Yes, Life does seem to become frustrating at times, unless one comes to realize that everyone has to answer for their own choices!
It may be hardest for us to come to grips with this reality , especially when it is our Love ones who may be making Poor choices and we want them to make better choices , so that they may not suffer as much!
But this is part of Life and , this is the important part that many people do not understand!
For, being responsible for our choices, be it good choices or bad choices, is one thing which one must learn to do and except, "IF" they are to grow up and have any hope to enter into the Kingdom which awaits those who are willing to make this choice to Change and live Life according to our Creators Guidlines, so as to recieve the many Blessings which await those willing to make this choice.
Many people Claim to be Spiritual, but how can they be Spiritual, "IF" they can not make changes in their physical Life which they are able to feel Physical Pain when they make the wrong choices and they are afflicted because of these wrong choices, yet they are unwilling to make the needed changes in their Physical Life so to recieve the Physical Blessings!
For in the Spiritual, they can not feel the physical as the physical may feel, and so it takes the being in the physical body and being tried by Fire to see what choices we are going to make in the physical body, to see "IF" we may become worthy to enter into the Spiritual Realm!
This Physical Realm is just a training ground to see who is worthy to become Spiritual and to move on to greater Blessings beyond the physical Realm!
And Satan it the great Deciever, whose job here on earth is to try everyone with Fire to test us in the Flesh to see if we are worthy to enter into the Kingdom of the Spiritual!
Yes, Satan has a job given to him by the Creator, to refine the Physical Beings for the Creator to see who is worthy to move to the next level so to speak!
So, Life is what one decides to make of it!
And this short physical Life is but a stepping stone to Greater Blessings and Glory, "IF" we choose to make it so!
So, when one comes to understand this, then it is easier to then allow those whom we Love to make their own choices, knowing that this is part of the process of growing up and learning to make the correct choices, so that we may step across the threshold into greater Life!
And "IF" physical Death comes early because of Foolish choices which one makes, the nice part about this, is that these people do not then suffer any more and upon the next resurrection they may then see the folly of their ways and be given the choice and oppertunity to change from their previous bad choices and walk as they should!
This time, they are not going to be under the influence of Satan, for he will have been Locked away for a Thousand years, and they will be shown the Truth clearly without satan's influence over them, and if they make the choice to follow these proper ways then they will be allowed to live!
But, "IF" after this, they refuse to change their Bad ways, they will just be utterly Destroyed, both physical and soul and spiritual! Zap! Done away with Totally!
But those who make the correct choices under the Pressure of Satan, as is the case now in this first go around, shall be given Greater positions to fill in the spiritual Realm than those who will follow later!
Isn't Life Magical and interesting?
Always new things to learn and Discoveries to be made and all kinds of new excitement, "IF" only we consider it to be in our minds!
"IF" you think Positive and make the correct choices, you can not Fail in the end!
Even "IF" you Die a physical Death, this is not the end of things , only the New Begining!
For in Death you overcome the physical problems of Life!
Smile Tis your choice.