I don't know where you got your definitions, but here is the dictionary.com definition. Did you make your definitions up?
love ( P ) Pronunciation Key (lv)
1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness.
2. A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; the emotion of sex and romance.
c.A love affair.
4.An intense emotional attachment, as for a pet or treasured object.
5.A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment.
An expression of one's affection: Send him my love.
6. A strong predilection or enthusiasm: a love of language.
7. The object of such an enthusiasm: The outdoors is her greatest love.
8. Love Mythology. Eros or Cupid.
9. often Love Christianity. Charity.
10. Sports. A zero score in tennis.
The only definition pertaining to Christianity is #9, which specifies that love means charity.
Why can't judgement be a part of love. Don't we judge our children, and still love them??? Of course, we do. Besides that God will judge all of us on Judgement Day, BUT it doesn't mean He does not love us. In fact, He loves us so much He sent His only Son to save us from our sins, which will be our spiritual downfall.
Your post: "judgement is not love", where you mean...to judge someone means you don't love them is untrue.
You are off the mark. judging someone doesn't not necessarily mean you don't love them.
Judgement and Love ARE mutually exclusive. God judges us bc He loves us. If we follow His commandments which He brought out of love for us, our judgement on Judgement Day will be to go to Heaven, not Hell.
Just my .02