One more message to Honeybeah
My dear, I hope you don't mind but I went back and read some of your recent posts. I want you to succeed, and I have some comments regarding them.
I read the thing on the sex forum. Again, this just substantiates what I said earlier. You are not being respected. He is selfish beyond belief. A good man will not do that. A good and honest man will care about your fullfillment as much or more than his own.
STOP FASTING. You are not going to keep this fellow by losing weight. Fasting does not keep the weight off, it is only a quick fix. A health fast is much different than a fast to lose weight.
I know you are desperate, but really, is this worth it? Look what he's done to you? He's got you so freaked out that you are fasting in order to keep him? It's so wrong on so many levels, I don't even know where to begin...
Edit - Oh wait, I just realized these posts are very old. How long has this been going on for you? Has it all been around this guy, or is it your own self esteem that you are having problems with?
Reread all the posts here from these wonderful, smart and experienced women. They know what they are talking about. Been there, done that with men, all of us. And now we are older and wiser. You MUST trust us.
Sorry to sound like your Mother, but honey, if I can save but one woman from something that I know deep in my heart is wrong...that will be a great fullfillment for me.
We are all rooting for you in spirit. You go get em girl, and don't let the idiots of the world keep you down!!