Any thoughts? Maybe we are all part of each other. Maybe everyone who ever lived, is living now, and will be; and I and you and he and she are part of one being, one whole. So if a "dead" soul choses to go back, that soul takes part of all of us. I don't exactly get what I'm trying to say, but I understand at a deeper level that whatever happens to you and him and her at some level affects me; that every tiny progress I make builds others--people that I mostly don't even "know", meaning I haven't officially met them, but it doesn't matter. When I get negative, bummed out, that flows out like from me a human virus through our common bloodstream. When I truly love, everyone including all of you and him and her are affected. We are tied together, like it or not; if a soul comes back to earth for another round of this craziness, it makes sense we, living and dead, are affected by that choice and would invest our own learning,experience, into that soul. Your experience makes sense if we are intertwined.