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- Wow. by Reb32 14 y
I can't pretend I have gone through this myself, but thank you for sharing that and being so open. I have had a good childhood, completely "normal" in most senses of the word. But I know there are MANY out there who have hidden family secrets or carry a weight of shame around with them. Many skeletons in the closets, with abuse, alcoholism, incest, you name it!
I think that part of healing is facing this, but when there are unanswered questions, I cannot imagine how that must feel to you. THe feeling of betrayal or somehow living in a "lie". You must feel so much anger, resentment, confusion, and the rest.
For me as a Christian, I believe that every human being has a place in this world, regardless of how wretched their life maybe or who or where they come from. To a Christian? Every human being is related to eachother, but this does not always make it automatically "ok" to someone that has gone through what you have and having it occur in your own family and being brought up believing one thing and then finding out another much later on. Wow! If you do have any belief in God, I do hope you will open yourself up to prayer. I think forgiveness is a hard ask and at times almost impossible, but to think of how many of those other people have no doubt been through abuse themselves emotionally mentally unstable, screwed up and then of course leading lives of the same and screwing up others in the process. It seems there would be an awful lot of healing needed in many members of your family.
Anyway, I just want to say I really admire you for this and you'll be surprised at how many you will touch by this and how many others out there share a similar dark secret.
God bless you and hope you will find healing! Not an easy road. Some people are really put through extraordinary pain and suffering in this life, whether it's health, or betrayal, abuse, being used, addictions, and so forth or even a combination.
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