thank you for your reply. I am so glad I'm getting all these replies. I actually do use lubriderm on him but I've heard about arbonne and that its really good stuff. There is a lady that wants to give me some samples for the baby. Perhaps I will try it after all. I am certainly going to incorporate the calcium because Jacobs teeth are bad. I think cutting milk out hurt him in that way over time. I normally use a chlorine filter on our shower but it ran out. How much is a water softener and can you get one for a bath tub? My main concern right now is the eczmea that is on his eye lids. So many people think he has allergies and he just looks like he is a kemo patient or something right now becuase of it. My little boy is still beautiful to me but I had one lady ask me if he is a sick child and that she is here for me. She was in the grocery store and I guess she works with kids who have cancer so she thought he had it. YIKES! She profusely apologized if she offened me so I don't hold it against her, she was just concerned and so am I. You can hide the rest of the body but the face you can't hide. He does look like he is sick. I want to fix this problem so much without putting him on meds. I am going to keep trying things until it works and I have a list of things to get on payday already from probitoics and other goodies. We just started getting him flax oil and he only gets a bath every 4 days. Thanks again for your advice. I am making lists of everything to do for him.