Really interesting forum.
One thing that I have often wondered about, and always wanted to ask (without sounding too strange) - My father died in 2002 and since then my health has been poor,things have not gone well, just bad luck. Strange thing is around the time of his death each year, I usually have an accident of some kind.
We never had a close relationship, and became estranged years before he died.
I suppose this sounds strange, but I just wondered if he is still around me(????).