This issue didn't pop up overnight. It has been discussed mostly off-Curezone for a long time because it was censored on Curezone for the most part, plus nobody wanted to look like the bad guy attacking Torrie on a site where people come for support and to heal. But when you have to choose between supporting one person vs supporting thousands of other people affected by that one person, you have to make a choice.
You have to choose.
Some people don't want to choose, and just look the other way and don't want to get involved, or accuse the messenger of being a bad person and see the subject as a victim no matter what happens.