Hello, I am a healthy, early sixties, african american female, married to a well endowed man. I love when we make love until recently. I just want him to get it over with and we have quick sex these days. I want my libido back. I have tried over the counter notion, portions, pills, creams and nothing works as well as advertised. Anyone have any success with some of the products listed on this site? I keep spending more and more money with NO results to increase my sex drive or bring it back to minimum level.