This Awareness indicates that possessiveness is simply a matter of degree of ownership. If entities are too insecure in their love for one another, they demand more from each other, and if one is more insecure and the other is less insecure, then the insecure person, the person with the greatest insecurities, will be more possessive of the other. Usually, this creates dissatisfaction on behalf of the one who is not so insecure, and the entity is dissatisfied with having someone become too clinging, too demanding, to possessive, and the entity finds his or her sense of personal freedom been taken away so that the entities seeks more constantly to find freedom from this person, rather than becoming closer to the person. The more healthy relationship finds each of the entities secure in themselves, and giving attention to each other to a degree that is not overwhelming to each other or demanding of each other, but comfortable to each other.
This Awareness wishes to emphasize comfort in a relationship as being the greatest bond that entities can have, far greater than possessiveness, jealousy or agreements or rules or demands that many entities use to bring themselves together in a relationship. If entities feel comfortable with each other, the relationship is likely to endure. If entities make rules for each other, make ultimatums and demands on each other; if entities must express possessiveness or threaten each other, it disturbs the comfort of the relationship, and the entities are already beginning to split from each other.
This Awareness indicates that a relationship built on comfort and affection expressed between entities, wherein they serve each other; this relationship is endurable and pleasant for both parties, but if entities have a relationship in which one dominates the other in a sense of master and slave, the owner and owned, or anything of this nature, where one is subordinate to the other, you are not really having a marriage, a romance; you are having an arrangement, a servant / master arrangement. It is not worthy of pursuing.