There is no natural way to do either. You can buy bleach at any local store. Even if you bleach the hair it's still noticeable. You should look into permanent hair removal. It's expensive but the only way to go I think.
Today? A big wart he,he. No my eye folds (I am 47) are not so visible and the face is so soft. You can see it immediately after you rince the mixture with warm milk. Touch it buyourself or better let your face be touched by a person that loves you.