You make a good point about the coconut oil possibly actually flushing more stones out.
The coconut oil may cause a bad reaction for Midlothian Girl, however. It all boils down to that a person needs to know their body - and what they can or cant' digest, etc.
Now about the tone of your post. I dont think you meant it to sound condescending, but it did sort of come off sounding like that. I've also typed things in certain ways where i've sounded that way-without meaning too. I'm always doing this on Instant Messengar..lol!
That's why the best way to talk with someone is face to face- if ya get the chance!- Then you can see someone's body language and hear the actual tone of their voice.
Anyways, I hope you guys have no more hard feelings with each other.