its not my problem. oh, it affects me all right. try being a 50yo white male in america today with no position or money. for most people, i am seen only as a possible threat. warms my heart.
but i dont care. i dont let any of that affect how i treat anybody and i dont let it affect what i otherwise do. its everyone elses loss, not mine. your issue divides. how can anything positive come out of a discussion about that?
i love women but my heart doesnt bleed for them. the majority of the most capable people i know are women. if i were to feel sorry for anyone it would be the children of the idiot men and women i see daily.