Just to update...we are fine. All is forgiven. We have talked this out and decided that we both love each other enough to not let this disturb our relationship.
I hadn't explained everything I suppose. We had discussed boundaries and issues that I had personally due to past experiences that left a deep impression in my life. I had a problem with the sleep thing in general. I know guys and even some girls LOVE the idea of being woken up by a sexual act from their partners. I, unfortunately, am not one of those people.
And as for the necrophelia thing....WOAH...way out of line. That was not even close to necrophelia. Hello. I'm alive. Very much alive.
I know everyone has their own ways in their relationships. I am happy to report that ours isn't damaged. I just needed a little help that night. I couldn't sleep. All I wanted was for him to come back and hold me and make me feel like it was alright. Which is exactly what happened the very next night. :)
Thank you all for your highly entertaining and sometimes helpful posts to my original. ;)
It's all about communication. Something which we have a very good grasp of. We sat here together today and read each and every post that had been generated by my little question. I think it was very therapeutic! haha. I love this man with all my heart. And even though things sometimes get f***ed up....in the end it's all about the way you feel inside when the initial emotions have blown over.
In love for good.