Grace, I have nothing personally against you. What I have learned though, through Refreshed, and others, is that it's extremely hard, more like impossible, to be friends with those that don't share the same beliefs. Not saying it can't be done, but I personally have not seen it work out very much.
So, I'm done trying that. I've wasted too much time trying to do that.
I knew from the beginning, a few years ago, that Refreshed and me did not see eye to eye on what I considered important issues. But we both tried to remain friends despite that. But then it just all blew up recently, through some private messages. I found out how she really felt all along, which really I already knew, but tried to ignore I guess. But no thanks! Life is hard enough without friends like her thinking she is on some high horse ruling all these poor people down on the low horses.
She said a bunch of lies about me, fed no doubt to her by the devil, and I said good bye.
I have true friends that are an encouragement to me. I can't waste time on these hurtful relationships anymore. Time is too precious.
Grace, just seek God to lead you, I will do the same, and all will be well if we just keep doing that.