The truth is he has dished out so much crap and lies that anything I say to him does not come close. I have tried to talk to him in the past many times. In the beginning we got on well until he got the wrong end of the stick and it all went pear shaped from there. I was at a loss of trying to understand what I had done wrong. I had done nothing wrong, it was him jumping to the wrong conclusion.
Derek Prince says not to waste time on people who don't want to be helped. Our time is better spent on helping people who want to be helped. He is stubborn and proud and does not like being told. I am happy for him to be himself if that is what he want's.
He would never seek my advice and neither would he want it, he sees me as a little newbie and it is me who should have read the book that he suggested.
I know you are a great Christian, you are a Christian on fire, I don't think I will ever come close but you will not win him over, he is to easily influenced from other sources. However, if you think I am wrong then do what you think is right for I know you only mean well.