I wonder if we've done #40679 any good? Yeah, it only took that one phrase for me..."I have so much unresolved anger." After that, it's not even necessary to read the rest..it's all going to be about his behaviors she doesn't like. If you have a ton of resentment, there are going to be a ton of things that bother you. Once that resentment starts, it can get ugly, and most do not survive it. It takes intervention on someone's part to seek help. It is no mistake that Dr. Phil is so popular.