Today a friend called telling me of his problem. His mother at age 70 is suspected of having breast cancer. She has no insurance and no money. He is having a hard time financially as well and doesn't know where he is going to get the money for her tests and biopsy and subsequent treatment if the test is positive. It is very hard to hear this and I say nothing but wanted to say just leave it be and cleanse. People don't want to hear that and they will probably lose all they have to pay for the treatments that will kill their mom. How to best handle these situations?