LOL! Hilarious. Well, I wasn't going to feed you false hope, only you can change yourself no matter what anyone says anyway. If you feel like a "loser" then that is your own feelings towards yourself. If you want to continue down the awful path you're on now then go right ahead; continue being a loose, promiscuous woman, continue getting drunk...your life, not mine! Get a flashlight ready sweetie, you'll need it to lit up the dark path you're headed on. Look deep within yourself for a positive perspective, not for others to lift you up. Good luck! I'm DONE!