Been There ...... reading from the thread below I saw your love for your father. You can think what you like but I believe your absolute love for your father is within you and his name should not, I believe, enter into any differences with others whomever they are.
You have a deep internal bond/love with your father so it goes without saying that the love you have is not banded about to justify anything.
There is no-one here or anywhere else for that matter that would disagree with you on this and there is no need for you to rebuke others because of your terrible loss.
I understand about the love you have being betrayed by others, but you must forgive them otherwise you will have this follow you till the end of time and I personally feel for you although I know your rejection of what I say.
I am not telling you what you must do for I have known you for a long time and also know that you are still suffering your loss but I feel that you dad would not wish that you would suffer because he loved you too much for that to happen to you.
Remember him like you would want him to remember you and that is love and forgiveness towards others.