I'll admit that her looks does have a big reason I haven't left her. Also I connect with her boy and it is nice to be in a family environment.
I should add we have been dating just short of 7 months, which honestly feels like 7 years. She is my first serious relationship since I got divorced and yes, another " perk " if you will, is she is 14 years younger than me. I realise that is very shallow to think I have a young woman on my arm, but it does appeal to me.
I do believe she is bipolar. She is extremely highly sexed, which is a symptom of the condition, and she has been promiscuous in the past. I do wonder if she would cheat on my me but feel she is loyal.
I know deep down she is a good person and if medicated, she can be someone I would want to settle down with.