LOL...how wonderful it is to hear about your daughter. Children are such a delight. So good to get to know you and your story of being a parent.
There is nothing so sincere as the "I love you" of a chastised child. These hugs are the most heartfelt, and often this is when they tell their little secrets and fears to us. Like they can trust us more than they did when everything was going there way. Its a deeper place now that they know even when they are wrong they can trust you to be safe and strong at the same time. These are precious times.
God bless you and your husband i your courage and strength.