Wha...? Are you blowing this out of proportion?
Are you kidding? It's too bad you weren't able to write to us when you were moving out of his state or when he was planning to move to yours. But oh well, what's done is done. But you've written now and I'm here to chime in along with the wise concensus above me.
Your embarrassed boyfriend is a conceited twit and you could be just as easily embarrassed to be with such an unrealistic, self-centered, superficial fluff. There's no future here.
After you dump him in no uncertain terms, you may find it very therapeutic to go on an all out health fest. Eat the right foods, find out about good supplements, excersice, drink plenty of pure water, read Curezone health forums. Fill your psyche with lots of interesting stuff that you either like or could develop a like for; art, music, film, history, science, whatever: Find Your Passion!!!
Then go shopping for some nice clothes (Goodwill or Salvation Army is fine if you lack the money for regular stores), experiment with make-up and different looks. Why? Because those are good things for your self image which has by now suffered some severe blows, but which will offer a major boost when you are doing it all for just for lil' ole you and no one else! In due time, when you have grown and strengthened as a person, a much better quality of human being might be drawn to you, and by then you won't allow yourself to be psychologically manipulated and mistreated by someone else's whims!
Don't be afraid to do these things honey. We are telling you because we've been there and we KNOW it works!!!