Harmonic, I think you meant to address popjohn3rd.
I don't really get rejected anymore because I don't try. I
I have my health and my career that I am trying to get right before I get back into that.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder? To a degree, but there have been experiments that have shown that certain features are almost universally attractive in humans.
I argue about this with a friend of mine who is considered attractive. Pretty Women approach him all the time. He is shallow and only goes for the ones that are the most attractive. He rejects women that the average man would kill for. But he stills gets rejected once and awhile. The more confident you are the less a rejection will bother you, and I believe that confidence will make anyone seem more attractive.