or anything”...and ”i’m not homophobic...”...and the worn-out tired ”...i’m not saying that there’s anything wrong with being gay”. of course there is something inherantly amiss or you wouldn’t feel the guilt and shame of a thousand years upon your conscience. i love the casual manner you slip ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • Did I make my brother gay?   by #99243  5y   19,433  Cross-post
     
    Hello. This is something I’ve been wanting to ask about for awhile - perhaps you can help me resolve this question. This is something that I’m not proud of AT ALL - but, from about the time my brother was two years old to the time he was about seven (or was it eight?) - I sexually abused my younger brother. I am eight years older than he is, and a female. I guess the relatively large age-difference between us - coupled with the fact that I had an early ”sexual awakening” (I was 9 or 10 when I started having sexual feelings/desires) - didn’t do either of us any favors when it came to se ...   [retrieve this message]
     
  • I'm a gay man but I'm started to become attracted to young boys   by abvjr  5y   3,812  Cross-post
     
    Hello, I’m a gay man in my early 20s and lately I’ve been noticing that boys of around 10-12 years old are looking really good to me. Of course I won’t touch them at such a young age, but has anyone else had this happen? ... ... I’ve been looking online for a support forum for this but I don’t want to be lumped in with a bunch of predatory pedophiles. ... ... ... Thanks! ... ... A   [End]
     
  • New Lesbian and Gay Dating site   by adultflames  5y   628
     
    Hiya all, ... My name is Emma and just wanted you all to see my new site: ... http://www.adultflames.com/ ... ... ... It’s an adult dating site where you can search thousands of profiles to find your perfect partner, signup is FREE :) ... ... xXx Emma   [End]
     
  • Re: Muscular Dystrophy and Homosexuality: Which is the Real Handicap?   by JohnnyJ7788  5y   1,548
     
    I sincerely appreciate your words of encouragement. The recognition that someone else out there has been where I am now and has made it through to the other side is the biggest boost I can receive right now. ... ... I believe in my head that I won’t be alone forever. I need to remind myself of that more often that I think I should need to, but I just need to give myself more time to sort out my confidence issues. ... ... I want to clear something up, for anyone else who is reading, about my ’out’ status to my family. When I told my mother last May that I was gay, her instant reaction was to say ”no, ...   [retrieve this message]
     
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