Does Everyone Really Create Their Own Reality?
by William Bloom...worth reading and pondering
Date: 6/25/2007 6:03:19 PM ( 14 y ) ... viewed 3270 times
by William Bloom - Cygnus Magazine
"Over the years it has been an honor for me to advance and defend new age
and holistic spirituality. I love its open-mindedness, its embrace of
metaphysics and the way it combines spiritual work with healthcare. But I
have also despaired at times about its apparent lack of morality and
compassion when faced with the realities of people's suffering.
This coldness is often explained away with half-baked ideas about how
energies, karma and the laws of attraction work. This often reaches a peak
of disturbing smugness when a new age 'philosopher' faced with cruel
suffering says authoritatively: 'People create their own reality' or
'Their soul chose it - its their karma' or 'Everything is perfect in God's
Plan - you just need to perceive it differently'. People who say such
things seem to have no idea how smug and nasty they sound. Nor of the hurt
Fourteen years ago I had a lower back crisis in which three disks
herniated and a tendon tore. The pain was as high on the scale as it can
go. I was bed-ridden, then on sticks and it took seven years to recover.
Early on, as I hobbled awkwardly on sticks, a new age woman came up to me,
poked her face in mine and loudly stated, 'You know what Louise Hay says
about lower back crises, don't you!' She was typical of many.
A friend recently had a severe heart crisis, was suddenly taken to
hospital and told that his life was at risk. He told me that what really
frightened him was the thought of informing his spiritual friends, because
they would use it as an opportunity to be self-righteous and tell him what
he was getting wrong in his life.
Of course in both my and his case there were good lessons to be learned,
but our life or mobility were threatened and we deserved compassionate
friendliness. Isn't spiritual development about increasing compassion and
love? It does not help to have someone chiming, 'You asked for it. Told
you so.' Even if we did create those illnesses, kindness and support are
needed so that we can begin to understand the process.
These minor examples of personal distress are nothing compared to the more
dramatic tragedies being endured on the world stage. What follows is
recent testimony from a woman at the centre of the Darfur crisis (New
Internationalist, June 2007):
'My baby boy was thrown on the fire in front of me. My daughter was older.
They thought she was a boy so they slaughtered her too - they snapped her
neck like a chicken. Some of the children they threw down a well …. After
they raped the women they cut off their breasts to make them suffer. They
used those of us who were left as donkeys.'
Her experience is not unique. Recently too there has been the incident of
the little girl kidnapped in Portugal, the tip of an iceberg of the sexual
abuse faced by hundreds of thousands of children every day, not to mention
the thirty thousand children who daily die of starvation.
'In spite of everything, I still believe that people are really good at
heart.' -Anne Frank
Surely all this suffering can only be approached with stillness, humility
and wisdom of the heart. Not with half-baked metaphysics and denial. It is
pure ignorance, shameful and cold-hearted emotional cruelty to suggest
that these women and children asked for this destiny, deserved it, chose
it or created their own reality. It completely misunderstands karma and
the laws of attraction.
There is a frequent error of assuming that souls have complete control and
choice over their incarnations. New souls entering for the first time, for
example, may simply be drawn to where there is a newly conceived fetus.
They may have no choice but to participate in the collective rhythm and
cycle. There are more dynamics in incarnation than simple choice.
Equally we do not create our lives in isolation. We pass through
collective historical and karmic events over which we may have little
individual power. We are participants as souls and as biological creatures
in a constellation of relationships that includes our species, our gender,
our family, our ancestors, our ethnicity and faith. Our parents and
children, for example, are within us, as we are also within them. We are
not just individual souls creating our own individual lives and futures.
We are also subjects of the group soul and our histories and futures are
entwined. As a species we have created a shared karma of suffering, and it
is as a collective that we experience, redeem and heal it. The collective
affects even the most forceful individual.
The redemption of all this lies in the fact that each of us has the
freedom and power to adopt our own inner attitude regardless of
circumstances. I am inspired, for example, by the Catholic priests who
chose the way of self-sacrifice and walked with their Jewish parishioners
into the Nazi gas chambers.
'The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do
nothing.' -Edmund Burke
It is also completely banal and naïve to suggest that everything in God's
world is good and that it is all a matter of perception. Faced with the
reality of a three-year old child being sexually abused, it is simply not
possible to make such a statement and be moral. It is in facing reality,
not denying it, being in our hearts, that we grow and become wiser.
At the same time I fully appreciate how difficult it is to be fully
present to suffering. For some people it is overwhelming because it
triggers their own pain. But sooner or later on the spiritual path we have
to develop the courage and strength to stay stable and loving when faced
with these horrors. In the words of Carl Jung: 'One does not become
enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness
All my love
William Bloom is one of the UK's most experienced teachers, healers and
authors in the field of holistic development. His work has helped
thousands of people.
His mainstream career includes a doctorate in psychology from the LSE
where he lectured in Psychological Problems in International Politics, ten
years working with adults and adolescents with special needs, and
delivering hundreds of trainings, many in the NHS.
His holistic background includes a two-year spiritual retreat living
amongst the Saharan Babiryes in the High Atlas Mountains, 30 years on the
faculty of the Findhorn Foundation, co-founder and director for 10 years
of the St. James's Church Alternatives Programme in London.
He is a meditation master and his books include the seminal "The Endorphin
Effect", "Feeling Safe and Psychic Protection" – and most recently
"Soulution: The Holistic Manifesto".
He is director of The Holism Network and well known for his clear,
practical and friendly style of teaching.
William Bloom will be the keynote speaker at the ORBS: Great Rethinking
Conference to take place at the Glastonbury Town Hall, Glastonbury,
England July 11-13, 2008 (more information on this event coming soon).
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