iam also millitary, been in for 19 years now. i know the feeling about theme not listing to you.the dont listing to millitary wifes. never have, hell we dont even exist othe then under oure husband SS#.
anyways, if i was in your shoues, make an appointment to have it checkt out and then when you are on the table , tell theme point blank..TAKE IT OUT...
take your husband with you if he is avalble. i have another one for you. depending on what post you are stationd at, you ask for a list of providers of post and then go see one of theme. but eather way , do not mess around with this any more, make you appointent , dont tell theme untill you on the table and then make sure the show it to you.. dont let theme sweet talk you. i know that tri care would weather pay for an IUD then for having a baby. so the will try to talk you out of it.
now then for the taking it out your self, yes there is woman on here who have and it worked for theme and some had there hubby do it.i dont think i would recement it. dont try the ER, eather becourse there are not allowed to take it out there. i tryt that and was told that. nice aint it.i tryt it becourse i did nt wanto wait for an appointment and wanted it out.
anyways, i have it now now for several month and i feel great. iam on BC callt YAZ and it seems to be working great. iam a heavy smoker and at 1t the didnt want me to get it, but i got it anyways.
please keep us posted and good luck to you.