Have you had your hormones checked? There are bioavailable hormones to help with low libido. I'm 66 and have low libido but I also have no partner so low libido is irrelevent to me right now. My health practishoner put me on a tea combination of licorice root, dandidion (whole plant), gensing and astregulus to help strenthen the adrenal glands, which, in turn, helps the other hormones and energy levels. I've been on the tea less than 2 weeks and my energy level has encreased and there's a good chance the libido will come along for the ride eventually. It may be, for me, that being single and involved with so many different creative things, that my creative energy (libido included) is being channeled in a different direction than sex. Also, if you're tired, stressed or angry, that affects the libido too.