need practical help in balance and harmony of my Leo sun and virgo moon

Hi i am doing a lot of soul searching and my astro chart in http://www.astro.com has been very enlightening.I have the Sun in Leo and Moon in Virgo i am a Leo born August 5th 1971 3.05am Uk gmt.Does anyone know how i would balance my Leonine side with virgo as ive read that they conflict and unless i harmonise them it will be difficult to be happy.The thing is i feel this conflict very much and have done so for years swaying from demonstrative energetic happy leo to thoughtful doing for others intellingent virgo and feeling guilt for my exuberance and then feeling walked all over for doing things and caring to much for others.I am an attractive person adn i realise i have a sunny persona that people are drawn to but then i feel guilty of being outwardly showy and revert to hiding my gifts and doing for others in a martyr type way.These traits have led me to have jealous people around me as a consequence of being liked,lighting up a room or for attraction (im not sure for what anymore)and be used because i help without question and have in the past put myself last.A sense of shame about myself and behaviour and i would like to harmonise all this how would i go about that?Any help would be much appreciated. Tweet