They percentages for losers on a second try after divorce is even worse than the first try. Secondhand losers divorce rate is sky high. Avoid losers from the beginning by dumping them early and often in relationships. If you think of it, really honest with yourself and the dating process, MOST people you date will eventually be dumped. Either by you or the other participant. You date 49 women, marry the 50th, 49 poor losers got dumped for WHATEVER REASON. Now, some may not be "losers", granted, understood. Maybe 11 or so might have been great, but I guarantee that most are losers and deserve the title. Percentages are greater by far with guys. More loser guys in the world than loser gals. Reality.