I'm not bragging, this is just to give others hope, because I didn't have any.
Thank you all for your replies, help and advice! It was because of you that I found him! You gave me the strength and confidence to open myself up to love.
Only 1 month after my initial Post "Why Can't I Find A Man", I met him. We have been together for almost a year and a half now.
He really is THE most wonderful man in the world! We get along PERFECTLY, we finish each other's sentences and like all the same things.
He is SO handsome too, so kind and SO VERY helpful to me in every way. He even helps clean the house!! Runs all the erands, and even LOVES my CAT!
He listens to every word I say, and helps me with all my problems and concerns, he's better than a therapist.
He takes excellent care of me when I'm sick.
He writes me love letters that melts my heart every day, still does.
He's neat and clean, he's has the most excellent manners, and is the most genuine "nicest" guy in the world. Anybody that knows him, truly LOVES him. He has the most faithful friends and family. Not to mention his wicked sense of humor!!!
He's totally law abiding, never been in trouble in his life, he is in Law Enforcement.
His family honors and respects him, his grown Children and Grandchildren love him dearly, he's oly 51. He looks not a day over 40.
We have the same spiritual believes, we enjoy the same activities. We had the best summer we ever had, filled with hiking, picnicing, shows, dinners, family get togethers, and going to all the fairs.
We are a PERFECT match!
Before I met him I wrote out all the things I wanted to find in a mate, the list contained about 250 things, I'm very picky, guess what, he meets all but 2 or 3 of the list, truly a miracle!
It is a little scary though because we share each other's ailments, whether it's a pain in a part of the body, or something emotional, I either feel it at the same time or shortly after, and it's the same with him. Even good things too like having a great day and feeling joyful, he and I will be feeling the same. We rarely are out of since emotinally.
I read this could be a "Twin Flame" thing. It's a strange phenomenon. I have to learn more about it. We call each other "my flame" sometimes.
He tells me I'm the love of his life and has never loved anyone nearly as much as me, I feel the same. I get along wonderfully with his family, we all love each other.
My family LOVES him.
Anyway we are getting married, but no date set yet. Oh yea, only 2 months after we got together, he gave me a beautiful diamond "promise" ring.
I've never been happier in my life, and looking forward to sharing the rest of it with him.
We are perfect together, but our life situation isn't perfect yet, and frustrates me from time to time, there are a couple of things like finances, work and a bit of a health issue, but I know it will all work out and eventually and truly be "Perfect".