You are in no way alone with the problems which you have been having!
There are "MANY" people having the same problems, but they have just not taken the time to think and use any Common Sense about the condition!
This is one of the reasons why this forum is operating, so as to give people who are interested in another point of view as how they may Help themself, without "KILLING" themself and also without spending "ALL" of their Hard earned Money, by giving it to the "ESTABLISHMENT" !!!!!!!!
When some people are offered a choice to spend their money on their own needs, or give it to those who want to buy another condo or fancy car etc, most people may choose to keep their money for themself and their own Family needs and enjoyment!!!