"Also much of what you are describing is not specific to men, so the problem is not a function of too much testosterone."
No offense, but you don't know what you're talking about here...women can have an imbalance of testosterone as well as men. Please do you homework instead of just guessing! I know because it happened to me. And anger doesn't bind anyone together in the long run - why do you think R is almost 30 and never had a successful relationship?
Rkygar? - have you noticed that your last posting of "weird feelings" drew a HUMONGOUS response? Full of generous, loving people trying to support you but where are they now? Just like your gf, they don't want to get involved now as you showed your true colors then. You lost their support just as you lost your gf thru your own self-sabotaging behavior.
Honestly, no one wants to hear your continual "I'm such a jerk...poor me" whining. Get a journal if you refuse to help yourself.