it may be a long time before you get a response that you would like so here are some facts to read over
http://www.d**********l.org
it talks about the main ingredient on most birth control progestine which is not good for any of us. its a fake hormones that can turn us to what you have read about.

you can read post about the yasmin pill on
http://www.medication.com


if i were married my hus would have a vasectomy or a new kid.

I had a copper iud many years ago- it was great for me, when the doc inserted the mirena I didn't realize it was different from the old one until the side effects hit. I don't know if they make it anymore- the pill works for a lot of women, I used to use it before I had my son, but after, I couldn't tolerate it. My ob told me about having a procedure that ties the tubes but is not permanent- you could google birth control methods and see what pops up and the success rates. Hope this helps.

We are using either the diaphragm or condoms. Not ideal, but I am never putting synthetic hormones in my body again! We got pregnant very quickly with our two kids, so around the time I'm ovulating we just do things that Bill Clinton wouldn't consider sex. LOL. Once we're sure we don't want anotehr child my husband will get snipped.

I track my cycles on
http://www.mymonthlycycles.com


It tells me my fertile times so I usually extend it a few days before and after what they say. Not that I think they are wrong but because I want to avoid pregnancy. We only use condoms during that fertile time which ends up to be 12 days but like I said I am playing it safe.

Neither of us are ready for anything permanent. When we are he is getting snipped.

The bad thing about birth control is that unless you are willing to use the mucus method or condoms, you're stuck with a variation of hormonal Birth Control. Most women don't react badly to them, but some really can.

If you are considering going the hormonal way, do some research on implanon. It's a little implant that they put underneath the skin of your off-arm. It only takes a few minutes to put in, and lasts for 3 years. My wife is using it, and she loves it. She switched over to it from depo-provera. It does away with periods similar to depo-provera, but doesn't have the mega dose of hormones every 3 months. Instead it lets out a very small amount every day, just enough to keep you from getting pregnant. It was approved by the FDA a year or so ago, but has been used around the world for about 10 years now.

The good thing about it, if you have any bad reactions you can have it taken out in a few minutes, and all the hormones it releases will be gone from your system within a couple days. That means you would be fertile again within a few days of stopping it if you decided you wanted to get pregnant. According to my wife it didn't hurt very much either. Her arm ached a bit for a week or so, but now she hardly ever feels it.

Anyways, as always you should do some of your own research. Here are some of the sites we checked out before making our decision:




http://www.implanon-usa.com/





http://www.plannedparenthood.org/birth-control-pregnancy/birth-control/the-im...





http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Implanon