but some people don't know the difference between a hug, ie; love, affection, caring, concern, appreciation for who the 'hugee' is...... and point blank sex. People who have been deprived of parental love as children have had nowhere to learn about real love, and so all they learn is about the physical contact that adults share, which should be an end result of pure love, but obviously not necessary. Like confusing a desert for a full meal.
Do you know the diffference? This is a very important area for you to discover, and it's not a journey that you can take by yourself.
I've also wondered like Ruth said, whether you are interacting here, or simply blogging your thoughts. Sometimes by the complete avoidance of a genuine response, it would appear to be the latter. We all wish you were really trying to communicate and explore things along with the rest of us, but sometimes it is difficult to not assume that you have as contemptuous an attitude for us on here as you do the women at work. I sure hope I'm wrong because that would be really sad. It would mean that on the one avenue where you are truly exposing your inner self and thoughts and where you are actually obtaining helpful responses, you are sabotaging that as well.
Only you know the answers. I hope the very best for you.